help me understand please (48)
Drop him and back away from the whole mess. Find someone whos ready to have a relationship as this dude clearly is not 
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He is a poor excuse for a man guided by nothing more than the urge to mate with as many women as possible. Its a survival instinct used by primitive humans ..
Fek iiim ooof!!
Fek iiim ooof!!
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He is a poor excuse for a man guided by nothing more than the urge to mate with as many women as possible. Its a survival instinct used by primitive humans ..
Fek iiim ooof!!
Fek iiim ooof!!
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Sounds like he is playing you and his wife. Best just to leave.
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Some persons are addicted to toxic relationships. like a circle it never stops. don't get involved in that yourself. good luck Lovely
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venusenvy: Drop him and back away from the whole mess. Find someone whos ready to have a relationship as this dude clearly is not
HEY VENUS 
seems he is not ready to move on ,,,,with me you are right
backing away already j
ust wanted some understanding
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I think what everybody is telling you is too leave this MAN!!!He is just playing game's with your heart and mind.Do you really want that for yourself and too live like that?
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amahlala: Sounds like he is playing you and his wife. Best just to leave.
I told him the same thing ,,so you want your cake and eat it to ? of course he said no I live in another state no problem leaving
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lovely4u7da: HEY VENUS seems he is not ready to move on ,,,,with me
you are right
backing away already j
ust wanted some understanding
you are right
backing away already j
ust wanted some understanding
That might take some time doll, but in the meantime you have so much to offer the right guy it would be a shame to waste it on the wrong one...Good luck sweetie
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myhome: I think what everybody is telling you is too leave this MAN!!!He is just playing game's with your heart and mind.Do you really want that for yourself and too live like that?
that is the very thing he said his wife was doing to him playing mind games ,,I hate to admit it but that is exactly what it feels likeI want so much better for myself
thank you myhome
thank you minnie
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venusenvy: That might take some time doll, but in the meantime you have so much to offer the right guy it would be a shame to waste it on the wrong one...Good luck sweetie
thank you so much for your heart felt words 
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lovely you can find somebody else just for you.There is nothing worse then having somebody play with you like that.I'm sorry you have to go through this.
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lovely4u7da: I`v met this man over 2yd ago, we got to know each other pretty well he was just separating from his wife of 10yds, he went back to her after being separated for over 5months ,I told him I hope it all works out
Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
Hm, difficult question. May be he is missing his wife, he lived 10 years with her. And he may like you as well. If you have cool head and don't panic, you may get over that his transition period and start a proper relationship. But you can't be too sure about anything!
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myhome: lovely you can find somebody else just for you.There is nothing worse then having somebody play with you like that.I'm sorry you have to go through this.
Its lifebut I`m getting off this merry-go-round
thank you so much for your reply
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lovely4u7da: I`v met this man over 2yd ago, we got to know each other pretty well he was just separating from his wife of 10yds, he went back to her after being separated for over 5months ,I told him I hope it all works out
Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
Save yourself a repeat performance from this user and show him the road asap . All the best to you Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
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2 months-Please do yourself a favor & question.....GL
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drbombay: 2 months-Please do yourself a favor & question.....GL
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lovely4u7da: I know it is a short time ,what does GL stand for
Good Luck!..
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venusenvy: Drop him and back away from the whole mess. Find someone whos ready to have a relationship as this dude clearly is not
Yep. Forget him and move on. That's drama with no end.
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Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND