Why? (18)
Bit serious this post - agree with the not buying what you dont need, relationships happen and you dont always know they arent going to last cos if you did you wouldnt start them
Not sure about the last two - its very personal isnt it? Its sad if you cant provide as you would like for them - however the social security system seems to work so that people can provide to some extent and surely love is more important than material stuff?
Not sure about the last two - its very personal isnt it? Its sad if you cant provide as you would like for them - however the social security system seems to work so that people can provide to some extent and surely love is more important than material stuff?
so it is a worse crime than some nonse doing a couple of kids? get real, the bible is dated so yesterday, maybe i should write a new version
Here is my cheque for £20 - can I order an advanced copy please and can you sign it personally
The issue is far serious than this.
Millions are Kids are given bith to, without proper parenting.
This kids did not beg to be born.
why should they suffer.
And in return rebel agains the society?
Millions are Kids are given bith to, without proper parenting.
This kids did not beg to be born.
why should they suffer.
And in return rebel agains the society?
None of us asked to be born, we all suffer but we all get on with life... people have always rebelled against society.
Yes.
But you are were you are because of how you handle event in your life.
What if you have reacted differently? Or were you born with a silver spoon in your mouth?
But you are were you are because of how you handle event in your life.
What if you have reacted differently? Or were you born with a silver spoon in your mouth?
and your point is?
There are something children didn't have to suffer if, thing have been handle proper by their Parent.
What did these children suffer?
there are far worse crimes than not loving your child, stick to your big book if you like,and quote what you believe in, but stop the preaching.
Yes it is a shame that some kids are born in to this world without parents, and its a shame that some kids are born into this world with parents that don't care properly for them and god4us is right that without that support it would make their lives alot harder. But they are born in to this world and just because they dont have that parental support does'nt mean lifes not looking out for them. I had a ruff child hood just like alot of people have had, but i grew up to be someone really nice. I love my life and have learned to heal my childhood wounds and evolve into a better person. So i'm glad someone gave me the chance to live. But at the same time haveing kids is a big deal and should'nt be taken lightly, so i can understand why some may choose not to, as they dont feel they could provide a happy future for that child.
I agree without you perfectly.
And I admire your courage to have come this far despite you intial challenges.
But the Question remains, If this problems can be avoided for this innocent souls, why don't we do something about?
And I admire your courage to have come this far despite you intial challenges.
But the Question remains, If this problems can be avoided for this innocent souls, why don't we do something about?
If choose to live with it. it's okay.
1) Because it is a culture that we all acquire items in our life to make life easier.
e.g. You dont need a car - but do you have one?
You dont needa computer - but you have one.
Nowadays life is all about acquisition and attainment. IT is in our culture to want what our parents didnt have.
2) Relationships are never permanent, anyone who thinks they are, are only kidding themselves.
People change and when you wake up and say "I dont love you anymore" then its over.
Expectation is the real killer of most relationships. You expect that things will stay as they are, but people are all changing all the time.
3) Im assuming you mean "Why give birth to a child you cant love" In answer to that question ... Because its sometimes more preferable than to have it aborted. Also termination might be against the religion of the person. There are a whole heap of resons why.
4) There are reasons why the birth of a child is necessary and not criminal. Do you want to start the debate on third-world children?
e.g. You dont need a car - but do you have one?
You dont needa computer - but you have one.
Nowadays life is all about acquisition and attainment. IT is in our culture to want what our parents didnt have.
2) Relationships are never permanent, anyone who thinks they are, are only kidding themselves.
People change and when you wake up and say "I dont love you anymore" then its over.
Expectation is the real killer of most relationships. You expect that things will stay as they are, but people are all changing all the time.
3) Im assuming you mean "Why give birth to a child you cant love" In answer to that question ... Because its sometimes more preferable than to have it aborted. Also termination might be against the religion of the person. There are a whole heap of resons why.
4) There are reasons why the birth of a child is necessary and not criminal. Do you want to start the debate on third-world children?
Tough subject this one...kids aren't just brought into this world for the fun of it,though there are parents who don't care a bit about the child,think about the poor child who is separated from one or the other parent too!Both parents in a relationship that goes wrong may be at fault resulting in the relationship ending,i know i'm going through that very stage of life now,it its SO DAMN HARD!!!
It doesn't mean to say the child or children involved aren't loved or are loved less,in my case its not that way.
It doesn't mean to say the child or children involved aren't loved or are loved less,in my case its not that way.
Here, here! I agree with the last bit about preaching. But there is such a thing as contraception. Would help stop a lot of suffering. But is he suggesting that people are vetted as to whether they will be allowed to/should have children? That's never going to happen. We have a freedom of choice for everyone to have children, don't we?
Just my opinion ..........
Dx.
Just my opinion ..........
Dx.
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Why get into a relationship you ar not will to keep?
Why give birth to a child you can love?
I believe tht greatest crime is to give birth to a child you can not provide for.