Why do you want other's opinions when you are so sure your view is right?[/quote
Because what is right to me may not be right to you. To me it is right but everyone has there own say on it. And other people will disagree with me but the point of this post was to see what people say regarding this forum. Think about it i can say i only like a woman who wears this and looks like this way or whatever. But just because i say that does not mean everyone will agree. So this forum is open to everyone's opinion. Some will say personality some will say looks just because i say looks does not mean i am right. Many relationships have had success and the people were average or unattractive. But me personally my view is that there is more success when you are both attractive. But everyone has there right to there own opinion on this subject. Be blessed and thanks for the comments
Success is the focus of in attraction to your partner. It means everything from having good chemistry with each other to having a strong relationship were there is no cheating or anything that breaks the attraction i am not saying that looks are only the way to have success i am obviously saying that personality has a huge part in it also. My question was is it more successful in a sense of staying attracted to one another. I am sorry but you guys can call me a superficial shallow man for making this post I know I am not. Because i made this post to see what others would say on this huge controversy in society with relationship success. My opinion is as i said before. That having looks is a major part of relationship success but also you should have a firm strong loving personality to go with it. Thanks again for the comments on the post be blessed
I am sorry but you are absolutely wrong looks have a lot to do with relationships first of all if your not attracted to a person how then can you have a relationship. I mean of your in a bar or a club how can you tell me when you look for men or women for dating material that everyone looks at how cute they are personality wise. I am sorry but that is incorrect society looks at looks as a big deal in relationships. yes you need personality and the person has to be a person of character and someone you can see your self but scientific proof says physical attraction is very important in finding a mate ."- Nigel Barber Ph.D. "physical attractiveness appears to be an important signal of mate value that is utilized in mate choice"
Well i created this post awhile ago on the topic of success in looks and i have not commented on it sense i created it. the only reason i created this post was to see how many would say and how many say no about the success fullness so far i have not seen anyone stay focused on the fact i mean relationships. How many relationships fall through because the women or man is no longer attracted to there spouse. But then the other side is how men or women who are attractive would be faithful to there spouse lets stay focused on what the post is about the controversy that is around what a lot women say if your good looking u all care about is your looks and your relationship can only be success full if you have self control meaning you keep yourself only one woman. My point is this how many people are staying together as above average couples verses how many are breaking up with average couples. Don't bring the hammer down on me i am just wondering what your views on this alright be blessed
my bad i meant to say my friends your right not everyone who is in my generation is about looks but a large majority. Maybe i was raised around to many people that told me what girls were pretty and what girls weren't> All i know is everyone has there own views you know some women may go for looks others may go for character and personality i guess it just depends but thank you for your comments. And its not that i hate dating sites its just i never tried them before and you know how it is when try something new. Its just not normal i guess to me. but to all who are looking for love online good luck to you
Remember i am a college kid only 22 enjoying life my views on looks and how they impact relationships can totally different to someone who is thirty or forty or older. My generation is all about looks especially if the girl is cute or fine but thats just me. Everyone else you have views on this forum and i respect each and everyone of them.
Bro who is vinny it sounds Italian but bro why you on a dating site. Let me be blunt i don't like dating sites never did you never know who is real or fake unless you meet them but i got on this site honestly man because i was tired of the same women who were just cute but weren't funny or loving its just about hook ups with so many in my past and present and now this dating site is not what I expected honestly i did meet a girl on here. But i think its best just to meet women at my job lol. Ill see how this cute girl is that i met on this site. She looks a lot like a girl i would talk to. But anyway bro who is vinny is black like me lol jk
Forgive me mam it was i was tired and you didn't any of the words i said and yes you have your own opinion please forgive me I am not that superficial cocky guy that you think i am. Sometimes as a young person i say things that i shouldn't. Once again yes your right you have own opinion on what i posted and i hope you find your prince charming.
I myself have always gone out and prefered very cute women but if all they have is a cute face. Then i couldn't be with them if there not funny sweet honest careing respectful. Then there attraction will no longer connect or work. Thats why i said physicall attraction plus personality are the perfect match.
Yes i agree anyone can find love that is actually good point. Me personally I think that personality is very important but it needs physicall attraction to be concrete but then just haveing looks and no personality means you are shallow. Anyone can find love.
Ok i like your comments. vice versa on the attractiveness lol u right i wouldn't date you just kidding thats a joke i am sure many men would love to date you alright thanks for the comments
I am so sorry man but she got me mad your right i have no right saying such things. I know i deal with vanity and some conceit issues but this was never supposed to be about this it was just a though i had about society and how relationships are viewed like i said before me personally i don't think you need looks to have a success marriage or relationship i just wanted to point the big controversial issue that is built around relationships. once again to everyone sorry it was never supposed to go this is not what intended for this post.
Alright now you are not good looking woow lol i know i am good looking this post is not about that it is about relations and the issues that society puts on many people for successful relationships i don't believe in just one opinion by the way good looking hot women say i am cute thats all i need lol
To every one on here i just desired to know what you though this why OK let me tell you society puts such a stamp on beauty in media TV programs movies pretty much everything i created this post to see what people thought me my self i go fro attraction but that it is not what everyone should feel i believe in true love with just personality but what intended to do was to see how many people weren't caught up in what society calls beautiful. Please forgive me for the misunderstanding.
No i am not i was just wondering honest opinions on what people think about this subject sorry if it looks like its about me thats not what I intended.
Well can i be honest with you even though your 62 i cant imagine anyone calling you good looking that just honesty most women i have dated have been in the ranges of 8,9,10 not bragging just saying that guy in the movie was fat and average he had no features most women tell me i am cute because of my smile and eyes but you can go head think what you want and i hope you find someone in your age group seriously lol why are we having this conversation
Actually the exact opposite that dude was average looking wasn't nothing to look at. me on the other hand i am good looking and the majority of the women i talk to are or good looking also. I am just wondering for people like shallow hal how they can only have relations with someone like them in looks. Lol yeah that movie was funny lol
Alright i hear and understand your opinion but let me ask you personally how many who are good looking has told you what you are telling me. I am just guessing not many there is average facial features which make someone average then there is attractive facial features that the majority of women who are attractive will say you are good looking. I agree with you that some women will find other men attractive that other women wont. But still if you are good looking then the majority of people will agree. And your relationships will consist of only attractive dates and eventually marriage.
OK i disagree man if you don't look good attractive according to what society calls attractive then you wont have women who are attractive good looking or hot. Yes i believe personality goes a long way but truly if there's no physical attraction then threes not going to be any relational attraction.
man this is not for me I don't struggle with looks i know i am very attractive its just a subject that most people don't like to talk about honestly my opinion is this if the girl is not attractive then i will approach her. thats me mate
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Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Why do you want other's opinions when you are so sure your view is right?[/quoteBecause what is right to me may not be right to you. To me it is right but everyone has there own say on it. And other people will disagree with me but the point of this post was to see what people say regarding this forum. Think about it i can say i only like a woman who wears this and looks like this way or whatever. But just because i say that does not mean everyone will agree. So this forum is open to everyone's opinion. Some will say personality some will say looks just because i say looks does not mean i am right. Many relationships have had success and the people were average or unattractive. But me personally my view is that there is more success when you are both attractive. But everyone has there right to there own opinion on this subject. Be blessed and thanks for the comments