Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact?? ( Archived) (32)

Mar 13, 2013 6:14 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Neildubz
NeildubzNeildubzDublin, Ireland1 Threads 10 Posts
Hi all,

Just a quick question for the ladies...

Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??

Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..

just curious..

thankswave
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Mar 13, 2013 6:17 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Neildubz: Hi all,

Just a quick question for the ladies...

Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??

Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..

just curious..

thanks


I do yes, why not, no point being here and just waiting for someone to contact you. IMO if you look at a profile and dont contact the person then you are not interested, same goes for guys who view my profile and dont contact me.


99% of the time people dont reply but sure thats life.
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Mar 13, 2013 6:24 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Glatlol: I do yes, why not, no point being here and just waiting for someone to contact you. IMO if you look at a profile and dont contact the person then you are not interested, same goes for guys who view my profile and dont contact me.99% of the time people dont reply but sure thats life.



Seems like the majority of profiles I view finds me out of their desired age range, they smoke, have small children, or want children. Why bother someone who is obviously incompatible?
I do occasionally contact men, but rarely get a reply.
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Mar 13, 2013 6:37 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
roses4m
roses4mroses4mKawerau, Bay of Plenty New Zealand35 Posts
Yes I do some prophiles are so interesting that I often feel I would like to get to know the person. Can't see it as a problem.
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Mar 13, 2013 6:50 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I have contacted people in the past, maybe because their profile had me piddle myself laughing, but certainly with no expectations other than maybe a wee exchange of banter to pass the time of day.

If you want to make friends, or even develop romantic liasons, contact through the forums seems a lot less artificial to me. I've made first contact probably with hundreds of people over the forums, either by responding directly to their posts, and/or by private mail in relation to a post.

I'm really rather cyber sociable at times. giggle
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Mar 14, 2013 2:41 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
anisiltir28
anisiltir28anisiltir28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia63 Posts
Yes, I do initiate the conversation, and as what one poster said only a few reply. Well, that's life. Better to do something than just looking, waiting and doing nothing.
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Mar 14, 2013 2:44 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
yeah if I interested to talk or know him will contact him unless he block my area to contact him grin
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Mar 14, 2013 2:47 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
anisiltir28
anisiltir28anisiltir28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia63 Posts
Yes, the blocked area also is preventing the first mail from me. Hi Lavina. bouquet
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Mar 14, 2013 2:48 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
anisiltir28: Yes, the blocked area also is preventing the first mail from me. Hi Lavina.


hello ani wave Not busy day at office?
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Mar 14, 2013 2:51 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
NEVER.
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Mar 14, 2013 2:59 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Its interesting that we get many threads and posts on the forums where men complain about the lack of response to their initial private mail contacts, and yet it seems the same happens to women...without complaint.
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Mar 14, 2013 3:03 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
anisiltir28
anisiltir28anisiltir28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia63 Posts
lavina: hello ani Not busy day at office?


Quiet day at work Lav. grin
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Mar 14, 2013 4:16 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
paradox42
paradox42paradox42antalya, Mediterranean Turkey16 Threads 1 Polls 250 Posts
if who has visited my page and sent messages, all were scammers, so, I lost my hope to met someone to make seriously friendship with and I became a forum corner user since I have lost my hope. wish best luck all you dunno
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Mar 14, 2013 5:46 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
Neildubz: Hi all,

Just a quick question for the ladies...

Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??

Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..

just curious..

thanks


Hello there :)

He would have to be really, really interesting in order to create such an intense level of my curiosity and potential motivation.....

handshake
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Mar 14, 2013 8:19 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Delila59
Delila59Delila59Bunbury, Western Australia Australia1 Posts
Neildubz: Hi all,

Just a quick question for the ladies...

Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??

Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..

just curious..

thanks
yes i do , i flower him with just a hello:-)
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Mar 14, 2013 11:51 AM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
Neildubz
NeildubzNeildubzDublin, Ireland1 Threads 10 Posts
thanks everyone who has taken the time to reply to the thread.. for the record I wasnt complaining not even slightly the ladies I have written to have written back so no complaints from me...

was just curious thats all though after reading all your replies think I have a better understanding now...

hope you all find what you looking for thanks again for replying cheers
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Mar 14, 2013 12:48 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Sure, all the time... why not? dunno
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Mar 14, 2013 12:52 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
LeperPariah
LeperPariahLeperPariahIn the Sticks, British Columbia Canada42 Posts
venusenvy: Sure, all the time... why not?
Still patiently waiting...sad flower
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Mar 14, 2013 12:57 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
tara345
tara345tara345Cayenne, French Guiana3 Posts
tks,dear...maybe one day...hug
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Mar 14, 2013 1:01 PM CST Question for Ladies : do you ever initiate contact??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
LeperPariah: Still patiently waiting...


teddybear
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