Yes thanks. Took a few days off work cos felt so bad I had an undertakers No. on speeddial. Feel physically so much better now. Never want to get a dose of Flu like that again. Thought I had friggin malaria.
While it is little consolation I guess we need to hold to the fact that we did the right thing and when all is said and done, that’s all we got and that has to be enough.
This is one of the reason I have become emotionally detached in relationships I am hopping that is I just have not found the one to get emotionally attached too.
Your a few steps ahead of me already. My prob is I become too attached and always to the wrong women. Heart on sleeve kinda thing so leave myself open to be kicked in the nuts time and time again. Just gotta harden up I guess.
Debbie was smart, funny, cute went back to her ex husband. As soon as he found out about me, he started poring it on and she went back to him. Her sister calls me and apologies to me for her sister (Sister is married ) she has this need to reassure me, that it was not me. That she and the whole family are mad at Debbie because she went back to a man that beat her and cheated on her. WTF
Theresa, an IQ of 168, beautiful, funny left me the day her X-husband GOT OUT OF JAIL. I was unaware that she had gone back to her X till later I was told she went to see her mom in Florida. I found all this out later after I had kicked her out. WTF
My wife of 10 years has an affair with the guy who washes the school busses down at her work. An x-felon on probation living with mommy. WTF
Any woman/girl who would come right out and state they wanted to be abused, to be commanded what to do, to brag about bruises as if they were a badge of honor is NOT representative of much of the female species at all. She clearly has extreme mental issues.
Maybe not only nice guys finish last, but also nice girls. If so many are attracted to the rotten ones, maybe the good ones are being overlooked because they aren't the best looking thing around?? Just a thought.
Chele I think it is like Ron was stating, you begin to not trust. The sad thing is it is not so much not trusting other people, you begin to lose faith in yourself. I have found it very important to look at the pattern of things when I don't like my life and change it. I do not date the "bad boys" at all. Attractive still is just that, yeah cute, next. Why harm yourself to "look good" to someone else because you are with them. Give me a guy who looks at me and sees me. Someone quoted it on here once a while back, I would rather be hated for who I am or loved for who I am not.
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That's one of the nicest things that anyone has ever said to me.....