Xian000: I was ask by my suitor for a date, and this is my first date. The thing is i'm not comfortable being around him..but i think he is a nice guy. What do i need to expect on first date? What do i need to say because i don't..im a little bit shy..i don't want him to get upset..i felt so nervous for my upcoming date this week.
Okay. You say you are not comfortable being around him. This then is your answer. Do not go on a date with a man you are not comfortable with.
My wife is Fuzhou local woman. She and I had traditional dating leading to marriage.
If you are not comfortable being around your suitor, then don't be around him.
You need to say to him, that he is a nice guy, but you are not interested in dating him.
There are many divorces in China now. Do not become another one. You can choose the right man and the right suitor for you.
michaelright: that event must have happened by now ,,, how did it go ??
yeah already, but we didn't go out for a date, i just ask him for a coffee and talk..people was right, i don't need to be with someone that im not comfortable being with..i made a clean break before i walked away..
Xian000: yeah already, but we didn't go out for a date, i just ask him for a coffee and talk..people was right, i don't need to be with someone that im not comfortable being with..i made a clean break before i walked away.. btw...thanks everyone..i appreciate everything.
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Okay. You say you are not comfortable being around him. This then is your answer. Do not go on a date with a man you are not comfortable with.
My wife is Fuzhou local woman. She and I had traditional dating leading to marriage.
If you are not comfortable being around your suitor, then don't be around him.
You need to say to him, that he is a nice guy, but you are not interested in dating him.
There are many divorces in China now. Do not become another one. You can choose the right man and the right suitor for you.