"nice guys" step aside to often. that's how it usually occurs I expect Nice guys to excuse themselves from any form of competition for the ladies attention. I have a friend he is nototorious for allowing other men to dance or allow them to invite themselves to the table.... its a pattern that is expected.
but maybe I'm just seeing it differently then others .
They want to be treated like trash, stood up, cheated on, forgotten, and treated with serious lack of respect. Basically treated the opposite of the way a nice guy would treat them. It’s as if they just don’t know better or don’t care or, feel they are undeserving of being treated right.
In their defiance it is most likely boring be treated nice; no fun when a guy does what he says going to do. No adventure in not waiting up to see if their guy is going to come home at night and after all not have to argue with someone is no fun right?
Disclaimer This excludes all the women on CS and all the women CSers may know. The statements above DO NOT apply or make reference to known parties on CS. The statement above is base on experience and observations of watching women sign up for bad treatment over and over again.
The women I was seeing who went back to x husband come to find he cheated on her and beat her a couple of times AND SHE WENT BACK. Do I pick the wrong NO they pick me because they want a nice guy but don’t know want to do or how to feel when they are being treated with respect, kindness, caring and above all like a lady should be treated.
From experience (Please read previous posters disclaimer relating to women on CS)
Nice guys are the crutch women use between a**hole. A true nice guy has a reserved seat on the curb so that when she's done playing he dosent have to look for said seat when she kicks him there.
If I have offended any nice girls I apologize from my humble seat on the curb of life.
Wow. Well said. you have expressed my sentiments exactly. Was in a similar position upto very recently. I treated her with respect, kindness, dignity. There was nothing in this world I would not have done for her and she knew this. She couldnt handle it. She dropped me like a hot rock after not even a a couple of months. Left me confused, bewildered, deeply hurt and wondering what the hell I had done wrong. Took me a long time to realise I had done nothing wrong and the problem was hers not mine. Still miss her like hell though.
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