Where's my present?? ( Archived) (83)

May 21, 2012 1:59 PM CST Where's my present??
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
almera03: I can be forgetful, not a problem I hear you shout, thank you, it has been a problem though in the past when I've forgotten an Anniversary, Birthday, etc.

How do you feel when a SO has forgotten an important date.

Do you make them "pay" for it, if so, for how long, a week, two??

there is this strange thing about me ( Yes I know you`re gonna find this hard to believe)...grin
But Im terrible with dates and numbers ,most of the time I don`t know what day of the week it is or which date ... in 40% of the time, I do know which month we are ...
Do I get pissed if my significant other would forget my B-Day??? Nope...the important thing is that she don`t beat the crap outta me in front of my family or friends...grin
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May 21, 2012 2:00 PM CST Where's my present??
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
almera03: and!!!!!!!

did say I'm terrible at taking hints


and ... whatever flows naturally ... depending on the mood ... weather ... anything from more hugs and kissing to exploring one another in case we missed something last time, to jumping into some clothes and going out for breakfast, a walk in the country/woods ... just lazying about enjoying one another´scompany ... whatever takes our fancy ...

and and ... wasn´t a hint rolling on the floor laughing No wonder you didn´t get it!! rolling on the floor laughing
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May 21, 2012 2:03 PM CST Where's my present??
Nessa7: You should of let him drive from the other city .... But just not be home when he arrived


aw Nessa........that´s not nice!!!!!
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May 21, 2012 2:04 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Boban1: there is this strange thing about me ( Yes I know you`re gonna find this hard to believe)...
But Im terrible with dates and numbers ,most of the time I don`t know what day of the week it is or which date ... in 40% of the time, I do know which month we are ...
Do I get pissed if my significant other would forget my B-Day??? Nope...the important thing is that she don`t beat the crap outta me in front of my family or friends...
I do take offence if my Birthday has been forgotten.....

but how can I say anything, knowing what I'm like laugh
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May 21, 2012 2:05 PM CST Where's my present??
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: and ... whatever flows naturally ... depending on the mood ... weather ... anything from more hugs and kissing to exploring one another in case we missed something last time, to jumping into some clothes and going out for breakfast, a walk in the country/woods ... just lazying about enjoying one another´scompany ... whatever takes our fancy ...

and and ... wasn´t a hint No wonder you didn´t get it!!
thats true.....poor ....Almer.......what you never had.....you will never miss.......comfort comfort comfort grin
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May 21, 2012 2:07 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
EagleWoman: and ... whatever flows naturally ... depending on the mood ... weather ... anything from more hugs and kissing to exploring one another in case we missed something last time, to jumping into some clothes and going out for breakfast, a walk in the country/woods ... just lazying about enjoying one another´scompany ... whatever takes our fancy ...

and and ... wasn´t a hint No wonder you didn´t get it!!
mumbling
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May 21, 2012 2:08 PM CST Where's my present??
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
bhirdie: ahhh...just the mention of it makes my blood boil !
my ex not only chose to forget my birthdays, but deliberately chose to say nothing ( i'm not talking about presents, that would be another level which i never expected of him) but let's say i got 'happy birthday' and a kiss maybe 5 times in 17 years we were together.
nooo...he would come home, to a room full of guests, to see a birthday cake that i made myself (which is also very annoying) and he'd just sit and eat and drink and just say nothing. ok, i thought, maybe he's ashamed for forgetting...when people leave he'll congratulate me.
nothing.
i never said a word in front of family because i didn't want to be disrespectful.
ok, i thought, maybe he'll apologize tomorrow and maybe get me a little something to make me feel better.
nope. not a word, not a thing.
this year, the first birthday after we split apart, he phoned me early in the morning, woke me up in fact (!?!}, to say happy birthday, and that he's coming (driving, from another city,in the middle of winter) to bring a present he bought for me
i didn't let him come.


I think you were very understanding to have stayed with him for so long, he sounds awful, poor you sad flower
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May 21, 2012 2:10 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
trueheart1941: thats true.....poor ....Almer.......what you never had.....you will never miss.......
Is it just me True, or do I detect the Eagle woman doesn't like me moping
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May 21, 2012 2:15 PM CST Where's my present??
bhirdie
bhirdiebhirdieBeograd-Srbija, Shanghai, Shanghai China261 Posts
Goddess4u: I think you were very understanding to have stayed with him for so long, he sounds awful, poor you

thanks goddes teddybear
he was basically a good man , and that's the sad part of the story in fact , but he just was emotionally challenged, i don't know how else to describe it bouquet
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May 21, 2012 2:15 PM CST Where's my present??
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
almera03: Is it just me True, or do I detect the Eagle woman doesn't like me
....not in the least......A....you have a fine mind.........I think she is planning something special for you.....just dont rush it...........wink wink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 21, 2012 2:17 PM CST Where's my present??
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
trueheart1941: thats true.....poor ....Almer.......what you never had.....you will never miss.......


That´s quick thinking P.!!! After posting something like :

"..........AND....please carry on......this could be quite intresting........."

WHAT were you thinking? confused
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May 21, 2012 2:19 PM CST Where's my present??
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
almera03: Is it just me True, or do I detect the Eagle woman doesn't like me


Nah!! It´s just my ironic sense of humour grin
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May 21, 2012 2:20 PM CST Where's my present??
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: That´s quick thinking P.!!! After posting something like :

"..........AND....please carry on......this could be quite intresting........."

WHAT were you thinking?
er nothing ..really....as you said just enjoy the day.......grin grin grin
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May 21, 2012 2:20 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
trueheart1941: ....not in the least......A....you have a fine mind.........I think she is planning something special for you.....just dont rush it...........
If you mean special as in a "sicilian smile" I might agree with you uh oh
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May 21, 2012 2:20 PM CST Where's my present??
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
trueheart1941: ....not in the least......A....you have a fine mind.........I think she is planning something special for you.....just dont rush it...........


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Are you his friend? grin
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May 21, 2012 2:25 PM CST Where's my present??
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: Are you his friend?
.....I have no friends.........I am a outcast.......blues blues rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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May 21, 2012 2:25 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
EagleWoman: That´s quick thinking P.!!! After posting something like :

"..........AND....please carry on......this could be quite intresting........."

WHAT were you thinking?
omg, true, she's picking on you now...



*psssst between me and you, I think its that time of the month*
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May 21, 2012 2:31 PM CST Where's my present??
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
hoolet: aw Nessa........that´s not nice!!!!!


As they say it the thought that counts grin
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May 21, 2012 2:31 PM CST Where's my present??
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
almera03: omg, true, she's picking on you now...
*psssst between me and you, I think its that time of the month*
....oh yer...I fogot about that.............you mean booking holidays.....and painting....reviews.....you mean......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing confused confused
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May 21, 2012 2:36 PM CST Where's my present??
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
trueheart1941: ....oh yer...I fogot about that.............you mean booking holidays.....and painting....reviews.....you mean......
You now exactly what I mean....... you are right though to not name it, they do tend to get a bit touchy around that subject if we voice it uh oh
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