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Jan 5, 2007 6:46 PM CST is love really unconditional
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
love is unconditional.for it does not have conditions in it
for love does not say do this or do that and i will love you
love does not try to change you into something you are not
love does not try to change you into something they want you to be
love accepts you as you are and for who you are

love has no ending for love is infinite,for it grows with each beat of the heart.
love does not end only people who do not know what love is,ends love
love only has a beginning for it starts when you allow it into your heart and grow with each beat of your heart
love shows compassion for the other person
love never does anything to hurt the other person

love is not selfish but it is unselfish for it puts the other person
their feelings and needs before their's
love is faithful
love is true and love is never untrue
love is made up of comproimses,for it is not 1 side it
for it is made up of compromises they both agree on

love is understanding,for love knows the other person is differt
for in time love understand them,love accepts them as they are and for who they are
love is patient for it waits on the other person
it does not rush them into doing anything
but it waits until they are ready
love is consider of the other person and their feelings
love never does nor says anything to hurt them

true love does not cause hurt nor pain
true love can meand a broken heart
true love can take all of the hurt and pain out
replace it with love and happiness
love is a commitment that 2 people makes to each other
it is a bond that holds them togther

that no one nor nothing can break them apart
no matter what tomorrow brings they will face it togther
love does not judge for it understands no one is prefect
for it accepts them as they are and for who they are
love does not think it is better than the other person
but love humbles itself before the other person

love is not ungrateful,but it apprecite the other person and everything they do for it.
love does not take the other person for granted
but they always them tell how they feel about them
tells them how much they mean to them
love is forgiving for it forgives

love thanks God everyday for allowing them to have another day
to spend with the one they love
love does not end but love will last forever if you and them are willing to let it last forever
for true love once you allow it into your heart will last forever
for true love grows with every beat of your heart
even when the other person heart stops beating
their love will live forever in your heart

when you find a true heart that holds true love
not your heart that will tell you but your soul
your soul will tell you if their love is true or not
listen to your soul and not your heart
for if you listen to your soul than you will find true love
if you listen to your heart than you will have your heart broken


anyways trust your soul and not your heart
for your heart can be lie to
but your could can never ever be lie to
if you listen to your soul than you will find true love
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Jan 5, 2007 6:55 PM CST is love really unconditional
bobby7
bobby7bobby7Mission, Canada16 Threads 2,351 Posts
Nice one Z!..Love is unconditional!..I know, I had it for 30 years..

It is the most precious gift the Creator ever gave humans..cheers
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Jan 5, 2007 7:23 PM CST is love really unconditional
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
No, true love is not un-conditional. My beloved wee Angus, bless him, my rock in good times and bad was the best mate I could ever have. A wee Westie but the best bloke! They say with a dog its unconditional love, buts its not because, yes, they love you, you adore them and they know it. But they expect you, come what may, to feed them. I believe its unquestioning love - there's a difference and, I believe, so much more. There will always be conditions, even unspoken ones (particularly with people), but to not question someone's love is true love!!
JMO.
Dx.dunno wave yay
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Jan 5, 2007 7:30 PM CST is love really unconditional
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
I feel it should be...
Have I found that yet, who knows...

Really everyone has likes and dislikes.
Things they can live with and things they
can't live with. So I'm not really sure.
Does the above fall under conditions?
dunno
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Jan 5, 2007 7:39 PM CST is love really unconditional
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Well, you will be with someone, surely, because they attract you, love you, respect you, have your best interests at heart, a good provider, companion, comforter, breadwinner, mate, confidant, etc, etc, so yes there are conditions. If you never had any of those things and maybe more, you wouldn't be with that person. Why would you? But to love them unquestionably and not question their love if you really believe them to love you..................??!

For it to be unconditional would mean that you don't expect anything, and I mean anything, of them and that is not human nature........... We live by certain expectations and certain standards, don't we?
JMO.
Dx.
wave grin
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Jan 5, 2007 7:43 PM CST is love really unconditional
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Well I have to agree with you there hon...
I like whom I like...
beer grin
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Jan 5, 2007 7:45 PM CST is love really unconditional
should could would ever never always unrealistic





jmo
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Jan 5, 2007 9:37 PM CST is love really unconditional
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
dunno if you can say no than you do not know
what true love is for true love is unconditional
there is no conditions place on it,you take it or leave it

they say open your hand there i will place my heart and the love my heart holds,you can either love it with all or your heart
your can break it and leave it in pieces laying at my feet
no matter what you do i will always and forever love you
there is nothing you can do to stop my love for you


it is laying everything on the line
for the other person
it is being able to put the other person
their feelings and their needs before yours
it is making that person your everything

it is what makes your heart beat
it is what you think of when you are awake
it is what you dream about when you sleep


it is being able to thank God when you wake up in the morning
for he bless you with another day to love them
it is falling asleep with them in your arms
just before you fall asleep you thank God again
for blessing you another day with them
it is wanting to out of your own free will
to spend the rest of your life loving that person and only that person
no matter what tomorrow brings you will be there by their side


you will be there to share the good times with them
you will be there to help them through the bad times
you will be there to lift them up when they are down
you will be there to give them hope when they lost all hope
you will be there to restorn their faith when they have lose their faith


you will never do anything to hurt them
but you will always be there to protect them
you will not do anything to make them cry
but when life makes them cry
you will be there to hold them in your arms
you will be there to wipe their tears away with tender loving care


them will become your life and your world
you will not love them for the rest of their life
but you will love them for the rest of your life
evening when they do not deserve to be love
you will still love them
evening when they do something to hurt you
you will forgive them and you will still love them

for you know in unconditional love
you know no one is perfect and we all make mistakes
when someone makes a mistake you are able to forgive them


for in unconditional love you accept them as they are
you accept them for who they are
you are thankfull for having them in your life
the thing about true unconditional love it never ends
for it grows with each beat and every beat of your heart
for true love does not lay in the heart where one day that heart will stop
so will the love that heart holds stops


but true love lays in the soul
for the soul never stops
but the soul lives on through eternity
than so will the love that soul holds
live through eternity
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Jan 5, 2007 9:44 PM CST is love really unconditional
Mike1162
Mike1162Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA70 Threads 1,694 Posts
Love can be unconditional. Sadly though we live in a society that is based on:

"What's in it for me"
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Jan 5, 2007 9:51 PM CST is love really unconditional
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
hug cheers hug

in order for it to work both out of their own free will must want it to work.it will not work unless both of them want it to work.it takes two people to make it work


but you cannot give up on love,take time to heal and get back on that horse.dare to dream that impossible dream once more.the thing to remember and sometimes it is hard to believe or to understand.

just as hard as you are seeking someone,at the same time someone is seeking you.for now you are like two ships passing in the night,passing each other,but not seeing each other


than one day heaven will smile upon you and bang you will find them.just as they are finding you.sometimes love likes to play hide and seek.you have to search all over for them.just about when you are about to give up love finds you


love is all around you,you just have to know where to look for it
but sometimes love is right in front of us and we never see it
than one day heaven smiles down upon us and open our eyes
than we will see love looking back at us
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Jan 5, 2007 9:52 PM CST is love really unconditional
we see things when God is ready to reveal them to us.tongue
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Jan 5, 2007 10:17 PM CST is love really unconditional
N_of_Rockapulco
N_of_RockapulcoN_of_RockapulcoBorden, Ontario Canada1 Threads 167 Posts
I like the way you put that. I lost someone once by questioning her love instead of simply having a blind faith in it. I always thought it should be unconditional, but unquestioning seems a more accurate term.
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