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womaniser: as i said allready a women and a child/children or a father and his kids if the other parent is not involved could move if they wanted to aswell
seriously..im buying u a bag of points for xmas and u can start working on practising in not missing them...
fifitheminx: seriously..im buying u a bag of points for xmas and u can start working on practising in not missing them...
u make a song and dance about a woman and her child or father and his child moving overseas if the parent needs concrete employment that there not getting here.. now if nobody has a problem with them going i certainly dont see the problem in itwomaniser: u make a song and dance about a woman and her child or father and his child moving overseas if the parent needs concrete employment that there not getting here.. now if nobody has a problem with them going i certainly dont see the problem in it
i didnt sing...or dance..
i just said its not as cut and dried...
fifitheminx: i didnt sing...or dance..
i just said its not as cut and dried...
whats wrong with it?? as people say ''make a new start''i just said its not as cut and dried...
womaniser: whats wrong with it?? as people say ''make a new start''
fifitheminx: you cant just drag kids around like that..
single parents need a network of some type if they want to work and if uve more than one child the hassle doubles..and triples ur talking breakfast clubs..afterschools..creches..imagine having 3 kids 2,6 and 9..u need all of them facilities...would cos ya more than a weeks wages. here or abroad.
people see words like creche and school and assume they fit most jobs, and most employers have a slight problem with ya calling in sick cos ur kids are but ya have to!
and very important, what about access to the other parent?
single parents need a network of some type if they want to work and if uve more than one child the hassle doubles..and triples ur talking breakfast clubs..afterschools..creches..imagine having 3 kids 2,6 and 9..u need all of them facilities...would cos ya more than a weeks wages. here or abroad.
people see words like creche and school and assume they fit most jobs, and most employers have a slight problem with ya calling in sick cos ur kids are but ya have to!
and very important, what about access to the other parent?
Mine were approx that age when I seperated, was difficult enough to manage here and I had brilliant family support, couldnt imagine trying to do it away from that.
Glatlol: Mine were approx that age when I seperated, was difficult enough to manage here and I had brilliant family support, couldnt imagine trying to do it away from that.
look who it is.... its the women who stole my burger on o connel street
I had a read and i agree with Fifitheminx!
I had a read and i agree with Fifitheminx!
Glatlol: Mine were approx that age when I seperated, was difficult enough to manage here and I had brilliant family support, couldnt imagine trying to do it away from that.
i moved with my kids this may..same city...all my family are in diff counties..so i can only imagine how much harder it is in a place u know nobody.
my kids are close to that age too.
womaniser: CS shes winking at me, tell her to stop
u tell me to stop!! ya big baby lol
fifitheminx: i moved with my kids this may..same city...all my family are in diff counties..so i can only imagine how much harder it is in a place u know nobody.
my kids are close to that age too.
ill use a father as an example.. a father with a child, no contact with childs mother whatsoever, hes struggling 4 work, struggling to pay bills, gets a great job offer overseas, does he go and make a new start??my kids are close to that age too.
womaniser: ill use a father as an example.. a father with a child, no contact with childs mother whatsoever, hes struggling 4 work, struggling to pay bills, gets a great job offer overseas, does he go and make a new start??
if he knows people there who can help..depending on the age of the child..the childs disposition..
i know i kinda do look into these things..and pull them apart.
its called being a parent
fifitheminx: if he knows people there who can help..depending on the age of the child..the childs disposition..
i know i kinda do look into these things..and pull them apart.
its called being a parent
what did i just say to you,,, ''deeply'' loli know i kinda do look into these things..and pull them apart.
its called being a parent
womaniser: ill use a father as an example.. a father with a child, no contact with childs mother whatsoever, hes struggling 4 work, struggling to pay bills, gets a great job offer overseas, does he go and make a new start??
Not unless everything is in place for the kids to be sorted out once they move (schools, creches, etc) . Then you have to weigh up if its financially viable!
Moving to a new country, you may be on a good wage but equally as much the cost of living could be really high, and sending your kids to school in this country could make you worse off financially than if you were on the social welfare in Ireland... There are hundreds of things you have to look at when making such a big move, and most importantly its the kids that come first, not the job you have on offer!
You also then have to take outer family into consideration and see what the situation is there! Is the other parent involved etc etc!
You cant just say oh im a father with a few kids and i have no job, i got a job in new zealand so simple, off we go! Doesnt work like that.
robpacciani: Not unless everything is in place for the kids to be sorted out once they move (schools, creches, etc) . Then you have to weigh up if its financially viable!
Moving to a new country, you may be on a good wage but equally as much the cost of living could be really high, and sending your kids to school in this country could make you worse off financially than if you were on the social welfare in Ireland... There are hundreds of things you have to look at when making such a big move, and most importantly its the kids that come first, not the job you have on offer!
You also then have to take outer family into consideration and see what the situation is there! Is the other parent involved etc etc!
You cant just say oh im a father with a few kids and i have no job, i got a job in new zealand so simple, off we go! Doesnt work like that.
see the questiuon i have is a single father with a child offered a lucrative job, nice pay packet that could sort the majority of his problems, would he look as deeply into it as you.. im sure schools and accomadation would be looked into beforehand.. there the main 2Moving to a new country, you may be on a good wage but equally as much the cost of living could be really high, and sending your kids to school in this country could make you worse off financially than if you were on the social welfare in Ireland... There are hundreds of things you have to look at when making such a big move, and most importantly its the kids that come first, not the job you have on offer!
You also then have to take outer family into consideration and see what the situation is there! Is the other parent involved etc etc!
You cant just say oh im a father with a few kids and i have no job, i got a job in new zealand so simple, off we go! Doesnt work like that.
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totally diff....