I'm confused by the choices, each is a new poll. I would say looks definitely help, but you still have to be outgoing. I have a friend who would qualify as ugly, but never has a problem getting women because he is outgoing and isn't afraid of rejection.
mcradloff: I'm confused by the choices, each is a new poll. I would say looks definitely help, but you still have to be outgoing. I have a friend who would qualify as ugly, but never has a problem getting women because he is outgoing and isn't afraid of rejection.
Looks actually don't matter in the slightest. Look at the adult population around you, most of whom are married. They come in all shapes, sizes, colours and looks. If looks were that important then only the beautiful would marry. I'd go further to say that if you base your choice of life partner on looks alone, you are destined for divorce and infidelity.
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
Initially looks do play a big part (I mean, you wouldn't look at someones profile if you didn't find them attractive) But holding that persons interest is gonna take a LOT more than good looks. A relationship based on looks alone will never last
Sadly... if a person, male OR female, doesn't have looks....MOST other people won't take a chance to find out if that person has a great personality. Without a beautiful door, most people won't enter a house to see what is inside.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
NecaRob: Sadly... if a person, male OR female, doesn't have looks....MOST other people won't take a chance to find out if that person has a great personality. Without a beautiful door, most people won't enter a house to see what is inside.
and conversley,
a person with great looks... ( truly, I met a right hunk about a month ago...) needs to not only have personality... but a bit of gumption too...
( and I passed him onto my work colleague, cos he did not have an ounce of get up an go..) and now she's discovered the same thing, and is not entirely happy with me... thinks she'll be able to change him, but hey ... good luck to her, if she wants to give it a go..
You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?
Cuteguy12: I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.
Well being good looking have its dark side, example; Rock Hudson, Janes Dean, Raymond Burr, Sal Mineo, John Travolta, Dr.Kildare (the actor), and others that I can't remember now. All good looking men and actors, living a double life. Watch out, women!
justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia2,592 posts
Kaybee50: You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?
Hey Kaybee, he's just fishin for compliments the poor fella!
galrads: hahaha I guess I'm safe then. My mother also gave me the nickname "Quello Brutto" and it stuck
We all have different preferences when it comes to our partner. I never was into "classically" handsome men, meeting someone interesting to talk to is one thing which can attract me to someone. I do have things that would turn me off someone, e. g. being not groomed is one of them.
Galrads, you mightn't be safe from a good few women here.
bungallow55: Well being good looking have its dark side, example; Rock Hudson, Janes Dean, Raymond Burr, Sal Mineo, John Travolta, Dr.Kildare (the actor), and others that I can't remember now. All good looking men and actors, living a double life. Watch out, women!
you remembered all their names , movie freak aren't you?
manroe23: you remembered all their names , movie freak aren't you?
No, manroe; I read about this list, by the way, took me by surprised when I read those names. Except, Rock Hudson, the world learned about him when he died...AIDS!
Cuteguy12: I created it because its so controversial and just wanted to know what they would say.
Well i created this post awhile ago on the topic of success in looks and i have not commented on it sense i created it. the only reason i created this post was to see how many would say and how many say no about the success fullness so far i have not seen anyone stay focused on the fact i mean relationships. How many relationships fall through because the women or man is no longer attracted to there spouse. But then the other side is how men or women who are attractive would be faithful to there spouse lets stay focused on what the post is about the controversy that is around what a lot women say if your good looking u all care about is your looks and your relationship can only be success full if you have self control meaning you keep yourself only one woman. My point is this how many people are staying together as above average couples verses how many are breaking up with average couples. Don't bring the hammer down on me i am just wondering what your views on this alright be blessed
KNenagh: We all have different preferences when it comes to our partner. I never was into "classically" handsome men, meeting someone interesting to talk to is one thing which can attract me to someone. I do have things that would turn me off someone, e. g. being not groomed is one of them.
Galrads, you mightn't be safe from a good few women here.
Hahaha thanks KNenagh. Made my day! To date, I have met in person and liked one good woman from the CS forums but, as usual, I wasn't her type evidently.
Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina303 posts
Kaybee50: You seem to be sincerely obsessed with this whole "looks" things. This is not the first thread you've done it and you already have people's input and opinions on it. Why the hyper focus on this?
Hi there :)
... just love that expression the 'hyper-focus'!.....hehhheheh.....
....most probably because it is hyper-important to him....ihihhhi.....4 whatever reason
Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina303 posts
Cuteguy12: Well i created this post awhile ago on the topic of success in looks and i have not commented on it sense i created it. the only reason i created this post was to see how many would say and how many say no about the success fullness so far i have not seen anyone stay focused on the fact i mean relationships. How many relationships fall through because the women or man is no longer attracted to there spouse. But then the other side is how men or women who are attractive would be faithful to there spouse lets stay focused on what the post is about the controversy that is around what a lot women say if your good looking u all care about is your looks and your relationship can only be success full if you have self control meaning you keep yourself only one woman. My point is this how many people are staying together as above average couples verses how many are breaking up with average couples. Don't bring the hammer down on me i am just wondering what your views on this alright be blessed
Hello CG :)
Don't you worry a bit dear......
Your curiosity is commendable in any case.....your motivation quite understandable and free from any negativity.....your verbal (read textual)conduct within the boundaries of a courteous manner....... (not always the case with people dear)
.....thus, we can conclude....don't worry be haaaaappy!.....and yes...you are genuinely a good-looking and civilized individual...
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