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What is best for them is to know that you fought to keep them in your life.
My biological mother didn't fight for me and to this day I am bitter about it.
Don't make the mistake of taking the easy road.
Court Orders are powerful. If your ex takes them away from you, but there is a Court Order that you have the right to see them, she will lose and might be charged with child abduction.
Yes your children will see bickering but trust me that the day will come when your children will tell you they were happy that you fought for them. That is when they truly knew that you loved them.
Good luck to you and your family.
Figthing for children's custody or parental rights to see/be them can be very nasty Monte. Specially when women feel that children belong to the mother "more".
I have seen a long and terrible fight with a friend of mine. Up to this moment his children see him like a monster because of their mother telling lies about him or telling the truth but incomplete out of context. He regrets all that fight and has given up them.
Before the fight, she had agreed for him to see his children when she decided and the children and my friend were happy about it until he chose to fight for their custody or shared/custody.