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Mar 19, 2013 1:57 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel
ladyjewelladyjewelDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa11 Threads 158 Posts
If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:00 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
real_khan
real_khanreal_khanKarachi, Sindh Pakistan20 Threads 8 Polls 92 Posts
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
hmmm popcorn
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Mar 19, 2013 2:06 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
if he is a " partner " ... yeah i'd be honest and tell himyay
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
trying to learn something??rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:07 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?
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Mar 19, 2013 2:08 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
trying to learn something - yeah that was a question for you real khan lmao
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Mar 19, 2013 2:08 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel: If your partner is doing something that spoils the mood in foreplay, or kind of is not doing it for you, do you just pretend its working and fake it or say something like, "i love your hands but thats not the right spot, let me show you:-)" ?



it´s obviously not the right partner in the first place.
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Mar 19, 2013 2:20 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel
ladyjewelladyjewelDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa11 Threads 158 Posts
hoolet: it´s obviously not the right partner in the first place.


We all have to learn and i found after years of faking it that saying what pleases you is a huge step to making it something special, we all expect the Man to know our body perfectly and how can he, people are different and what pushes my buttons might switch another woman off completely:-)
Smiles one man took a whole night to learn what i like without going any further, it shocked me silly and made me feel worth while and beautiful in every way dispite the things i don't like about my body:-)
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Mar 19, 2013 2:23 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
ladyjewel: We all have to learn and i found after years of faking it that saying what pleases you is a huge step to making it something special, we all expect the Man to know our body perfectly and how can he, people are different and what pushes my buttons might switch another woman off completely:-)
Smiles one man took a whole night to learn what i like without going any further, it shocked me silly and made me feel worth while and beautiful in every way dispite the things i don't like about my body:-)

Naawww. smile
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Mar 19, 2013 2:27 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel
ladyjewelladyjewelDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa11 Threads 158 Posts
jac379: Naawww.


Lol its true:-) grins
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Mar 19, 2013 2:41 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
ladyjewel
ladyjewelladyjewelDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa11 Threads 158 Posts
hoolet: Nah..I didn´t mean that....but if it doesn´t work........there´s something wrong. What I mean is.......find out early if the chemistry isn´t right


So true, and if it isn't sometimes its best to walk away as friends:-) chemistry is important.
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Mar 19, 2013 3:38 PM CST do you tell your partner if something is not working for you?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
Sometimes I'll say.
It surely is in the art of delivery.
No hurt feelings that way.
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