unlaoised: Permanently? perhaps not but a man who has ambition and drive is an attractive proposition. Besides, I wouldn't want to support a man financially
You didn't read well this question, he said men with a steady income not a man looking to be supported financially by a woman
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.
I agree.My late husband became unemployed a couple times at the fault of the people who hired him.I stood by him anyway.WE both struggled back then but somehow/someway he always found ways to provide.
Ccincy: I agree.My late husband became unemployed a couple times at the fault of the people who hired him.I stood by him anyway.WE both struggled back then but somehow/someway he always found ways to provide.
tomcatwarne: If a woman is planning to have children, I think a steady income must be an important consideration, unless she is going to rely on the state.
For benefits or her made up job?
But yes, the state is now the beta provider and this is a large part of the reason why women no longer value sensible beta-provider men.
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.
If you make her feel good then a woman will stick with a starving artist or a Doctor. Attraction and personality are more important, in this day and age, than the provision of emotional and material resources because the latter pair can be provided by Big Brother and a mollycoddled feminine society.
Oct 11, 2013 12:35 PM CST Men's steady income as attractivity issue for women; versus timely one, etc.
ChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
ChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 posts
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.
rebel2: The other way around,if a man loses his job,and is struggling to find another,and she walks away without giving him a chance,she is not worth having anyway.
Whether she walks away or not is mostly about his personality, not hers. A woman can always be relied upon to pragmatically pursue her own interest: only as Mothers do women sacrifice. If all he was providing for her before was cash, cuddles and convenience then she will bolt for the door.
CuddlingSoul: I like to spend on dates, more than I should. This is a major reason why I set-aside a particular season to date. If I dated all of the time, I'd be broke really quick.
Obstinance_Works: Whether she walks away or not is mostly about his personality, not hers. A woman can always be relied upon to pragmatically pursue her own interest: only as Mothers do women sacrifice. If all he was providing for her before was cash, cuddles and convenience then she will bolt for the door.
of course a man with income is attractive but like everyone say if your with someone and they lose there job I don't believe in walking away...dating for me is to take turns in buying that why im a SEASONAL dater as well or I be broke TOO
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You didn't read well this question, he said men with a steady income not a man looking to be supported financially by a woman