Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc. ( Archived) (58)

Oct 11, 2013 8:47 AM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
unlaoised: Permanently? perhaps not but a man who has ambition and drive is an attractive proposition. Besides, I wouldn't want to support a man financially


You didn't read well this question, he said men with a steady income not a man looking to be supported financially by a womangrin
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Oct 11, 2013 8:48 AM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.




I agree.My late husband became unemployed a couple times at the fault of the people who hired him.I stood by him anyway.WE both struggled back then but somehow/someway he always found ways to provide.
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Oct 11, 2013 8:49 AM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Ccincy: I agree.My late husband became unemployed a couple times at the fault of the people who hired him.I stood by him anyway.WE both struggled back then but somehow/someway he always found ways to provide.
Thats what its all about CC.wave
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Oct 11, 2013 12:04 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
tomcatwarne: If a woman is planning to have children, I think a steady income must be an important consideration, unless she is going to rely on the state.


For benefits or her made up job?

But yes, the state is now the beta provider and this is a large part of the reason why women no longer value sensible beta-provider men.
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Oct 11, 2013 12:06 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.


thumbs up
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Oct 11, 2013 12:23 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
If you make her feel good then a woman will stick with a starving artist or a Doctor. Attraction and personality are more important, in this day and age, than the provision of emotional and material resources because the latter pair can be provided by Big Brother and a mollycoddled feminine society.
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Oct 11, 2013 12:35 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.


I agree wine
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Oct 11, 2013 12:42 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
MADDOG69: Yes of course. They want to find a mate that will provide for their future or current children. It's instinctive.


you never fail to make me smile
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Oct 11, 2013 12:46 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.


Whether she walks away or not is mostly about his personality, not hers. A woman can always be relied upon to pragmatically pursue her own interest: only as Mothers do women sacrifice. If all he was providing for her before was cash, cuddles and convenience then she will bolt for the door.
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Oct 11, 2013 12:59 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
I don t know but I have held the same job for 33 years.And I am still single.dunno
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Oct 11, 2013 1:11 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
I should clarifie I have being single since 2008 when my wife pass away not for 33 years oops.blushing
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Oct 11, 2013 1:51 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
Scott1812: I don t know but I have held the same job for 33 years.And I am still single.


hmmm sudden silence...
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Oct 11, 2013 1:58 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Chocheta: sudden silence...
wine
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Oct 11, 2013 2:04 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
laugh Scott's post said it all... end of conversation wine
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Oct 11, 2013 2:07 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
CuddlingSoul: I like to spend on dates, more than I should. This is a major reason why I set-aside a particular season to date. If I dated all of the time, I'd be broke really quick.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 11, 2013 2:07 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Whether she walks away or not is mostly about his personality, not hers. A woman can always be relied upon to pragmatically pursue her own interest: only as Mothers do women sacrifice. If all he was providing for her before was cash, cuddles and convenience then she will bolt for the door.


blah blah
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Oct 11, 2013 2:10 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Well hell, it's the truth. wine
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Oct 11, 2013 2:14 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
CuddlingSoul: Well hell, it's the truth.


sorry, can't make a blanket statement like "only as mothers do women sacrifice". it's simply not true.
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Oct 11, 2013 2:14 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
Miss Shell, please tell me why you find that amusing?
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Oct 11, 2013 2:17 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
of course a man with income is attractive but like everyone say if your with someone and they lose there job I don't believe in walking away...dating for me is to take turns in buying that why im a SEASONAL dater as well or I be broke TOOrolling on the floor laughing
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