Carl96190: Really and truly, is this the business of anyone other than the two people involved in the relationship?
I am only trying to understand the culture or the norm and it may not be anyone's business but the 32 year old man in question is a foreigner so he needs to be a bit thoughtful about the acceptability of such relationships for the girl's family or society in general.
But what I have found from this thread is very encouraging and it has corrected my very wrong perception of such relationships. Although its too late as I already missed 2 chances but at-least now I know better whats right or wrong for future.
And I put the girl's age in my question as 19 just to present a worse case scenario, there are some 22-24 year old women too where i live and I am very hopeful that if I date someone it will be a 22-24 year old.
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What if the girl doesn't know the man's age and thinks he is younger, is it OK for the man to go ahead with the girl without revealing his age?
Really and truly, is this the business of anyone other than the two people involved in the relationship?