Age is only a number ( Archived) (37)

Where are all the mature men, I have been on this web site for one week and have received flowers from much younger men not that this is not flattering but a bit older would be nice. I am 65 and it appears when men are searching they usually do not go into this age group unless they are really old. I am attractive, young in looks/attitude, vibrant and enjoy life to the fullest. Being 65 in this day and age is not over the hill we are the 50's group of yesterdays. So why not widen your horizons you may be surprised what you will find, there are many attractive, etc women out there that have lived and still are living. How do you feel about the May September connections, this goes both ways not just for the men.

No one things anything about an old man and younger woman when the fact is men die younger than women so we really should date younger men. I have dated men 12 years older than I and 12 years younger. it really depends on the man, not the age number. Look for the person, not the number--you never know what you will find.

I can relate to what you are saying...I get mail from guys in there very early 20's, and I thank them, but tell them I am old enough to be their mom, lol...I am 41 yrs old...I am not about to stael anyones son

You look absolutely beautiful! Great pic, and nice attitude
Best of luck in what you are searching for.

Angel

When I was 25 I had a girlfriend that was 40. We stayed together for 11 years. Those were the best years of my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
We finally broke up because I noticed her struggling to try to keep herself younger looking and I didn't want her to have to do that. I fealt that she should be able to age gracefully without knocking herself out to stay younger looking.
At the time I also had a dead end job and was going nowhere and I wanted a better and more secure future for her.
She ended up getting just what she wanted and needed so we ended up happy.
Besides, we are still friends to this day and talk every once in a while.
I love older women. I enjoy their maturity and "real" outlooks on life.

They are out there best of luck and much success!

SEMOCT, I just ead your profile, contrary too popular beliefe, not all Americans are rich. This is a case where it doesnt involve age, it involves other numbers, like $$$$$$.

I hear ya sista
I too am wondering why more men 40-60 are not involved in the forums - and then one looks at the topics and the postings
So, go for it, start some topics that appeal to the crowd you seek, and hope that someone does not find a way to turn it into another "would you ..... with the person above you"
Good luck, and if they are in their 40's send them my way

There are some really interesting men that do post to the forum threads, and I always enjoy reading their postings when they do

I don't see any flower in MY mailbox

All those ladies out there....thousands and thousands....online, even!! And .... I don't know...nobody reads my profile...they don't even look at it for two seconds, I bet. ALot of them don't even know how to say "thank you" after I sent a brief "hello". And I've sent more than a few....alot of women are so concerned about that "good-looking" guy. Sad truth is, we're not going to stay "good-looking" forever. Some change sooner than others. And what would they do if one day that "good-looking guy" decided to lie about something very important? Or one day he decided you no longer have a right to your own opinions and feelings? And worse and even more importantly, decided to physically hurt you? The saddest thing is, society is all
too fixated on how "good-looking" you are and have ABSOLUTELY NO REGARD FOR WHO AND WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE. HOW ONE TREATS ANOTHER. This is really a sad, sad world. It's how we react and adapt to it, I believe, or worse...how we seem to TOLLERATE IT that makes us either weak...or...strong. That's my blog or word for the day!
Take care everybody...and thank you for reading this public service
announcement (heh,heh,..okay..I gotta lighten it up a little..right?)

Best regards,
Stranger20