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Tired_of_All22Springfield, Ohio USA11 Threads 67 PostsThe other day My 20yr old uncle told me that even tho im a sweet heart, caring, nice and a good listner....I will never find anyone with the way that I look...He says that I have to be skinny and hot and all the guys would like me.....Is that true guys.....Will I ever find true love just being me and who i am now?
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I'm sorry but your uncle is such a punk, no it's not true.
El Diablo
El Diablo
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True love has no "SIZE"
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he is so wrong just because he judges a book by the
cover not all men do you be yourself and live life
the way u want to
cover not all men do you be yourself and live life
the way u want to
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Of course you will find somebody, you are a very attractive young woman, however, I'm sorry to say this, but I believe that what your 20 year old uncle told you is true. Most guys in his age range do prefer slim girls because they have been led to believe slim or thin equals beauty.
When he is older and wiser he will hopefully realise that this isn't true.
My daughter is in her twenties and slim with a good friend who is very pretty and overweight. The boys just don't seem to be interested in my daughter's friend despite the fact that she is intelligent and vivacious.
When he is older and wiser he will hopefully realise that this isn't true.
My daughter is in her twenties and slim with a good friend who is very pretty and overweight. The boys just don't seem to be interested in my daughter's friend despite the fact that she is intelligent and vivacious.
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Yeah I know, and the thing that kills me inside is that people can be so judgemental....sometimes I feel like giving up on relationships
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of course you will!!
how on earth your own uncle can say that to you even tho he said the other stuff is just wrong.
your uncle couldnt be more wrong.
i cant see anything wrong with you, you look like a perfectly normal beautifull young woman to me.
how on earth your own uncle can say that to you even tho he said the other stuff is just wrong.
your uncle couldnt be more wrong.
i cant see anything wrong with you, you look like a perfectly normal beautifull young woman to me.
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Sweetie, that is totally wrong for him to say. When the right one comes along you will know it. I see you say you want the bad-boy image, but the values you want in him don't fit the bad-boy image. Tired of All22, just be yourself, get out there and do things that make you happy, then some guy will see the real you and love you for that. You are a young, and attractive young woman, the only thing you have to worry about is staying healthy. Men like women all sizes, shapes, and colors, as long as they have the good qualities inside. Guys know the outside doesn't count, because that changes over time anyway. Take care and be good to yourself. 
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Oh My God! And did you ask your uncle if he knows what the definition of SHALLOW is? Sweetness, yes you will find someone who cares for just you! It is not all about looks because if it was, that fades away eventually especially if that person is not good inside. What you are inside is of upmost importance! And besides you are a cutie patootie anyway - your uncle isn't going to tell you that! Psh!
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He thinks he knows everything! 
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yeah,and im sure your uncle is gonna get on just fine in life with an attitude like that...the plank
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You will find someone, dont give up. 
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well said ramone 
nice here innit
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sorry that you have to hear that
everyone in this world is not like him
judge a book by its pages not its cover
i never thought i would find someone that would love me for me and i have
keep the faith and tell your uncle hes an @$$hole for saying such a thing to you
everyone in this world is not like him
judge a book by its pages not its cover
i never thought i would find someone that would love me for me and i have
keep the faith and tell your uncle hes an @$$hole for saying such a thing to you
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There is someone for everyone! u may have to wait a lil while longer for them - but when u do , they will be worth it because they will love u for u. (and they wont be the shallow ones that only go for the 'barbie thin types') Keep lookin hun 
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