I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
In response to: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
Yes, I wonder about that sometimes. Pity we can't change history and take a chance at taking the other road, so to speak. In hindsight, I've made some good decisions (when I was young) and some real whoppers (since I've been old) *sigh.
It's not a pity Hooey. Besides I've told the story several times and since I've been on CS six years, many have heard it. No need to bore anyone again.
montemonte: It's not a pity Hooey. Besides I've told the story several times and since I've been on CS six years, many have heard it. No need to bore anyone again.
well...with all the newbies about.............I´m sure they´ve not heard it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
Scubadiva: Yes, I wonder about that sometimes. Pity we can't change history and take a chance at taking the other road, so to speak. In hindsight, I've made some good decisions (when I was young) and some real whoppers (since I've been old) *sigh.
I'm sure Custer and his men have said a million times over that they wish they had gone down a different path!!
If only I had avoided going to that Solo Center meeting in White Center the night I met my first wife...but, then, I might not have met my second wife. Ah, the scales of justice...they are a very strange thing, indeed.
If I hadn't pulled that cord twenty years ago, my life could have been drastically different... But I often wonder if I'd have become the person I am. Probably not. And that's a terrifying notion.
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
If I was sane enough or smart enough I wouldn't end up marrying my ex and my life would be sooooooooo much different. I would have a great job, and I wouldn't have to through all the misserable things I've been through, but then I wouldn't have my precious beautiful 4 month old baby girl.. I used to regret my decision but now I kinda believe that everything happens for a reason. I had to marry my ex because from him I got my baby.. Life might be easier if I didn't marry him, but life without my baby isn't "life" for me.. :)
hoolet: I´ll start with the time I made two dates for the same night....one at 8.00 and one for 8.30. The first one was with the man that I went on to marry. The second one turned up as well.......what if I had altered the sequence of the timing???????
confessions confessions..two date in one night..dod they know?
backintolight: If I was sane enough or smart enough I wouldn't end up marrying my ex and my life would be sooooooooo much different. I would have a great job, and I wouldn't have to through all the misserable things I've been through, but then I wouldn't have my precious beautiful 4 month old baby girl.. I used to regret my decision but now I kinda believe that everything happens for a reason. I had to marry my ex because from him I got my baby.. Life might be easier if I didn't marry him, but life without my baby isn't "life" for me.. :)
I wasn´t meaning that I would want to have changed my life......just had the thought about moments when it could have been totally different.
Another one.........when we decided to move house. We could have stayed in England but we chose to move to Spain. One conjures up pictures of how different life would have been.
If I hadn't fallen off the porch... If I'd told my mother about my brother and his girlfriend... If I'd called my big brother May 9th, 2001... If I'd left that damn cord alone... If I'd gone to college fresh out of high school... If I'd kept my first job... If I'd fought more.....
I think I've already got too many huge "What if" moments...
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