awwww, I hope you find a true Love. where are you looking?? are you staying home? are you looking to move far away?? for me the answer is I have only found "False Love",,,I know others here have even got married!!! and are still happy. good luck too you. ;-}
ever been told to lower your standards what the hell does that mean ??? accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like and never love them, i choose to be on my own then do that
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards what the hell does that mean ??? accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like and never love them, i choose to be on my own then do that
Me, too. I must have an alpha male or nothing. It's written in my Akashic records.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards what the hell does that mean ??? accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like and never love them, i choose to be on my own then do that
Maybe you should raise your standards from focusing on the outside bit.
Beauty is from within and if you don't realise that, many women will not be interested in you, regardless of their outward appearance.
It may not be that you're invisible, so much as highly visible for having a poor attitude.
I'm not trying to be mean to you, just trying to give you honest feedback from how I have reacted to your posts.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
roongmitra: anybody find true love in CS??
not true love. but true affection..love comes later..a caring love.not many i think.on here......unless they relocate....are we to wise or to fright,d....to take that risk......
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
trueheart1941: not true love. but true affection..love comes later..a caring love.not many i think.on here......unless they relocate....are we to wise or to fright,d....to take that risk......
What do you mean "the risk"? There is no risk in true love.
I have not found anything on here but emails from scammers, posers and fakes. I am beginning to wonder just what is going on . I attract them it seems. I have not met one real person from here - not met anyone offline for that matter. If someone seems real, he is too far away!
Some days I just feel like letting it all go and stopping the search...but then, how will I ever find my true love? I am not having luck on the home front.
It is very disheartening and discouraging.
I have been told to "lower the standards" or to look further away - why should I have to compromise what I want? I did that twice (two marriages) before and look what that got me - heartache, misery, and divorce. I want what I want.....can't be helped and I feel I deserve someone nice, sweet, loving, etc., etc.! Someone close enough to get together and date, see where it goe. Why should we have to change what we want?
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
vyoleta: What do you mean "the risk"? There is no risk in true love.
hi....V ....define...true love....in the modern world......years ago love was ..: till death do us part......*that was true love*.....does that still apply.....????....emmmmmmm.jmo.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Kittt: I have not found anything on here but emails from scammers, posers and fakes. I am beginning to wonder just what is going on . I attract them it seems. I have not met one real person from here - not met anyone offline for that matter. If someone seems real, he is too far away!
Some days I just feel like letting it all go and stopping the search...but then, how will I ever find my true love? I am not having luck on the home front.
It is very disheartening and discouraging.
I have been told to "lower the standards" or to look further away - why should I have to compromise what I want? I did that twice (two marriages) before and look what that got me - heartache, misery, and divorce. I want what I want.....can't be helped and I feel I deserve someone nice, sweet, loving, etc., etc.! Someone close enough to get together and date, see where it goe. Why should we have to change what we want?
If its making you miserable, there's no point in being here - it will be somewhat self-defeating.
But, we all get a little maudlin fron time to time and we try to lift each other's spirits when that happens.
I think the best thing you can do, is change your priorities. Don't focus on the scammers, don't focus on finding the one.
Focus on friendship and having fun on the forums, the laughs, the debates, the support we give each other.
While you're having a good time, you might just come across what you're hoping for.
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
arapaho: ever been told to lower your standards what the hell does that mean ??? accept some one you don't find attractive and don't like and never love them, i choose to be on my own then do that
never lower your standards, never accept second best and always be true to yourself... when the right person comes along they will accept that and love you for the person you are....
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
islandgirl62: never lower your standards, never accept second best and always be true to yourself... when the right person comes along they will accept that and love you for the person you are....
If we have no luck getting the kind of work we would like, we think about changes we can make to increase our prospects.
If we're getting low grades in our studies, we look at what we need to do to change that.
Why is it, if we are looking for love, or friendship and are having no luck, do we not do the same?
Inevitably, some parts of compatibility will be to do with others, some will be to do with ourselves, some will be to do with external circumstances.
Why is self-improvement not being true to ourselves? Why does it have to be one, or the other?
Personally, I wouldn't expect someone to accept everything about me if somethings about me were destructive. To my mind, positive change is about having integrity and taking responsibility for myself.
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