Why are looks so important in relationial success (68)
Cuteguy12Albuquerque, New Mexico USA2 Threads 1 Polls 30 PostsIts something I think needs to be said and talked about
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Cuteguy12: Its something I think needs to be said and talked about
Mate, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Attractiveness is subjective. We don't need to talk about it, it just is.
Some people like this or that look, others don't. It is a part of being in the human soup mix.
If you like someone and they don't like you, well just suck it up. That's life.
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Halv0: Mate, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Attractiveness is subjective. We don't need to talk about it, it just is.
Some people like this or that look, others don't. It is a part of being in the human soup mix.
If you like someone and they don't like you, well just suck it up. That's life.
Some people like this or that look, others don't. It is a part of being in the human soup mix.
If you like someone and they don't like you, well just suck it up. That's life.
man this is not for me I don't struggle with looks i know i am very attractive its just a subject that most people don't like to talk about honestly my opinion is this if the girl is not attractive then i will approach her. thats me mate
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I meant to say if shes not above average i wont give her any time thats just me i think looks are important then personality. Mate
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Halv0: Mate, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Attractiveness is subjective. We don't need to talk about it, it just is.
Some people like this or that look, others don't. It is a part of being in the human soup mix.
If you like someone and they don't like you, well just suck it up. That's life.
Some people like this or that look, others don't. It is a part of being in the human soup mix.
If you like someone and they don't like you, well just suck it up. That's life.
I was thinking the exact thing, "Attractions" are not always explainable and especially in a business such as mine I have learned that what is beautiful or desirable to one is not the case with another. I think it is more the case when two people share that feeling in the same way and moment that becomes that Magic.
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Nikogas: I was thinking the exact thing, "Attractions" are not always explainable and especially in a business such as mine I have learned that what is beautiful or desirable to one is not the case with another. I think it is more the case when two people share that feeling in the same way and moment that becomes that Magic.
OK i disagree man if you don't look good attractive according to what society calls attractive then you wont have women who are attractive good looking or hot. Yes i believe personality goes a long way but truly if there's no physical attraction then threes not going to be any relational attraction.
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Cuteguy12: OK i disagree man if you don't look good attractive according to what society calls attractive then you wont have women who are attractive good looking or hot. Yes i believe personality goes a long way but truly if there's no physical attraction then threes not going to be any relational attraction.
Then what you have chosen is your answer, but that is surely by your own accord. Not everyone will agree on what is attractive. I did not mention anything about "personality" though having said it yourself it would seem that there is even more to the laws of attraction then meets the eye.
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Nikogas: Then what you have chosen is your answer, but that is surely by your own accord. Not everyone will agree on what is attractive. I did not mention anything about "personality" though having said it yourself it would seem that there is even more to the laws of attraction then meets the eye.
Alright i hear and understand your opinion but let me ask you personally how many who are good looking has told you what you are telling me. I am just guessing not many there is average facial features which make someone average then there is attractive facial features that the majority of women who are attractive will say you are good looking. I agree with you that some women will find other men attractive that other women wont. But still if you are good looking then the majority of people will agree. And your relationships will consist of only attractive dates and eventually marriage.
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Cuteguy12: Alright i hear and understand your opinion but let me ask you personally how many who are good looking has told you what you are telling me. I am just guessing not many there is average facial features which make someone average then there is attractive facial features that the majority of women who are attractive will say you are good looking. I agree with you that some women will find other men attractive that other women wont. But still if you are good looking then the majority of people will agree. And your relationships will consist of only attractive dates and eventually marriage.
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Actually the exact opposite that dude was average looking wasn't nothing to look at. me on the other hand i am good looking and the majority of the women i talk to are or good looking also. I am just wondering for people like shallow hal how they can only have relations with someone like them in looks. Lol yeah that movie was funny lol
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Cuteguy12: Alright i hear and understand your opinion but let me ask you personally how many who are good looking has told you what you are telling me. I am just guessing not many there is average facial features which make someone average then there is attractive facial features that the majority of women who are attractive will say you are good looking. I agree with you that some women will find other men attractive that other women wont. But still if you are good looking then the majority of people will agree. And your relationships will consist of only attractive dates and eventually marriage.
Fair question indeed. I have been amazed over the years and found that "confidence" in ones self, not to be confused with narcissism can weigh very heavy in how someone is perceived. But just the same this world is so intertwined with a multitude of ideals that can make almost anything seem to work if the two involved are attracted to each other.
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Cuteguy12: Actually the exact opposite that dude was average looking wasn't nothing to look at. me on the other hand i am good looking and the majority of the women i talk to are or good looking also. I am just wondering for people like shallow hal how they can only have relations with someone like them in looks. Lol yeah that movie was funny lol
Actually I was refering to you I see you as average guy nothing special where's maybe another lady might think you are good looking. JMO!
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When you both reach tge age of 50s looks doesntt count anymore but personality does
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Well can i be honest with you even though your 62 i cant imagine anyone calling you good looking that just honesty most women i have dated have been in the ranges of 8,9,10 not bragging just saying that guy in the movie was fat and average he had no features most women tell me i am cute because of my smile and eyes but you can go head think what you want and i hope you find someone in your age group seriously lol why are we having this conversation
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Cuteguy12: Well can i be honest with you even though your 62 i cant imagine anyone calling you good looking that just honesty most women i have dated have been in the ranges of 8,9,10 not bragging just saying that guy in the movie was fat and average he had no features most women tell me i am cute because of my smile and eyes but you can go head think what you want and i hope you find someone in your age group seriously lol why are we having this conversation
We aren't refering to me this thread is all about you and what you think of yourself as for me I couldn't care a less what you thought of me anyhow enjoy your life.
Vanity can be the downfall of some people just saying.
This is just a thread you asked our opinion
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Cuteguy12: Well can i be honest with you even though your 62 i cant imagine anyone calling you good looking that just honesty most women i have dated have been in the ranges of 8,9,10 not bragging just saying that guy in the movie was fat and average he had no features most women tell me i am cute because of my smile and eyes but you can go head think what you want and i hope you find someone in your age group seriously lol why are we having this conversation
are u trying to point out your good looking
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To the OP, when I first saw your face and read your posting, I thought that you looked quite attractive. Having said that when I read what you had to say, I did not find you attractive at all... Maybe this is why you only hang out with the plastic fantastics...... It is sad that you seem to think that humans need to look the most beautiful on the outside - try looking into the inside of a person (the heart, the soul and the reality). I think that you will find a whole, new world out there and have some magnificent conversations with the normal and average people that live on this planet ...
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Migsy: are u trying to point out your good looking my bf is not good looing but i love his personality not his physical appearance looks can fade but personality will remain
nice attitude your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have someone as sweet as you already you have happiness 
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Hi ms.curly@just dropping here on forums:-)thank you we are both lucky to have each other
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