Why don't guys show manners anymore? ( Archived) (22)

I can say that those of us that have a hard path are the richer in soul for it. If it was easy, we wouldn't learn the lessons needed, I feel. No, one person cannot change all. But, just being in the lifes of those you touch ripple far and wide...We donnot always see the effect we have. But, it is there nontheless...
You are embarking on living. That is the true thing. Not all thingsare clear and known. But, cycles and nature are constant...

Yet I seem to be an outcast of my own kind...The cycle is not yet complete and it will not be until I die and be reborn into the next life. All things must come to an end, even life at some point. When I die I will at last be one with the force, that is the purpose I have on this Earth...Not to know all, yet I strive to know all that I can.

Read some books on selling, advertising, motivation, psychology...ect.. You will learn alot about yourself and others. You will learn prime motivators...Pain and gain. You will learn what makes people do what they do. You can also read books on body language and the like.

Your friend has only learned how to prey on some weakness and how to push buttons to keep control. He learn this by copying others that are getting women that way. With a little learning you can leave him in the dust. But the lady you find will have a nice guy and not a jerk.

It is sad to say, but a girl I was in school with married one of those guys. She was a real sweetheart. He has the things he wants while her teeth are rotting, He beats her, she lives in misery, her clothes are ratty, her hair does not see the beauty shop...etc. He has four wheelers, boats,...etc. As soon as she is used up, he will get a new one. Get out there and learn. Save a real sweetheart!

You sound just ike me when I was younger. You've got alot to learn about people and it is a heartbreaking road. READ!

My tinkerman helper:)

No the cycle is not complete...And, yes things do come to and end in reguards to being human. After that, as I said before, new energy, new life. Noone know sAll, yet we have it in us, and a part of it All. We know as much as we can learn while here, some more, some less...Depends how open they are...This you know well. You are as I was, am, will be...Never stop learning...

Darth,

Sad to say that you are a person out of your time. It does come with age. Alot of the girls are attracted to the "bad boy" type, and do not learn until they get burned. Unfortunately, once is not often enough, and they create a cycle where they keep picking the same losers and if they are lucky they escape with their lives. I was married to someone like that and was fool enough to think I could change him.

First mistake -thinking you have the power to change someone.


If they are not decent individuals by the time they are 20, they probably will never be. And it is a self-esteem issue.

There are alot of older women who can see you for what you are, and a certain percentage of the younger set.

Do not change who you are - patience is the key.


Joanne

hehe patience...that word again...:)

He is learning this, I know. We may not change another, but make a difference in thier lives, yes. Good and bad alike, we learn from. If we are open and true to ourselves first, then we can move on in our paths...Even older folk get stuck in beliefs, but they too can learn, and lotsdo if they want to change themselves.
Darth has great depth, and honor. Young, yes. Yummy, oh yes, lol. But, a very real person with integrity. He will go far, and has come far since I've known him. Life has away of throwing many blcks that we tediously take down on brick at a time...Some are easily knocked over, but the best lessons are thick, tough walls that take time to master...

'kay, done for now, LOL! heh:P

Good advice all of you, Yet to get to know a person don't they need to try? If they don't even give me a chance how do I get them to want to know me? I try a lot and get rejection a lot. It really doesn't bother me too much now. I keep waiting, I know good things come in time but, what if later doesn not exist for me in this life, not that I think I'm going to die but, it is always possible. Reading books does not help one with true living people most of the time. I have found that one must pay more attention to the living force, and kick jerks in the balls, not that I do but, they need it. My friend has got hit in the mouth by me countless times for hitting his new g/f she is like the sweetest person I know. She's no longer aloud to talk to me anymore though. I gave her hope and strength. I heard last night she fought back and won! hope it was true...And just so everyone knows I do listen to what you ALL have to say, I am trying to be the best I can be, no perfect but, no one is...Love is not found love hits you in the face when you don't expect it..

A true thing, that, LOL!

Don't ya just love my lectures, though? hehehe

Yup, hits ya between the eyes alright...In my case, I'm lucky I can see further than just what is in my face...
A person can share my journey, or stay where they are. Choices and many of them...don't get caught up in "what ifs", hon. It's a trap. You can only know what you go for. If it doesn't work, sad yes. Heartbreaking at times, very much...But, each one that touches your life is meant...

Yet the journey of rejection is not over...Think about it...