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Aug 12, 2014 12:35 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
inn0cent_soul
inn0cent_soulinn0cent_soulLahore, Punjab Pakistan8 Threads 213 Posts
A few generations ago, dating was considered a taboo issue here for PAkistanis. The matchmaking, and matrimonial decisions of young people were often taken by elders of the family and parents.
Society used to super impose it's rules and young people were condemned, intermingling with each other before marriage.
Now, with the passage of time, call it global influence or steady revolution, PAKISTANIS are passing from VICTORIAN ERA of dating.

Almost every guy here wants to date. However, the majority of these guys strongly condemn same act for their sisters and blood relations.

You would find a typical PAKISTANI guy posing himself as 20 years old and looking for any lady with in the age rang of 18-60 from any corner of the world. However, the same guy would turn very conservative and protective for his own blood relation; sister, daughter, mother.
The same typical Pakistani guy would feel that his honor has been breached if his female blood relations would look out for happiness.

A typical Pakistani male never wants his female blood relations to enjoy life the way he wants to enjoy.
Therefore, when ever I ask any pakistani male on any dating site that what whould there reactions be when some one approached their sister the way the are trying to approach me, the majority of them get frustrated. They feel insulted and this question strike them as bolt from blue!!!
Bye to all dual standards mentally cursed brats I am not looking for you!!!
If you do not want your sisters to be approached by other guys, and want them to act like nuns, well then live in fool's paradise you people have created for your self !!!
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Aug 12, 2014 12:47 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
This thread made me think... I thought and in my entire few years of being "online" I have not ever even had a woman from Pakistan interested in the likes of me. I do not assume to know why or have any complaints.....but it could be because of my extremely ugly face. Something to think about though.


sigh
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Aug 12, 2014 1:11 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Op, reading your post my conclusion is.... That Pakistan is at least 70 years behind the West, on Dating. In theocratic societies progress is usually slow.
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Aug 12, 2014 1:34 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
chris27292729: Op, reading your post my conclusion is.... That Pakistan is at least 70 years behind the West, on Dating. In theocratic societies progress is usually slow.


with the risk of a short "hijack", What do you think about the Women in Greece? As in regards to dating online? (Generally speaking) is it frowned upon? just curious about this now.
Thanks.
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Aug 12, 2014 1:50 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
inn0cent_soul: A few generations ago, dating was considered a taboo issue here for PAkistanis. The matchmaking, and matrimonial decisions of young people were often taken by elders of the family and parents.
Society used to super impose it's rules and young people were condemned, intermingling with each other before marriage.
Now, with the passage of time, call it global influence or steady revolution, PAKISTANIS are passing from VICTORIAN ERA of dating.

Almost every guy here wants to date. However, the majority of these guys strongly condemn same act for their sisters and blood relations.

You would find a typical PAKISTANI guy posing himself as 20 years old and looking for any lady with in the age rang of 18-60 from any corner of the world. However, the same guy would turn very conservative and protective for his own blood relation; sister, daughter, mother.
The same typical Pakistani guy would feel that his honor has been breached if his female blood relations would look out for happiness.

A typical Pakistani male never wants his female blood relations to enjoy life the way he wants to enjoy.
Therefore, when ever I ask any pakistani male on any dating site that what whould there reactions be when some one approached their sister the way the are trying to approach me, the majority of them get frustrated. They feel insulted and this question strike them as bolt from blue!!!
Bye to all dual standards mentally cursed brats I am not looking for you!!!
If you do not want your sisters to be approached by other guys, and want them to act like nuns, well then live in fool's paradise you people have created for your self !!!
Don't worry too much about it , those same guys don't get dates because of guys just like them . Its not just a problem in Pakistan , a lot of 30 something males in NZ can't connect either because the 30 something girls think they are smarter because the have been to uni and have degrees while their brothers have trades . So the guys get pissed off and go to Aussie where they end up with Aussie girls . A number of young men from this small district have done this . hijack small hijack but never mind .
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Aug 12, 2014 2:11 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
epirb: Don't worry too much about it , those same guys don't get dates because of guys just like them . Its not just a problem in Pakistan , a lot of 30 something males in NZ can't connect either because the 30 something girls think they are smarter because the have been to uni and have degrees while their brothers have trades . So the guys get pissed off and go to Aussie where they end up with Aussie girls . A number of young men from this small district have done this . small hijack but never mind .



Is that your way of saying that Aussie birds at stupid ?

grin

hole
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Aug 12, 2014 2:19 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
RDM59: Is that your way of saying that Aussie birds at stupid ?
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing haha very good . Not quite , our guys get paid 3 times in Aus what they get here , Aussie girls know what side their breads buttered on . NZ's don't get the dole in Aus so have to work so they do . Attractive proposition for a woman .
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Aug 12, 2014 2:29 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
epirb: haha very good . Not quite , our guys get paid 3 times in Aus what they get here , Aussie girls know what side their breads buttered on . NZ's don't get the dole in Aus so have to work so they do . Attractive proposition for a woman .


Struth, NZ had better watch out. What are the intellectual lesbian statistics like there now ?
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Aug 12, 2014 2:30 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
what's up with these "blank" posts? they have no text just the time stamp......glitch or???
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Aug 12, 2014 2:32 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Dragos1: what's up with these "blank" posts? they have no text just the time stamp......glitch or???


oh!! I think i understand... just an ad that is not working. lol
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Aug 12, 2014 2:33 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Dragos1: oh!! I think i understand... just an ad that is not working. lol


I wish I got them ..... grin
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Aug 12, 2014 2:36 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
RDM59: Struth, NZ had better watch out. What are the intellectual lesbian statistics like there now ?
media keep spouting that there is a man drought , not noticed . Have noticed 30 something female go to 45 age bracket , noticed some late 40's go up to 45 year males not to mention over 50's like the age bracket as well .
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Aug 12, 2014 2:41 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
epirb: media keep spouting that there is a man drought , not noticed . Have noticed 30 something female go to 45 age bracket , noticed some late 40's go up to 45 year males not to mention over 50's like the age bracket as well .


So what are you waiting for ? Go get 'em you lucky man ..... banana

cheers
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Aug 12, 2014 2:51 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
RDM59: So what are you waiting for ? Go get 'em you lucky man .....
if I was 44 I would be worn raggard , sill professor could change my age , dye my hair wooohooooo whats a little white lie
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Aug 12, 2014 3:04 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Frowned upon??? No way. Plenty greek dating sites (have a look at (eigible GR.)as well the international one's.cheers
Dragos1: with the risk of a short "hijack", What do you think about the Women in Greece? As in regards to dating online? (Generally speaking) is it frowned upon? just curious about this now.
Thanks.
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Aug 12, 2014 3:07 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
chris27292729: Frowned upon??? No way. Plenty greek dating sites (have a look at (eigible GR.)as well the international one's.
Unfortunately CS,does nor accept the Greek Alphabet as a medium for communication.
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Aug 12, 2014 3:12 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
chris27292729: Unfortunately CS,does nor accept the Greek Alphabet as a medium for communication.



applause cheering cheering cheering applause


??t?



tongue
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Aug 12, 2014 3:18 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
RDM59: ??t?
Why applauding???? You writing and speaking it, by adoption.applause applause applause
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Aug 12, 2014 3:20 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
chris27292729: Frowned upon??? No way. Plenty greek dating sites (have a look at (eigible GR.)as well the international one's.


yes of course but i mean about the acceptance "off" the web potential judgement of those women. For instance there is also many ads for meeting "Women in Pakistan" and pretty much everywhere though according to the OP in her home it is not accepted.. if it is something you are not familiar with I totally understand....There is plenty here I probably don't have a clue about.
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Aug 12, 2014 3:25 AM CST PAKISTANI's DATING
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Nobody,will point a figure,as not proper,finding a partner, via internet. cheers
Dragos1: yes of course but i mean about the acceptance "off" the web potential judgement of those women. For instance there is also many ads for meeting "Women in Pakistan" and pretty much everywhere though according to the OP in her home it is not accepted.. if it is something you are not familiar with I totally understand....There is plenty here I probably don't have a clue about.
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