To me it would be intelligence. I don't care how attractive she maybe, if she doesn't carry herself well as far as being a mature person, that kinda does it for me.
Definately, #1-the eyes are the windows to the soul. Then his lips, and facial bone structure. To me, the face is more important than the body. He can be a little thin, cause my boyfriends usually gain a little weight with me, but not more than a few pounds overweight(considering he will probably gain some more)so I don't get the wind knocked out of me. lol
What influences me physically is how someone is shaping his exterior deliberately, because it expresses his personality.
In my personal taste
an attractive man is natural, he - lets his hair and beard grow as it grows - wears jeans, swear-shirts, sneakers and such kind of comfortable garments - has no tattoos, no piercings and does not wear jewellery - is not or very little overweight
an ugly man wastes his efforts on his appearance, he - is clean shaven and shaves his head - wears a suit and tie - has tattoos, piercings and wears any kind of jewellery - is obese
I would have to say that what makes me stop and go hmmmmm... would have to first be his eyes and his smile. Then if I was close enough and caught whiff of a pleasant and masculine scent that would be it... I can't help it! I love men who constantly smell good!
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