smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
We have had heartbreak and now the requirements, are all but what was in the past... The people from the past must all have had something in common, which is what you actually are looking for... Be carefull to make the same mistake again, or to try for the opposite too...
We do experience heartbreaks mostly because we have the wrong idea of what is good for us, what we need or we turn into someone else to fit in a relationship... I've never dated two men who are similar to each other... And to be honest the guy who feels like my other half is someone I wouldn't even consider giving a chance... The impossible exist only in your mind...
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
pKrema: We do experience heartbreaks mostly because we have the wrong idea of what is good for us, what we need or we turn into someone else to fit in a relationship... I've never dated two men who are similar to each other... And to be honest the guy who feels like my other half is someone I wouldn't even consider giving a chance... The impossible exist only in your mind...
Who can tell You what is Good for You... Nobody knows you like yourself.
All the men in my life since my marriage, has been different to my ex...so I went for the opposite, and still do...
all of my relationships have shown me what I want....what I don't want...what I can tolerate and what I cant....sooooo I have learned my lessons well and now I want what I want and it has nothing to do with where I have been because I refuse to go backwards....there is nothing worth repeating back there....
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The people from the past must all have had something in common, which is what you actually are looking for... Be carefull to make the same mistake again, or to try for the opposite too...