duce1969OPfraziers bottom, West Virginia USA610 posts
i thought i found the right one . she made me smile and we had every thing in common . but she always tells me shes going to call but never does we went out everything was fine as long as we went to my house.could it be shes hiding something from me ? i dont like playing games and i feel like shes playing games she tells me to call and when i do she tells me she cant talk and will call me later but never does . untill she wants to go out what sould i do? geuss thats what i get for going out with someone frome a nother dating site
Hi duce1969!you seem like a really nice guy,maybe she likes you,but she doesn't want to be seen with you in public,try and lose some weight and shave,I like a man who takes care of himself,hope this helps
Could be she has ADD or something similar. There are many such conditions where people get caught up in the moment and make all sorts of well-meaning plans and whatnot, but then once they are removed from that situation they simply get distracted by other things and just simply forget all about the things they had said they were going to do.
As far as why do people play games,…
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Excuse me? Are we supposed to be living in heaven now? Last time I checked I was still living in the very imperfect world called reality. Lots of downright nasty people around. And good-intentioned ones too, that have things like ADD or whatever. So may I ask why are you surprised by this?
I think she is being disrespectful and you are allowing it. If you find this behavior unsavory, tell her it how it makes you feel and find it intolerable to a healthy relationship. Make her own her behavior and the consequences instead of you.
duce1969OPfraziers bottom, West Virginia USA610 posts
my weight doesnt have anything to do with it . i work out im big boned never have had a complant . im just looking for the right one just seems like i look for the wrong ones . everytime and i have lost weight it dont look right with my bone mass bench 450lb and toss 55 lb bags all day as a mater of fact 900 55 lb bags a day. looks shouldnt have anything to do with it people need to get real and see whats in side . people grow older and there looks change men and women you may have just told me i was a dog were all here for a reson
yor rite, yor weight doesnt have anything to do w/it nor yor facial hair. SHE is acting in a way that is causing problems between you. sounds as if she doesnt see how much it upsets you either. try talking to her again. if the conversation doesnt satisfy you, it mite be time to make some decisions.
duce1969OPfraziers bottom, West Virginia USA610 posts
you know im not going to let one comment get to me she to me is the kind that plays game if looks are all that matter to her she not really looking for true love
How shallow...I truly feel sorry for you if all you are concerned with is looks. Your beauty will fade one day, I hope you learn to look deeper within a person before that happens or you will be a lonely old woman someday.
Hang in there duce...this girl is stringing you along for some reason. If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time. If she is going to treat you like this in the beginning, what will she do when she knows you well? Just something to think about.
duce1969OPfraziers bottom, West Virginia USA610 posts
thank you chele1964 you are right i talked to her this morning and she said she was dating someone else also dont know why that was so hard for her to say she knew what i was looking for she and she told me she was looking for the same so now shes alone with out me or him . because he dumped her last night an i dumped he this morning
I think that day has come and gone, to be perfectly honest with you..hey sweetie...psstttt...try wearing a halter top that actually fits you--and do some situps. It'll do wonders for that paunch you have.
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