TRUTH (38)
Now, what will you do with all that truth, build a rose garden!
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.[/quote]
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.[/quote]
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
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cloud747: my experience is that many ladies work on several projects at the same time, and when one project reached the objective, they dump the others..
PROJECT????? PROJECT¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿¿ I´ve never undertaken any affair of the heart as a project!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love affairs take time and dedication.......and that´s where the honesty comes in. If yer not serious........don´t lead anyone on.
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montemonte: Now, what will you do with all that truth, build a rose garden!
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
You met him for a weekend, and kept giving him money?
I'm sorry, if I understand this correctly, but that's just plain stupid.
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butterfly0123: You met him for a weekend, and kept giving him money?
I'm sorry, if I understand this correctly, but that's just plain stupid.
I'm sorry, if I understand this correctly, but that's just plain stupid.
Well you didn't understand it correctly
I knew him for a year
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montemonte: Well you didn't understand it correctly
I knew him for a year
I knew him for a year
but met for a weekend?
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butterfly0123: but met for a weekend?
Butterfly, we knew each other all year. I saw him during the year and went to see him for Christmas weekend.
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Regardless, if anyone is into a relationship and doesn't want to be any more then this should be said face to face and sencerely noted on the fact of kindness not as a jerk who is a coward to say why on any matter of the circumstance. 
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Excellent reply
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If you are dealing with a manipulator, the truth can only used if it gives them the power in the situation. If a man were to tell you that, then you get to choose what to do from there. If you are left blind and stupid then he gets to do what he wants and he has the control.
The way to help with this is never believe what is said, only believe what the actions tell you. If he always has excuses for not being able to carry through with what he tells you he will do, where he will be, what he is doing, money, etc.... Then you are being manipulated. You can either play the player if you are smart enough or the best bet is to RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK.
The way to help with this is never believe what is said, only believe what the actions tell you. If he always has excuses for not being able to carry through with what he tells you he will do, where he will be, what he is doing, money, etc.... Then you are being manipulated. You can either play the player if you are smart enough or the best bet is to RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK.
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montemonte: Now, what will you do with all that truth, build a rose garden!
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
There isn't a single reason as to why a partner ends a relationship without being honest, perhaps they don't wish to hurt you, are to much of a coward or just doesn't care, the truth you only really need to be aware of is, it's over.
Can't agree with you on that Al.
I had a man in my life for a year.
He was from another state. I traveled to see him for Christmas.
I spent the weekend with him, he took me to the airport and led me to believe I would see him again.
Needless to say, not only did I not see him again me but he didn't have the backbone to tell me it was over. He just abandonded the relationship without a word.
He used me for a year to get a ton of money out of me under the guise that there was a future for us.
And you think I should just accept it that he used me to get $60K out of me; that I should say "oh well, I guess it didn't work out".
That doesn't float with me. I caught up with him and he said he ran because I wanted a comittment.
If he told me face to face....before I gave him all that money....that he wanted out because he didn't want to make a comittment I would have been hurt but I could have accepted it. Instead he used me for as long as he wanted and then threw me out to the garbage.
People need to know why a relationship ends. Otherwise they will wonder what did they do wrong. The thing that I did wrong was trust him and hand over all that money.
That was five years ago.....and I don't give money away anymore.
Monte!
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the truth will set you free.thing will only get worse and build up if someone isnt honest.you are really interesting.but i cant send you any msgs.give me a shout on whatsapp 0763202180.my name is mark
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Why do people say" its not you its me" but what they really mean is " its not me its you" ?
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i was refering to you SPECIAL
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i was refering to you SPECIAL
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i was refering to you SPECIAL
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It's not a matter of if, it is a matter of will they. Unfortunately people's ego's get in the way, as if the other person is going to fall apart? Yes it hurts sometimes however don't think the other person can't sense you don't want to be with them. They may be relieved you don't want to!
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I know right! I cant help laughing when they say that, I will usually reply yes indeed it is lol
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I think that works both ways