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Mar 7, 2013 3:20 AM CSTIs being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Cuteguy12
Cuteguy12Cuteguy12Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA2 Threads 1 Polls 30 Posts

Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships(Vote Below)

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Is this true for the majority of the people?
6
30%
What do you women think about it?
2
10%
Are looks the reason why most people have success?
3
15%
Why are looks so important?
2
10%
What about personality verse looks?
2
10%
Men what do you think about it?
0
0%
How important are looks?
0
0%
Is personality more important then looks?
2
10%
What does a girl see first looks or personality?
0
0%
What if you just had personality and are average?
3
15%
Total Votes
20
I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.
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Mar 7, 2013 11:06 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
mcradloff
mcradloffmcradloffPlatteville, Wisconsin USA36 Threads 36 Polls 36 Posts
I'm confused by the choices, each is a new poll. I would say looks definitely help, but you still have to be outgoing. I have a friend who would qualify as ugly, but never has a problem getting women because he is outgoing and isn't afraid of rejection.
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Mar 7, 2013 11:12 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Cuteguy12
Cuteguy12Cuteguy12Albuquerque, New Mexico USA2 Threads 1 Polls 30 Posts
mcradloff: I'm confused by the choices, each is a new poll. I would say looks definitely help, but you still have to be outgoing. I have a friend who would qualify as ugly, but never has a problem getting women because he is outgoing and isn't afraid of rejection.


yeah your right out going is very important
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Mar 7, 2013 11:14 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Looks actually don't matter in the slightest. Look at the adult population around you, most of whom are married. They come in all shapes, sizes, colours and looks. If looks were that important then only the beautiful would marry. I'd go further to say that if you base your choice of life partner on looks alone, you are destined for divorce and infidelity. conversing
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Mar 7, 2013 11:27 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Initially looks do play a big part (I mean, you wouldn't look at someones profile if you didn't find them attractive) But holding that persons interest is gonna take a LOT more than good looks. A relationship based on looks alone will never last
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Mar 7, 2013 11:32 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
It can only help to start a relationship on the internet cause it's basicly all you see on this medium.

After that beauty fades and personality counts.

:)
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Mar 7, 2013 12:11 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
No...Especially in the long run. wine
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Mar 10, 2013 8:56 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
NecaRob
NecaRobNecaRobNew Castle, Pennsylvania USA10 Threads 10 Polls 39 Posts
Sadly... if a person, male OR female, doesn't have looks....MOST other people won't take a chance to find out if that person has a great personality. Without a beautiful door, most people won't enter a house to see what is inside.
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Mar 10, 2013 9:09 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
NecaRob: Sadly... if a person, male OR female, doesn't have looks....MOST other people won't take a chance to find out if that person has a great personality. Without a beautiful door, most people won't enter a house to see what is inside.


and conversley,

a person with great looks... ( truly, I met a right hunk about a month ago...) needs to not only have personality... but a bit of gumption too...

( and I passed him onto my work colleague, cos he did not have an ounce of get up an go..) and now she's discovered the same thing, and is not entirely happy with me... thinks she'll be able to change him, but hey ... good luck to her, if she wants to give it a go..

So no... good looks mean zip... rose rose
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Mar 10, 2013 9:13 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?
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Mar 10, 2013 9:16 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
Cuteguy12: I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.


No. I'm an attractive woman and being so can be a double-edged sword.
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Mar 10, 2013 9:18 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Sliprywnwt: No. I'm an attractive woman and being so can be a double-edged sword.
yep, you are so beautiful dunno
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Mar 10, 2013 9:18 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Met a couple of guys who fell in the "good-looking" category, I found them completely uninteresting if all they had going for them is looks. dunno

Guys who actually think themselves good-looking and voice this opinion about themseles?

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 10, 2013 9:20 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
Cuteguy12: I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.


Well being good looking have its dark side, example;
Rock Hudson, Janes Dean, Raymond Burr, Sal Mineo,
John Travolta, Dr.Kildare (the actor), and others that
I can't remember now. All good looking men and actors,
living a double life. Watch out, women!
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Mar 10, 2013 9:22 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
KNenagh: Met a couple of guys who fell in the "good-looking" category, I found them completely uninteresting if all they had going for them is looks.

Guys who actually think themselves good-looking and voice this opinion about themseles?


hahaha I guess I'm safe then. My mother also gave me the nickname "Quello Brutto" and it stuck crying
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Mar 10, 2013 9:25 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Kaybee50: You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?


Hey Kaybee, he's just fishin for compliments the poor fella!laugh
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Mar 10, 2013 9:30 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
Sliprywnwt: No. I'm an attractive woman and being so can be a double-edged sword.


Well thanks, I think. :laugh
I assure you, I am. I know I'm not the most beautiful woman, but I'm definitely no ugly duckling either. laugh
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Mar 10, 2013 9:37 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
galrads: hahaha I guess I'm safe then. My mother also gave me the nickname "Quello Brutto" and it stuck


We all have different preferences when it comes to our partner. I never was into "classically" handsome men, meeting someone interesting to talk to is one thing which can attract me to someone. I do have things that would turn me off someone, e. g. being not groomed is one of them. dunno

Galrads, you mightn't be safe from a good few women here. grin
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Mar 10, 2013 9:38 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
Sliprywnwt: Well thanks, I think. :laugh
I assure you, I am. I know I'm not the most beautiful woman, but I'm definitely no ugly duckling either.


A friend of mine once said; you have to be real ugly
for a person to consider itself, UGLY!grin crying wine
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Mar 10, 2013 9:43 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
bungallow55: Well being good looking have its dark side, example;
Rock Hudson, Janes Dean, Raymond Burr, Sal Mineo,
John Travolta, Dr.Kildare (the actor), and others that
I can't remember now. All good looking men and actors,
living a double life. Watch out, women!



wow you remembered all their names , movie freak aren't you? giggle laugh
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Mar 10, 2013 9:53 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
manroe23: you remembered all their names , movie freak aren't you?


No, manroe; I read about this list, by the way, took me
by surprised when I read those names. Except, Rock Hudson,
the world learned about him when he died...AIDS!
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Mar 10, 2013 10:03 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Cuteguy12
Cuteguy12Cuteguy12Albuquerque, New Mexico USA2 Threads 1 Polls 30 Posts
Cuteguy12: I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.


Well i created this post awhile ago on the topic of success in looks and i have not commented on it sense i created it. the only reason i created this post was to see how many would say and how many say no about the success fullness so far i have not seen anyone stay focused on the fact i mean relationships. How many relationships fall through because the women or man is no longer attracted to there spouse. But then the other side is how men or women who are attractive would be faithful to there spouse lets stay focused on what the post is about the controversy that is around what a lot women say if your good looking u all care about is your looks and your relationship can only be success full if you have self control meaning you keep yourself only one woman. My point is this how many people are staying together as above average couples verses how many are breaking up with average couples. Don't bring the hammer down on me i am just wondering what your views on this alright be blessed
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Mar 10, 2013 10:04 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Sliprywnwt: Well thanks, I think. :laugh
I assure you, I am. I know I'm not the most beautiful woman, but I'm definitely no ugly duckling either.


I read your profile(hope you don't mind) You certainly seem attractive, attractive qualities.thumbs up
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Mar 10, 2013 10:12 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Sliprywnwt
SliprywnwtSliprywnwtMissouri, USA37 Threads 15 Polls 211 Posts
justjim63: I read your profile(hope you don't mind) You certainly seem attractive, attractive qualities.

Thanks Justjim. No I don't mind at all and thanks for the compliments they also boost my self-esteem also.cheering
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Mar 10, 2013 11:18 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
KNenagh: We all have different preferences when it comes to our partner. I never was into "classically" handsome men, meeting someone interesting to talk to is one thing which can attract me to someone. I do have things that would turn me off someone, e. g. being not groomed is one of them.

Galrads, you mightn't be safe from a good few women here.

Hahaha thanks KNenagh. Made my day! yay To date, I have met in person and liked one good woman from the CS forums but, as usual, laugh I wasn't her type evidently. wave
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Mar 10, 2013 11:47 AM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
Kaybee50: You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?



Hi there :)

... just love that expression the 'hyper-focus'!.....hehhheheh.....

....most probably because it is hyper-important to him....ihihhhi.....4 whatever reason applause dancing
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Mar 10, 2013 12:01 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
Cuteguy12: Well i created this post awhile ago on the topic of success in looks and i have not commented on it sense i created it. the only reason i created this post was to see how many would say and how many say no about the success fullness so far i have not seen anyone stay focused on the fact i mean relationships. How many relationships fall through because the women or man is no longer attracted to there spouse. But then the other side is how men or women who are attractive would be faithful to there spouse lets stay focused on what the post is about the controversy that is around what a lot women say if your good looking u all care about is your looks and your relationship can only be success full if you have self control meaning you keep yourself only one woman. My point is this how many people are staying together as above average couples verses how many are breaking up with average couples. Don't bring the hammer down on me i am just wondering what your views on this alright be blessed



Hello CG :)

Don't you worry a bit dear......

Your curiosity is commendable in any case.....your motivation quite understandable and free from any negativity.....your verbal (read textual)conduct within the boundaries of a courteous manner.......
(not always the case with people dear)

.....thus, we can conclude....don't worry be haaaaappy!.....and yes...you are genuinely a good-looking and civilized individual...

God bless you too

.... hug
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Mar 10, 2013 12:07 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
justjim63: Hey Kaybee, he's just fishin for compliments the poor fella!



.....he is just trying to learn about other people's opinion.....it's as simple as that dear :)


Best regards to you handshake
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Mar 10, 2013 12:10 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Mar 10, 2013 12:10 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I sure hope not or I'm screwed lol
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Mar 10, 2013 12:14 PM CST Is being good looking the only way you can to have a successfull relationships
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I sure hope not or I'm screwed lol





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