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Hi Sherry,

Firstly you have done a great job to clean up your act.

Trust is a difficult thing. Most people who have been hurt by others will experience trust issues at some time.

The trick is to trust others, but with wisdom. Trust is not blind.

I believe you need to trust your intuition. If you feel something's not right, go with it.

My wife, who I met here, and I had to trust that each other were real, we had to trust that each of us was genuine, and we had to take risks with each other.

Having been through many bad experiences with females, (bashed by mum, etc) it does become very difficult to trust.

But it takes courage to not be a victim of our past. You probably know all about that.

The same goes for relationships. Be wise, evaluate everything, but also consider people that you would not naturally be attracted to. I did this with my now wife who I met here, and she did the same with me.

Wow, am I so happy that I did this. it turned out that my natural attractions were nearly always to people that were not so good for me.

Take care, good on you, keep up the good work, and don't give up on love or trust. You can have these things again. Take it from me, because I did.