Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??
Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..
just curious..
thanks
I do yes, why not, no point being here and just waiting for someone to contact you. IMO if you look at a profile and dont contact the person then you are not interested, same goes for guys who view my profile and dont contact me.
99% of the time people dont reply but sure thats life.
Glatlol: I do yes, why not, no point being here and just waiting for someone to contact you. IMO if you look at a profile and dont contact the person then you are not interested, same goes for guys who view my profile and dont contact me.99% of the time people dont reply but sure thats life.
Seems like the majority of profiles I view finds me out of their desired age range, they smoke, have small children, or want children. Why bother someone who is obviously incompatible? I do occasionally contact men, but rarely get a reply.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
I have contacted people in the past, maybe because their profile had me piddle myself laughing, but certainly with no expectations other than maybe a wee exchange of banter to pass the time of day.
If you want to make friends, or even develop romantic liasons, contact through the forums seems a lot less artificial to me. I've made first contact probably with hundreds of people over the forums, either by responding directly to their posts, and/or by private mail in relation to a post.
Yes, I do initiate the conversation, and as what one poster said only a few reply. Well, that's life. Better to do something than just looking, waiting and doing nothing.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Its interesting that we get many threads and posts on the forums where men complain about the lack of response to their initial private mail contacts, and yet it seems the same happens to women...without complaint.
if who has visited my page and sent messages, all were scammers, so, I lost my hope to met someone to make seriously friendship with and I became a forum corner user since I have lost my hope. wish best luck all you
thanks everyone who has taken the time to reply to the thread.. for the record I wasnt complaining not even slightly the ladies I have written to have written back so no complaints from me...
was just curious thats all though after reading all your replies think I have a better understanding now...
hope you all find what you looking for thanks again for replying
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Just a quick question for the ladies...
Do you ever initiate contact with someone whoms profile you have read and seem interested in??
Or would you look at the profile then leave it up to the guy to write you, knowing you have been checking him out?..
just curious..
thanks