Help me fall in Love. ( Archived) (24)

Dec 25, 2011 2:23 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
Christmas always reminds me of being in love, especially when spent alone. I stopped looking several years ago for reasons that seem reasonable to me; my age, the energy required for the search, the emotional investment needed if I did find someone (fear of being hurt) etc. Mostly I feel quite content with my life, then I get that lonely feeling now and then....you know what I mean, it's why most of us are on this site, even though my profile says just a casual friendship. Who am I trying to fool ?
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Dec 25, 2011 2:25 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Everyone wants to love and be loved Leo. Go for it....handshake
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Dec 25, 2011 2:26 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
mbcasey: Everyone wants to love and be loved Leo. Go for it....


Thanks. I'd love to go for it, but my compass isn't working.
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Dec 25, 2011 2:30 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Yeah, I know how that works....laugh

How many years have we both been here? 5-6 years? Maybe love is pure luck.dunno
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Dec 25, 2011 2:31 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
In response to: Christmas always reminds me of being in love, especially when spent alone. I stopped looking several years ago for reasons that seem reasonable to me; my age, the energy required for the search, the emotional investment needed if I did find someone (fear of being hurt) etc. Mostly I feel quite content with my life, then I get that lonely feeling now and then....you know what I mean, it's why most of us are on this site, even though my profile says just a casual friendship. Who am I trying to fool ?


hug

you're never too old to find love.
perved your profile and I think you're a wonderful man.

so, I can only say I hope you'll find your mate soon.

don't give up

merry christmas
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Dec 25, 2011 2:33 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
mbcasey: Yeah, I know how that works....

How many years have we both been here? 5-6 years? Maybe love is pure luck.


Yes I think it's been at least 5 years. I've been off and on this site so often and have met some wonderful women on the forums. However, distance seems to be a problem.
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Dec 25, 2011 2:34 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
mbcasey: Yeah, I know how that works....

How many years have we both been here? 5-6 years? Maybe love is pure luck.


same for you,

I hope you'll find your mate soon.

merry christmas

teddybear
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Dec 25, 2011 2:36 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Thanks Carenza...just lost her yesterday so I am not really looking now....laugh uh oh

Merry Christmas to you and Leo.
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Dec 25, 2011 2:40 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
mbcasey: Thanks Carenza...just lost her yesterday so I am not really looking now....

Merry Christmas to you and Leo.


Just lost who ? And merry Xmas to you too.
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Dec 25, 2011 2:43 AM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
OK, it's one more shot of Scotch then visions of sugar-plums and a Tylenol in the morning for me. Love you all.

Leo
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Dec 25, 2011 12:20 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
paws4: OK, it's one more shot of Scotch then visions of sugar-plums and a Tylenol in the morning for me. Love you all.

Leo



Good Morning Sweet Leo!
Time to rise and shine.
Merry Christmas love!lips

Here is a drink of water and some Tylenol.waiter

Leo, you are a truly Wonderful man! The women in your area just don't know what they are missing!!

I do understand what you are saying though, actually, I have been feeling the same lately.sad flower

You've gotta watch having all those dreams of plums, they turn to prunes! Electric Prunes!

Love you Leo,
HLhug heart beating lips teddybear

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Dec 26, 2011 9:41 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
HealthyLiving: Good Morning Sweet Leo!
Time to rise and shine.
Merry Christmas love!

Here is a drink of water and some Tylenol.

Leo, you are a truly Wonderful man! The women in your area just don't know what they are missing!!

I do understand what you are saying though, actually, I have been feeling the same lately.

You've gotta watch having all those dreams of plums, they turn to prunes! Electric Prunes!

Love you Leo,
HL


You're too sweet.
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Dec 26, 2011 9:46 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
paws4: You're too sweet.



You catch more bee's with honey, so the saying goes.
Perhaps I will catch me a man, with sweet sugar?

HLlips
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Dec 26, 2011 9:49 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
paws4
paws4paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 Posts
HealthyLiving: You catch more bee's with honey, so the saying goes.
Perhaps I will catch me a man, with sweet sugar?

HL


You don't need bait my dear. You're enough.
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Dec 26, 2011 9:54 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
paws4: You don't need bait my dear. You're enough.



laugh I'm glad to hear that someone thinks so.
I wish I had known of you when I used to do my run to Canada.
I would have stopped in to see you!

HLhug
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Dec 26, 2011 10:14 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
Calliopesgirl
CalliopesgirlCalliopesgirlNashville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 374 Posts
I have been alone for ten years now...crying
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Dec 26, 2011 10:26 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
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Dec 26, 2011 10:38 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
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Dec 26, 2011 10:39 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
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Dec 26, 2011 10:46 PM CST Help me fall in Love.
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
paws4: Christmas always reminds me of being in love, especially when spent alone. I stopped looking several years ago for reasons that seem reasonable to me; my age, the energy required for the search, the emotional investment needed if I did find someone (fear of being hurt) etc. Mostly I feel quite content with my life, then I get that lonely feeling now and then....you know what I mean, it's why most of us are on this site, even though my profile says just a casual friendship. Who am I trying to fool ?


This is a normal feeling, I bet the majority who do not have someone feel this way. From the sounds of it, even if you have decided to give up, ha, you would still like someone in your life.

I think it's worth all the reasons you state to still not give up hope.

I'm glad you are being honest with your self. So change your status to looking for relationship instead of a casual friendship. Maybe you will get some nibbles. Who on here really wants a casual friendship unless you are married or involved with someone. A casual friendship means nothing to a woman. Flip it around and think if you met a women who wanted a casual friendship and you liked her, there would be a problem.

The Dobe
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