This whole internet dating is a mass meeting place but with only one heart its hard to spread it around, it goes thin. To talk to many girls at once goes against everthing, I feel. It goes the other way too girls have too many guys sending messages, it must be a nightmare sorting thru them all. Really this way of meeting degrades the quality of coming together I dont see how people can be true. So how to proceed and stay true? I am going just slowly and was just thinking of dropping out of it. How about you what do you think about this way of meeting?
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
gdheart: This whole internet dating is a mass meeting place but with only one heart its hard to spread it around, it goes thin. To talk to many girls at once goes against everthing, I feel. It goes the other way too girls have too many guys sending messages, it must be a nightmare sorting thru them all. Really this way of meeting degrades the quality of coming together I dont see how people can be true. So how to proceed and stay true? I am going just slowly and was just thinking of dropping out of it. How about you what do you think about this way of meeting?
Take it all with a pinch of salt but don't forget to have fun, too
I think it's best to view it as just one avenue of meeting others - relax and have fun and maybe something will happen for you - I also talk to only one person at a time and I will only talk with guys who feel the same (after we've been talking awhile - who want to talk to just one at a time) even though it is hard to tell how truthful people are being sometimes - having that preference of talking to just one at a time REALLY narrows the field! Once you get your preferences in order narrowing the field becomes easier
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Really this way of meeting degrades the quality of coming together I dont see how people can be true. So how to proceed and stay true? I am going just slowly and was just thinking of dropping out of it. How about you what do you think about this way of meeting?