Nikogas: So,,there is a lot of us here that were married or had a relationship that for reasons didn't work out. But my question is, after all the dust settles, did you really Love them? I did. I really did Love my two wives that married me. Even though I will probably never see or hear from them again in my life,,,I still hope that they have a long and happy life. Some things disappear and leave us but I have a good memory and I know how I felt. So, anyone else? or do the rest of the people here just wish they never met their past "Loves"???
"Nikogas"
I think it depends on the circumstances. I loved my ex husband with all my heart and soul. If i never saw him again,it wouldnt bother me at all. Hes no longer the same person...but this hasnt put me off finding Mr Right.I would love to get married again....one day.
I agree with you. I did love both my husbands it just didn't work out. If you married them you must have loved them...something about them...so why lie about it. It's ok not to like them today, but I did love who I married.
KittyHugsGod's Country, North Carolina USA184 posts
Nikogas: So,,there is a lot of us here that were married or had a relationship that for reasons didn't work out. But my question is, after all the dust settles, did you really Love them? I did. I really did Love my two wives that married me. Even though I will probably never see or hear from them again in my life,,,I still hope that they have a long and happy life. Some things disappear and leave us but I have a good memory and I know how I felt. So, anyone else? or do the rest of the people here just wish they never met their past "Loves"???
"Nikogas"
Thank you for your honest answer. I two have two previous husbands who I Loved very Dearly, and I too remember how & why I feel in Love with them, and do have more fond memories than bad...and likewise I've told them both many times I wish them well in Love, Life, and Health.
It's so nice to see someone have positive things to say about their hurt in relationships gone by.
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"Nikogas"
I loved my ex husband with all my heart and soul.
If i never saw him again,it wouldnt bother me at all.
Hes no longer the same person...but this hasnt put me off finding Mr Right.I would love to get married again....one day.