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Cervatilla: I was just looking at old threads/polls & this question came up a few years ago - 'should you leave CS if you start a relationship?
years ago I was on this site but I found the forums to be particularly nasty from some of the people here then so I left, a lot of those people seem to have gone now so maybe this time I won't be accused of having a fake profile!! A while ago I came back & have concentrated on the blogs side but I am still drawn to the forums.
Do you think the same as the members at that time that you should leave CS if you find someone you feel would be a permanent partner or not?
Personally I don't see the harm in staying as long as your partner realises that you are not 'looking'. CS is great for chatting & making friends & jealousy should not come into it, after all we chat to many people in RL so what is the difference?
Thoughts please.
I dont see any reasons to be in CS, if I am in a relationship. Regarding friendship, my friends have my personal contacts, and we dont need a platform to interact. years ago I was on this site but I found the forums to be particularly nasty from some of the people here then so I left, a lot of those people seem to have gone now so maybe this time I won't be accused of having a fake profile!! A while ago I came back & have concentrated on the blogs side but I am still drawn to the forums.
Do you think the same as the members at that time that you should leave CS if you find someone you feel would be a permanent partner or not?
Personally I don't see the harm in staying as long as your partner realises that you are not 'looking'. CS is great for chatting & making friends & jealousy should not come into it, after all we chat to many people in RL so what is the difference?
Thoughts please.
at same time, there is nothing wrong if someone chooses to use CS after/during/before. Just a suggestion: "everything in moderation, including moderation"
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