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May 11, 2012 4:30 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Let´s praise .... the opposite gender!!! yay kiss

Share something pleasant or wonderful someone, you were in a relationship with, did for you which warmed your heart because it meant he/she had to go that extra mile!!!

One great memory I have is when he used to heat up water in 2 huge pans because the water boiler was crap and the bath water was never hot for long enough to enjoy a good soak. He used to bring the water in after a few minutes and top it up with hotter water so I could enjoy my bath. Thank you.

teddybear
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May 11, 2012 4:52 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Great Idea.

I will come back when I think of something nice to say thumbs up























tongue
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May 11, 2012 4:55 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
vinny1967: Great Idea.

I will come back when I think of something nice to say


That hard huh? wave
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May 11, 2012 5:03 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
EagleWoman: But why?

Why not just enjoy the beautiful memory?

I´ve always found guys feet a bit But there´s one guy I really loved giving foot massages to ...


Yeah your right. Enough of the blues She was a Lady and I have memories that will always be with me.

I always find it amazing what we do to please our partner when we are loved. The more we give the more we get back. heart wings

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May 11, 2012 5:16 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
vinny1967: Yeah your right. Enough of the She was a Lady and I have memories that will always be with me.

I always find it amazing what we do to please our partner when we are loved. The more we give the more we get back.


Memories tinted with hope (for more great things to come) are so much enjoyable than memories tinted with regret ... grin

There´s a spiritual phrase that says "Giving is receiving"

hug
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May 11, 2012 5:37 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
My last serious relationship sent me a bouquet of flowers on the 27th of every month. Our first date was December 27th.

He also surprised me our first Valentine's Day. I was in another city, 4 hours away from him, taking care of my sister's children. I was at a restaurant with my family when I looked up from a conversation I was having, and he was standing there.
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May 11, 2012 5:51 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Kaybee50: My last serious relationship sent me a bouquet of flowers on the 27th of every month. Our first date was December 27th.

He also surprised me our first Valentine's Day. I was in another city, 4 hours away from him, taking care of my sister's children. I was at a restaurant with my family when I looked up from a conversation I was having, and he was standing there.


Awwwwww!!! wow Wow on many counts ... must have been a good listener too, to know which restaurant you´d be at!! grin

hug
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May 11, 2012 5:53 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman: Awwwwww!!! Wow on many counts ... must have been a good listener too, to know which restaurant you´d be at!!

He asked pointed questions that seemed only chit-chatty at the time. hug
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May 11, 2012 5:56 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Kaybee50: He asked pointed questions that seemed only chit-chatty at the time.


Hhahaha! Muat have had fun planning it all!! And even more fun after the plan worked!!! grin
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May 11, 2012 5:58 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman: Hhahaha! Muat have had fun planning it all!! And even more fun after the plan worked!!!
Ah yes, the surprise did work well indeed. blushing
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May 11, 2012 6:04 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Kaybee50: Ah yes, the surprise did work well indeed.


blushing <<<<<< Do you think THAT be classed as explicit (on this occasion?) conversing


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 11, 2012 6:07 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
Jantie
JantieJantieperth, Tayside, Scotland UK4 Threads 161 Posts
I like this thread! far too many negative threads on here handshake

My ex surprised me with an Aviary full of finches and canaries ... He built it on his day off while I was at work ... I loved it heart wings
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May 11, 2012 6:12 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Jantie: I like this thread! far too many negative threads on here

My ex surprised me with an Aviary full of finches and canaries ... He built it on his day off while I was at work ... I loved it


Wow!!! Fast worker to get it all done in a day!!


Love the sound of birds chirping away!!



bouquet
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May 11, 2012 6:17 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
hiya EW, Vinny, Kaybee wave
not surprised to see you all on this thread..., you're all folks whose posts have helped me whether you know it or not...wavehug

there's a lot of things i could list
(yah..vinny...laugh its the ocd in me...lists...grin)

but the thing i am thinking of right now has to do with time.
repeating myself, yah...i know..
but all we really have is time.

and he makes time for me. every day. no matter how busy...makes time just for me.
we both have monster schedules right now, and he makes a special time each day and he listens, really listens to me...bad days, good days, blithering days, frustrating days, ....every day. and with that i find comfort and safety as there are many days i piggy back on his strength lately.

so it his time, that he shares with me, without judgement, and listens to me...that lets me know i am not alone, and that i matter..every day

ya can't get time back...so i'm very grateful he has chosen to spend it with me
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May 11, 2012 6:29 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
jono7: hiya EW, Vinny, Kaybee
not surprised to see you all on this thread..., you're all folks whose posts have helped me whether you know it or not...

there's a lot of things i could list
(yah..vinny... its the ocd in me...lists...)

but the thing i am thinking of right now has to do with time.
repeating myself, yah...i know..
but all we really have is time.

and he makes time for me. every day. no matter how busy...makes time just for me.
we both have monster schedules right now, and he makes a special time each day and he listens, really listens to me...bad days, good days, blithering days, frustrating days, ....every day. and with that i find comfort and safety as there are many days i piggy back on his strength lately.

so it his time, that he shares with me, without judgement, and listens to me...that lets me know i am not alone, and that i matter..every day

ya can't get time back...so i'm very grateful he has chosen to spend it with me


Thank you Jono!!

Your posts (like this one) always have a quality about them hug

So good to take the time to cherish and count our blessings!!

bouquet
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May 11, 2012 6:34 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
jono7: hiya EW, Vinny, Kaybee
not surprised to see you all on this thread..., you're all folks whose posts have helped me whether you know it or not...

there's a lot of things i could list
(yah..vinny... its the ocd in me...lists...)

but the thing i am thinking of right now has to do with time.
repeating myself, yah...i know..
but all we really have is time.

and he makes time for me. every day. no matter how busy...makes time just for me.
we both have monster schedules right now, and he makes a special time each day and he listens, really listens to me...bad days, good days, blithering days, frustrating days, ....every day. and with that i find comfort and safety as there are many days i piggy back on his strength lately.

so it his time, that he shares with me, without judgement, and listens to me...that lets me know i am not alone, and that i matter..every day

ya can't get time back...so i'm very grateful he has chosen to spend it with me


Was off to bed and I seen this but I could never ignore you Jono hug
What a lovely thing to say and the feeling is mutual. Some people post here and I always read their posts as I know I can learn from them. Your posts are always like this. Your insight and compassion always shine thru, as well as your ability not to take crap laugh
Us men are lucky to have so many strong, intelligent women here who bring everyone back in line when needed.

Now about your ocd laugh

Its amazing how things that don't cost money have been mentioned here and mostly it's giving our time to each other that means the most. Foundations are best built with lots of little things imo.
He is one lucky man.

teddybear
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May 11, 2012 6:36 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Nite All.

Love the thread EW hug
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May 11, 2012 6:42 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
its....nice to see friends on here.......who are are having good memories......or thoughts......of the present..times.....just thought i,d poke my nose in.......................peter,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
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May 11, 2012 6:54 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
I am getting on the road to drive to Kansas City right now. The weekend will be filled with family, graduation, birthdays, Mother's Day. But I will respond when I have a moment...

Nah, I'll take the moment right now.

Jono...you just opened up a waterfall of tears. Gosh, I needed your words more than I knew. Thank you for including me. What an incredible honor from an incredibly amazing woman.

And reading your words...that is so much what I seek, and what evades me. Time and attention...this is really not that easy to find; a man that wants me to be the one to receive his time and attention.

Thank you Jono, EW, Vin, and Truest of True. teddybear hug bouquet
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May 11, 2012 6:55 PM CST NOVEL IDEA ... let´s ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
trueheart1941: its....nice to see friends on here.......who are are having good memories......or thoughts......of the present..times.....just thought i,d poke my nose in.......................peter,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.


Hi Pete! Thanks for popping in!! wave
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