A few generations ago, dating was considered a taboo issue here for PAkistanis. The matchmaking, and matrimonial decisions of young people were often taken by elders of the family and parents. Society used to super impose it's rules and young people were condemned, intermingling with each other before marriage. Now, with the passage of time, call it global influence or steady revolution, PAKISTANIS are passing from VICTORIAN ERA of dating.
Almost every guy here wants to date. However, the majority of these guys strongly condemn same act for their sisters and blood relations.
You would find a typical PAKISTANI guy posing himself as 20 years old and looking for any lady with in the age rang of 18-60 from any corner of the world. However, the same guy would turn very conservative and protective for his own blood relation; sister, daughter, mother. The same typical Pakistani guy would feel that his honor has been breached if his female blood relations would look out for happiness.
A typical Pakistani male never wants his female blood relations to enjoy life the way he wants to enjoy. Therefore, when ever I ask any pakistani male on any dating site that what whould there reactions be when some one approached their sister the way the are trying to approach me, the majority of them get frustrated. They feel insulted and this question strike them as bolt from blue!!! Bye to all dual standards mentally cursed brats I am not looking for you!!! If you do not want your sisters to be approached by other guys, and want them to act like nuns, well then live in fool's paradise you people have created for your self !!!
This thread made me think... I thought and in my entire few years of being "online" I have not ever even had a woman from Pakistan interested in the likes of me. I do not assume to know why or have any complaints.....but it could be because of my extremely ugly face. Something to think about though.
Op, reading your post my conclusion is.... That Pakistan is at least 70 years behind the West, on Dating. In theocratic societies progress is usually slow.
chris27292729: Op, reading your post my conclusion is.... That Pakistan is at least 70 years behind the West, on Dating. In theocratic societies progress is usually slow.
with the risk of a short "hijack", What do you think about the Women in Greece? As in regards to dating online? (Generally speaking) is it frowned upon? just curious about this now. Thanks.
inn0cent_soul: A few generations ago, dating was considered a taboo issue here for PAkistanis. The matchmaking, and matrimonial decisions of young people were often taken by elders of the family and parents. Society used to super impose it's rules and young people were condemned, intermingling with each other before marriage. Now, with the passage of time, call it global influence or steady revolution, PAKISTANIS are passing from VICTORIAN ERA of dating.
Almost every guy here wants to date. However, the majority of these guys strongly condemn same act for their sisters and blood relations.
You would find a typical PAKISTANI guy posing himself as 20 years old and looking for any lady with in the age rang of 18-60 from any corner of the world. However, the same guy would turn very conservative and protective for his own blood relation; sister, daughter, mother. The same typical Pakistani guy would feel that his honor has been breached if his female blood relations would look out for happiness.
A typical Pakistani male never wants his female blood relations to enjoy life the way he wants to enjoy. Therefore, when ever I ask any pakistani male on any dating site that what whould there reactions be when some one approached their sister the way the are trying to approach me, the majority of them get frustrated. They feel insulted and this question strike them as bolt from blue!!! Bye to all dual standards mentally cursed brats I am not looking for you!!! If you do not want your sisters to be approached by other guys, and want them to act like nuns, well then live in fool's paradise you people have created for your self !!!
Don't worry too much about it , those same guys don't get dates because of guys just like them . Its not just a problem in Pakistan , a lot of 30 something males in NZ can't connect either because the 30 something girls think they are smarter because the have been to uni and have degrees while their brothers have trades . So the guys get pissed off and go to Aussie where they end up with Aussie girls . A number of young men from this small district have done this . small hijack but never mind .
epirb: Don't worry too much about it , those same guys don't get dates because of guys just like them . Its not just a problem in Pakistan , a lot of 30 something males in NZ can't connect either because the 30 something girls think they are smarter because the have been to uni and have degrees while their brothers have trades . So the guys get pissed off and go to Aussie where they end up with Aussie girls . A number of young men from this small district have done this . small hijack but never mind .
Is that your way of saying that Aussie birds at stupid ?
RDM59: Is that your way of saying that Aussie birds at stupid ?
haha very good . Not quite , our guys get paid 3 times in Aus what they get here , Aussie girls know what side their breads buttered on . NZ's don't get the dole in Aus so have to work so they do . Attractive proposition for a woman .
epirb: haha very good . Not quite , our guys get paid 3 times in Aus what they get here , Aussie girls know what side their breads buttered on . NZ's don't get the dole in Aus so have to work so they do . Attractive proposition for a woman .
Struth, NZ had better watch out. What are the intellectual lesbian statistics like there now ?
RDM59: Struth, NZ had better watch out. What are the intellectual lesbian statistics like there now ?
media keep spouting that there is a man drought , not noticed . Have noticed 30 something female go to 45 age bracket , noticed some late 40's go up to 45 year males not to mention over 50's like the age bracket as well .
epirb: media keep spouting that there is a man drought , not noticed . Have noticed 30 something female go to 45 age bracket , noticed some late 40's go up to 45 year males not to mention over 50's like the age bracket as well .
So what are you waiting for ? Go get 'em you lucky man .....
Frowned upon??? No way. Plenty greek dating sites (have a look at (eigible GR.)as well the international one's.
Dragos1: with the risk of a short "hijack", What do you think about the Women in Greece? As in regards to dating online? (Generally speaking) is it frowned upon? just curious about this now. Thanks.
chris27292729: Frowned upon??? No way. Plenty greek dating sites (have a look at (eigible GR.)as well the international one's.
yes of course but i mean about the acceptance "off" the web potential judgement of those women. For instance there is also many ads for meeting "Women in Pakistan" and pretty much everywhere though according to the OP in her home it is not accepted.. if it is something you are not familiar with I totally understand....There is plenty here I probably don't have a clue about.
Nobody,will point a figure,as not proper,finding a partner, via internet.
Dragos1: yes of course but i mean about the acceptance "off" the web potential judgement of those women. For instance there is also many ads for meeting "Women in Pakistan" and pretty much everywhere though according to the OP in her home it is not accepted.. if it is something you are not familiar with I totally understand....There is plenty here I probably don't have a clue about.
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Society used to super impose it's rules and young people were condemned, intermingling with each other before marriage.
Now, with the passage of time, call it global influence or steady revolution, PAKISTANIS are passing from VICTORIAN ERA of dating.
Almost every guy here wants to date. However, the majority of these guys strongly condemn same act for their sisters and blood relations.
You would find a typical PAKISTANI guy posing himself as 20 years old and looking for any lady with in the age rang of 18-60 from any corner of the world. However, the same guy would turn very conservative and protective for his own blood relation; sister, daughter, mother.
The same typical Pakistani guy would feel that his honor has been breached if his female blood relations would look out for happiness.
A typical Pakistani male never wants his female blood relations to enjoy life the way he wants to enjoy.
Therefore, when ever I ask any pakistani male on any dating site that what whould there reactions be when some one approached their sister the way the are trying to approach me, the majority of them get frustrated. They feel insulted and this question strike them as bolt from blue!!!
Bye to all dual standards mentally cursed brats I am not looking for you!!!
If you do not want your sisters to be approached by other guys, and want them to act like nuns, well then live in fool's paradise you people have created for your self !!!