Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together! ( Archived) (33)

Dec 13, 2006 11:22 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
My exboyfriend who cheated on me wants to get back together! There was a time when that's what I wanted too. I found out that it was the fact that I have children that was the main problem for him. That hasn't changed I still have children. Apparently he's seen the error of his ways. He told me that he regrets hurting me and that he misses how I'm always happy with life. He tells me that I was the best damn woman he's ever had and he can't say he's sorry enough for hurting me. I never thought that phone call would ever come, and now that it has I feel alot differently than I thought I would.
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Dec 13, 2006 11:28 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
It sounds to me like you've moved on and have realized that since he doesn't accept your children as part of the package, then he doesn't accept you for you.

hug hug hug
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Dec 13, 2006 11:32 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
I honestly think I have. We talked for an hour on the phone and I learned one of the problems besides distance. I also learned that he doesn't have a hold on my heart anymore. It was quite the realization. I guess it took talking to him to realize that. cheering cheering cheering
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Dec 13, 2006 11:35 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
IrishLass1
IrishLass1IrishLass1Metairie, USA71 Threads 1,998 Posts
Sounds like he grew up a little too late. He still has growing to do, he is having trouble moving on as you have put him in the past. The future is where you are looking and he is only starting to work on the past. I wishing this Christmas that your future love life is much brighter in the New Year then it was in the past.angel hug
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Dec 13, 2006 11:50 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
I think my love life is going to be alot brighter. I won't be wasting another minute hoping to get back with someone who discovered a little too late what he had when he had it. hug
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Dec 13, 2006 11:51 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
you have too good of pick-up lines anywaylaugh
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Dec 13, 2006 11:58 AM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
cardsfan23
cardsfan23cardsfan23somewhere, USA23 Threads 4,228 Posts
sounds like you got the closure you neededyay
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Dec 13, 2006 12:00 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Yeah your right! And would be a shame to let them go to waste! rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 13, 2006 12:02 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
themechanic
themechanicthemechanicNo, Wisconsin USA16 Threads 1,774 Posts
hummmmdunno
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Dec 13, 2006 12:03 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
when you got that kinda gold you gotta spend it
go ahead lay it on mechrolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 13, 2006 12:05 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
themechanic
themechanicthemechanicNo, Wisconsin USA16 Threads 1,774 Posts
Gold is so Old lets go with platinum and everyone wins this time.
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Dec 13, 2006 12:48 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
gonna leave us hangin twinkles? don't wanna paraphrase.
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Dec 13, 2006 12:50 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
themechanic
themechanicthemechanicNo, Wisconsin USA16 Threads 1,774 Posts
OK I will retort why settle when you can have the best... thats the way it must be if you ask me...
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Dec 13, 2006 1:46 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Sorry for leaving you hanging, I had to run to the grocery store! tongue
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Dec 13, 2006 1:48 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Mech you've just been voted the best looking guy in this place! Your prize is..........A night with me! dancing cheers peace
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Dec 13, 2006 1:52 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
manny3
manny3manny3Sydney, New South Wales Australia12 Threads 230 Posts
good on ya! i think its great that uve realised them - sure u might miss him a little , but ur kids are more important to u n u realise that no matter what u shouldnt have to compromise that. U'll be a great mum n hey who cares - ull find someone better later on down the track
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Dec 13, 2006 2:00 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
He wants some nookie.





El Diablo
devil
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Dec 13, 2006 2:00 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
Talking about your embarrassed friend over yonder.
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Dec 13, 2006 2:03 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
Wow, my X had the same problem and now is asking me to go to the movies. I was polite and said I had a conflict (which I do) but the urge to say drop dead was right at the tip of my tongue. Play Carrie Underwoods song "Before He Cheats" a couple of times and you'll feel better--I know it cheers me up.dancing
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Dec 13, 2006 4:19 PM CST Out of the blue he calls and wants to get together!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
I'll have to find that song! Thanks! banana cheers hug
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