WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED ( Archived) (22)

Sep 2, 2012 6:37 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
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Sep 2, 2012 7:39 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
In response to: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????


Yes, I wonder about that sometimes. Pity we can't change history and take a chance at taking the other road, so to speak. In hindsight, I've made some good decisions (when I was young) and some real whoppers (since I've been old) *sigh.
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Sep 2, 2012 8:24 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
If I never went on Classmates.com to look for someone from high school my life would be drastically different today
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Sep 2, 2012 8:28 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
montemonte: If I never went on Classmates.com to look for someone from high school my life would be drastically different today



what a pity you don´t want to elaborate.
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Sep 2, 2012 8:34 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
hoolet: what a pity you don´t want to elaborate.


It's not a pity Hooey. Besides I've told the story several times and since I've been on CS six years, many have heard it. No need to bore anyone again.
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Sep 2, 2012 8:41 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
montemonte: It's not a pity Hooey. Besides I've told the story several times and since I've been on CS six years, many have heard it. No need to bore anyone again.



well...with all the newbies about.............I´m sure they´ve not heard it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sep 3, 2012 12:34 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????


Hoolet lives dangerously.
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Sep 3, 2012 12:38 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
Scubadiva: Yes, I wonder about that sometimes. Pity we can't change history and take a chance at taking the other road, so to speak. In hindsight, I've made some good decisions (when I was young) and some real whoppers (since I've been old) *sigh.


I'm sure Custer and his men have said a million times over that they wish they had gone down a different path!! doh frustrated blues
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Sep 3, 2012 1:11 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
If only I had avoided going to that Solo Center meeting in White Center the night I met my first wife...but, then, I might not have met my second wife. Ah, the scales of justice...they are a very strange thing, indeed. confused
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Sep 13, 2012 11:19 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
SnarkyEmpath
SnarkyEmpathSnarkyEmpathPurgatory, New Jersey USA67 Posts
If I hadn't pulled that cord twenty years ago, my life could have been drastically different... But I often wonder if I'd have become the person I am. Probably not. And that's a terrifying notion.
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Sep 13, 2012 7:15 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Life is full of endless opportunities and life can change in an instant wine
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Sep 13, 2012 7:23 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
backintolight
backintolightbackintolightraging sea, Indonesia1 Threads 84 Posts
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????



If I was sane enough or smart enough I wouldn't end up marrying my ex and my life would be sooooooooo much different. I would have a great job, and I wouldn't have to through all the misserable things I've been through, but then I wouldn't have my precious beautiful 4 month old baby girl.. I used to regret my decision but now I kinda believe that everything happens for a reason. I had to marry my ex because from him I got my baby.. Life might be easier if I didn't marry him, but life without my baby isn't "life" for me.. :)
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Sep 13, 2012 7:47 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i've had a few of those 'life altering' events in my life.
i think i'm having one right now...
laugh
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Sep 13, 2012 10:09 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????


confessions confessions..two date in one night..dod they know?frustrated
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Sep 14, 2012 1:11 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
backintolight: If I was sane enough or smart enough I wouldn't end up marrying my ex and my life would be sooooooooo much different. I would have a great job, and I wouldn't have to through all the misserable things I've been through, but then I wouldn't have my precious beautiful 4 month old baby girl.. I used to regret my decision but now I kinda believe that everything happens for a reason. I had to marry my ex because from him I got my baby.. Life might be easier if I didn't marry him, but life without my baby isn't "life" for me.. :)


I wasn´t meaning that I would want to have changed my life......just had the thought about moments when it could have been totally different.
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Sep 14, 2012 1:13 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
cloud747: confessions confessions..two date in one night..dod they know?


Told my husband at a later date.......never saw the other guy again (surprise surprise!!!!)
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Sep 14, 2012 1:17 AM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
Another one.........when we decided to move house. We could have stayed in England but we chose to move to Spain. One conjures up pictures of how different life would have been.
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Oct 1, 2012 4:35 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
jono7: i've had a few of those 'life altering' events in my life.
i think i'm having one right now...


i had one next week
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Oct 1, 2012 9:24 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
cloud747: i had one next week

wave
hiya cloud,
grammar or prophecy?
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Oct 1, 2012 9:52 PM CST WHAT IFS.........MOMENTS WHERE YOUR LIFE PATH COULD HAVE ALTERED
SnarkyEmpath
SnarkyEmpathSnarkyEmpathPurgatory, New Jersey USA67 Posts
If I hadn't fallen off the porch...
If I'd told my mother about my brother and his girlfriend...
If I'd called my big brother May 9th, 2001...
If I'd left that damn cord alone...
If I'd gone to college fresh out of high school...
If I'd kept my first job...
If I'd fought more.....

I think I've already got too many huge "What if" moments... moping
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