Breaking up (27)
MightyRCKnight: I recently ended a six months relationship. It took me some time to realize how much this woman meant to me. I tried to tell myself so many times I am better off without her. Which may be the truth but despite our differences I would give the world to have her back. Not really.
We had a lot of issues we had difficulties resolving. I did not want to go into marriage with so many issues and I did not want to spend my time trying to resolve them. So the right thing to do was to end it. However ending it was very painful. My days were dull and dreary and my nights were long and filled with tears. I have never felt so lost and alone in my life. I tried to get her to give me another chance but after many chances wasted she had enough. Now I am left with a broken heart that doesn’t seem to be in any hurry to heal. I however did a few things wrong.
When I realized I wanted to end the relationship I did so promptly but I kept seeing her and having conversations with her and as a result missed her and wanted her back. Because I was the one who ended the relationship she was hurting and wanted to end the pain and the natural and easiest way was to get back with me. BIG MISTAKE.
With the issues unresolved it made no sense going back. We found ourselves in a cycle of breaking up and getting back together again which never lasted for long anyway. What should have happened is that we took some time to deal with the problems affecting us we would not be compelled to break-up over the same issues. I think however that we should have stayed apart while it would have been less painful to breakup. We didn’t so now I am in a world of emotional pain and mental anguish. I wanna beg her to take me back but that would make me seem pathetic. So I just have to ride it out until I am completely healed.
We had a lot of issues we had difficulties resolving. I did not want to go into marriage with so many issues and I did not want to spend my time trying to resolve them. So the right thing to do was to end it. However ending it was very painful. My days were dull and dreary and my nights were long and filled with tears. I have never felt so lost and alone in my life. I tried to get her to give me another chance but after many chances wasted she had enough. Now I am left with a broken heart that doesn’t seem to be in any hurry to heal. I however did a few things wrong.
When I realized I wanted to end the relationship I did so promptly but I kept seeing her and having conversations with her and as a result missed her and wanted her back. Because I was the one who ended the relationship she was hurting and wanted to end the pain and the natural and easiest way was to get back with me. BIG MISTAKE.
With the issues unresolved it made no sense going back. We found ourselves in a cycle of breaking up and getting back together again which never lasted for long anyway. What should have happened is that we took some time to deal with the problems affecting us we would not be compelled to break-up over the same issues. I think however that we should have stayed apart while it would have been less painful to breakup. We didn’t so now I am in a world of emotional pain and mental anguish. I wanna beg her to take me back but that would make me seem pathetic. So I just have to ride it out until I am completely healed.
Your a sociopath
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chemistrymajor: Most relationships never have a chance of succeeding because people make the mistake of getting involved with someone who isn't equally yoked and have a foundation of Jesus Christ to build upon.
A fondation of Jesus Christ? I like that though. ..
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MightyRCKnight: I recently ended a six months relationship. It took me some time to realize how much this woman meant to me. I tried to tell myself so many times I am better off without her. Which may be the truth but despite our differences I would give the world to have her back. Not really.
We had a lot of issues we had difficulties resolving. I did not want to go into marriage with so many issues and I did not want to spend my time trying to resolve them. So the right thing to do was to end it. However ending it was very painful. My days were dull and dreary and my nights were long and filled with tears. I have never felt so lost and alone in my life. I tried to get her to give me another chance but after many chances wasted she had enough. Now I am left with a broken heart that doesn’t seem to be in any hurry to heal. I however did a few things wrong.
When I realized I wanted to end the relationship I did so promptly but I kept seeing her and having conversations with her and as a result missed her and wanted her back. Because I was the one who ended the relationship she was hurting and wanted to end the pain and the natural and easiest way was to get back with me. BIG MISTAKE.
With the issues unresolved it made no sense going back. We found ourselves in a cycle of breaking up and getting back together again which never lasted for long anyway. What should have happened is that we took some time to deal with the problems affecting us we would not be compelled to break-up over the same issues. I think however that we should have stayed apart while it would have been less painful to breakup. We didn’t so now I am in a world of emotional pain and mental anguish. I wanna beg her to take me back but that would make me seem pathetic. So I just have to ride it out until I am completely healed.
We had a lot of issues we had difficulties resolving. I did not want to go into marriage with so many issues and I did not want to spend my time trying to resolve them. So the right thing to do was to end it. However ending it was very painful. My days were dull and dreary and my nights were long and filled with tears. I have never felt so lost and alone in my life. I tried to get her to give me another chance but after many chances wasted she had enough. Now I am left with a broken heart that doesn’t seem to be in any hurry to heal. I however did a few things wrong.
When I realized I wanted to end the relationship I did so promptly but I kept seeing her and having conversations with her and as a result missed her and wanted her back. Because I was the one who ended the relationship she was hurting and wanted to end the pain and the natural and easiest way was to get back with me. BIG MISTAKE.
With the issues unresolved it made no sense going back. We found ourselves in a cycle of breaking up and getting back together again which never lasted for long anyway. What should have happened is that we took some time to deal with the problems affecting us we would not be compelled to break-up over the same issues. I think however that we should have stayed apart while it would have been less painful to breakup. We didn’t so now I am in a world of emotional pain and mental anguish. I wanna beg her to take me back but that would make me seem pathetic. So I just have to ride it out until I am completely healed.
This woman could by any woman as it's clearly about you: I believe you'd give the world to lose the sense of loneliness, crushing rejection, and fear that it's never going to end.
This "how dare I be rejected!" is a weakness of the egotistic, prideful and selfish. Normally these traits will help you get a woman, but yes indeed they are also a weakness to be watched.
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TheRedSquirrel87: This woman could by any woman as it's clearly about you: I believe you'd give the world to lose the sense of loneliness, crushing rejection, and fear that it's never going to end.
This "how dare I be rejected!" is a weakness of the egotistic, prideful and selfish. Normally these traits will help you get a woman, but yes indeed they are also a weakness to be watched.
This "how dare I be rejected!" is a weakness of the egotistic, prideful and selfish. Normally these traits will help you get a woman, but yes indeed they are also a weakness to be watched.
In other words your arrogance makes you feel like you need to "win" with something you don't even want as the thought of losing leaves your manly pride in tatters.
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TheRedSquirrel87: In other words your arrogance makes you feel like you need to "win" with something you don't even want as the thought of losing leaves your manly pride in tatters.
What this does is make petty relationships and women you don't care about important to you for all the wrong reasons. You'll take rejection hard and things will be too heavy because you've got so much of your sense of self-worth depending on the outcome.
In essence you become like the girl who only wants what she can't have and the bad boys who don't want her. It's not that objectively speaking you want that thing because it's amazing, you want that thing because your ego and vanity can't stand the thought of not having it.
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TheRedSquirrel87: What this does is make petty relationships and women you don't care about important to you for all the wrong reasons. You'll take rejection hard and things will be too heavy because you've got so much of your sense of self-worth depending on the outcome.
In essence you become like the girl who only wants what she can't have and the bad boys who don't want her. It's not that objectively speaking you want that thing because it's amazing, you want that thing because your ego and vanity can't stand the thought of not having it.
In essence you become like the girl who only wants what she can't have and the bad boys who don't want her. It's not that objectively speaking you want that thing because it's amazing, you want that thing because your ego and vanity can't stand the thought of not having it.
Fortunately stalking doesn't carry over so much. Men who can get women but nonetheless also take rejection badly don't become the fanatical stalkers that attractive women do when they want something they can't have. The attractive man has a sapling of self-restraint which the attractive woman doesn't and that sapling needs to grow with reflection and experience.
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Then you didn't deserve her and in the end, to me, probably used her to resolve your empty nights