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Oct 6, 2011 2:22 AM CST no true love anywhere
roongmitra
roongmitraroongmitraChaiangmai, Northern Thailand Thailand26 Threads 349 Posts
anybody find true love in CS??
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Oct 6, 2011 2:46 AM CST no true love anywhere
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
roongmitra: anybody find true love in CS??

awwww, I hope you find a true Love. where are you looking?? are you staying home? are you looking to move far away??
for me the answer is I have only found "False Love",,,I know others here have even got married!!! and are still happy.
good luck too you.
;-}
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Oct 6, 2011 3:00 AM CST no true love anywhere
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
roongmitra: anybody find true love in CS??


nope, but never give up hug
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Oct 6, 2011 3:06 AM CST no true love anywhere
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
no never found it
have tryed very hard
i think i'm invisable to nice looking women who can't find love
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Oct 6, 2011 3:10 AM CST no true love anywhere
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
arapaho: no never found it
have tryed very hard
i think i'm invisable to nice looking women who can't find love


I think I am the same frustrated to men that is doh

grin
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Oct 6, 2011 3:17 AM CST no true love anywhere
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
ever been told to lower your standards
what the hell does that mean ???
accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like
and never love them,
i choose to be on my own then do that
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Oct 6, 2011 4:07 AM CST no true love anywhere
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards
what the hell does that mean ???
accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like
and never love them,
i choose to be on my own then do that



Me, too. I must have an alpha male or nothing. It's written in my Akashic records.peace
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Oct 6, 2011 4:19 AM CST no true love anywhere
dude49
dude49dude49hayes, Greater London, England UK63 Posts
Goddess4u: I think I am the same to men that is
hi, good morning , something for you,
bouquet
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Oct 6, 2011 4:20 AM CST no true love anywhere
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards
what the hell does that mean ???
accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like
and never love them,
i choose to be on my own then do that


Maybe you should raise your standards from focusing on the outside bit.

Beauty is from within and if you don't realise that, many women will not be interested in you, regardless of their outward appearance.

It may not be that you're invisible, so much as highly visible for having a poor attitude.

I'm not trying to be mean to you, just trying to give you honest feedback from how I have reacted to your posts.
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Oct 6, 2011 4:38 AM CST no true love anywhere
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
roongmitra: anybody find true love in CS??
not true love. but true affection..love comes later..a caring love.not many i think.on here......unless they relocate....are we to wise or to fright,d....to take that risk......dunno dunno dunno
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Oct 6, 2011 5:13 AM CST no true love anywhere
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
trueheart1941: not true love. but true affection..love comes later..a caring love.not many i think.on here......unless they relocate....are we to wise or to fright,d....to take that risk......



What do you mean "the risk"? There is no risk in true love.
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Oct 6, 2011 5:16 AM CST no true love anywhere
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
roongmitra: anybody find true love in CS??


Thought I did once. Should be receiving the divorce papers soon
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Oct 6, 2011 5:29 AM CST no true love anywhere
Kittt
KitttKitttMartinsburg, West Virginia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
I have not found anything on here but emails from scammers, posers and fakes. I am beginning to wonder just what is going on . I attract them it seems. I have not met one real person from here - not met anyone offline for that matter. If someone seems real, he is too far away!

Some days I just feel like letting it all go and stopping the search...but then, how will I ever find my true love? I am not having luck on the home front.

It is very disheartening and discouraging.

I have been told to "lower the standards" or to look further away - why should I have to compromise what I want? I did that twice (two marriages) before and look what that got me - heartache, misery, and divorce. I want what I want.....can't be helped and I feel I deserve someone nice, sweet, loving, etc., etc.! Someone close enough to get together and date, see where it goe. Why should we have to change what we want?
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Oct 6, 2011 5:31 AM CST no true love anywhere
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
vyoleta: What do you mean "the risk"? There is no risk in true love.
hi....Vwave ....define...true love....in the modern world......years ago love was ..: till death do us part......*that was true love*.....does that still apply.....????....emmmmmmm.jmo.
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Oct 6, 2011 5:42 AM CST no true love anywhere
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Kittt: I have not found anything on here but emails from scammers, posers and fakes. I am beginning to wonder just what is going on . I attract them it seems. I have not met one real person from here - not met anyone offline for that matter. If someone seems real, he is too far away!

Some days I just feel like letting it all go and stopping the search...but then, how will I ever find my true love? I am not having luck on the home front.

It is very disheartening and discouraging.

I have been told to "lower the standards" or to look further away - why should I have to compromise what I want? I did that twice (two marriages) before and look what that got me - heartache, misery, and divorce. I want what I want.....can't be helped and I feel I deserve someone nice, sweet, loving, etc., etc.! Someone close enough to get together and date, see where it goe. Why should we have to change what we want?


If its making you miserable, there's no point in being here - it will be somewhat self-defeating.

But, we all get a little maudlin fron time to time and we try to lift each other's spirits when that happens.

I think the best thing you can do, is change your priorities. Don't focus on the scammers, don't focus on finding the one.

Focus on friendship and having fun on the forums, the laughs, the debates, the support we give each other.

While you're having a good time, you might just come across what you're hoping for.

Relax, eh? bouquet
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Oct 6, 2011 5:45 AM CST no true love anywhere
myfisrt
myfisrtmyfisrtWest Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia4 Threads 980 Posts
Goddess4u: nope, but never give up



Good.. thumbs up .. because even unreturned love has its own rainbow..!

wave
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Oct 6, 2011 5:46 AM CST no true love anywhere
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
In response to: anybody find true love in CS??
hi jac.....lips wave I have good supportive hands...grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hug
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Oct 6, 2011 5:53 AM CST no true love anywhere
islandgirl62
islandgirl62islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia12 Threads 1,601 Posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards
what the hell does that mean ???
accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like
and never love them,
i choose to be on my own then do that


never lower your standards, never accept second best and always be true to yourself... when the right person comes along they will accept that and love you for the person you are....comfort
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Oct 6, 2011 6:03 AM CST no true love anywhere
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
trueheart1941: hi jac..... I have good supportive hands...

laugh roll eyes

Morning Pete. hug
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Oct 6, 2011 6:14 AM CST no true love anywhere
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
islandgirl62: never lower your standards, never accept second best and always be true to yourself... when the right person comes along they will accept that and love you for the person you are....


If we have no luck getting the kind of work we would like, we think about changes we can make to increase our prospects.

If we're getting low grades in our studies, we look at what we need to do to change that.

Why is it, if we are looking for love, or friendship and are having no luck, do we not do the same?

Inevitably, some parts of compatibility will be to do with others, some will be to do with ourselves, some will be to do with external circumstances.

Why is self-improvement not being true to ourselves? Why does it have to be one, or the other?

Personally, I wouldn't expect someone to accept everything about me if somethings about me were destructive. To my mind, positive change is about having integrity and taking responsibility for myself.
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