help me understand please (48)
lovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Postsdrbombay: Good Luck!..
ok thanks 
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People are strange creatures! May be you can ask that question to him and let him think why.[/quote
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
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sunnyisles48: Yep. Forget him and move on. That's drama with no end.
my thought exactly - waaaaaaaaay too much dramabreak all contact for at least 6mos to a year....and then see where he is IF you are single still at that time....just an idea
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lovely4u7da: People are strange creatures! May be you can ask that question to him and let him think why.[/quote
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
What you have described here is known as "hanging on a lover's cross" and I, for one, won't do that for anybody. If he isn't sure by now then he is just playing you. As Venus suggested, move on, it would be a shame to miss the right guy when you are hangin' with the wrong one. Best of luck
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lovely4u7da: I`v met this man over 2yd ago, we got to know each other pretty well he was just separating from his wife of 10yds, he went back to her after being separated for over 5months ,I told him I hope it all works out
Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
Well it did not and we have pick up where we kind of left off except he is in another state living right now
He has been separated for 2 months ,saids it was awfull and does not want to ever go back all the while confessing his love for me and wanting to get married and make a life together
He txt her saying he missed her , I`m like what the what? He said he just wanted to keep a dialog open between them, dont make know sense to me ,but why if it was so awfull and you dont want to go back? he saids he was feeling sorry for himself and having a weak moment
is it to soon to expect him to feel different?
what should I do?
my mind is telling me to give him more time to figure his self out
HELP ME UNDERSTAND
Kick him in the balls and tell him what a lying piece of shoot he is! And then never speak to that waste of skin again.
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IamTab: Kick him in the balls and tell him what a lying piece of shoot he is! And then never speak to that waste of skin again.
I like your advice better than any thank you sir
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You need to find someone else dear he is still clinging to his wife yet proffessing his love for you? Sounds like a man afraid to be alone or who loves the thought two women want him at the same time. The relationship is not healthy so go find yourself a man with his head screwed on straight, they may be rare to find but we are out here...
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Lovely did you know him before he separated or meet him after???
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
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He is not giving himself time...he's on the rebound. He has to find out what he wants to do with himself first.
I would run for the hills. He isn't ready to commit, he is just having trouble coping with being alone maybe. I bet he will hurt you bad if you get close to him. JMO
I would run for the hills. He isn't ready to commit, he is just having trouble coping with being alone maybe. I bet he will hurt you bad if you get close to him. JMO
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rivame: Lovely did you know him before he separated or meet him after???
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
Hey...that's what I just said...but your is written better. 
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venusenvy: Drop him and back away from the whole mess. Find someone whos ready to have a relationship as this dude clearly is not
I agree! He's just messing with your mind!
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rivame: Lovely did you know him before he separated or meet him after???
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
I knew him b4 he separated and when he left his wife we started our relationship it lasted 5 mo, he went back and almost 2yd later he has left his wife again and wants to pick up where we left offLooks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
I feel like I`m on a roller coaster ride and its making me sick
thank you for your advice it has help me understand a little more
thank you Jeepers
thank you romanticman
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Bebinn: He's just using you.Unacceptable! find a real man and let him be the victim of his own circumstances.
thank you it is hard to face the truth when others can see what you been feeling all along
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Like the "Karate Kid" instructor said, "It is alright to walk on the right side of the road just as it is alright to walk on the left side of the road. But do not walk in the middle of the road."
Maybe not the exact words, but the gist is there.
Like Rivame and Jeepers wrote, he is on the re-bound. You do not need or want that.
Maybe not the exact words, but the gist is there.
Like Rivame and Jeepers wrote, he is on the re-bound. You do not need or want that.
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lovely4u7da: People are strange creatures! May be you can ask that question to him and let him think why.[/quote
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
I did and he did not have a answer right away so I gave him some time to think about it,,,still got him waiting to tell me
I might call him
I might not
I`ll give him all the time I think he needs
Sounds like you're expecting an honest answer from someone that hasn't still figured out what he wants.
Don't wait for HIS reactions / answers... you have a life to live so ...don't wait but REACT. Does that situation hurts you? Do you feel neglected?
Then... Give yourself a REAL chance to be REALLY happy with someone that REALLY loves you :)
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Antoniacv: Sounds like you're expecting an honest answer from someone that hasn't still figured out what he wants.
Don't wait for HIS reactions / answers... you have a life to live so ...don't wait but REACT. Does that situation hurts you? Do you feel neglected?
Then... Give yourself a REAL chance to be REALLY happy with someone that REALLY loves you :)
Don't wait for HIS reactions / answers... you have a life to live so ...don't wait but REACT. Does that situation hurts you? Do you feel neglected?
Then... Give yourself a REAL chance to be REALLY happy with someone that REALLY loves you :)
thank you bental
thank you antoniacy
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Thanks to all that took the time to reply CS is a great place only because there are people who really care to help
thank you thank you
thank you thank you
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Sweetie, move forward and never look back. 
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venusenvy: Drop him and back away from the whole mess. Find someone whos ready to have a relationship as this dude clearly is not
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