Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne ( Archived) (11)

Sep 12, 2005 2:42 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
beeoch
beeochbeeochlethbridge, Alberta Canada2 Threads 5 Posts
I'll never understand exs!!! They don't want you, but when they have another partner, then they decide they want you now and continuously flirt with you. What's with that? Jealousy maybe i dunno
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Sep 12, 2005 3:19 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Maybe they have learned since you are wanted by others that you are wantable. Did you change your appearance for the better after you to split up?
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Sep 12, 2005 4:21 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
beeoch
beeochbeeochlethbridge, Alberta Canada2 Threads 5 Posts
No, still the same person. However, the 2 of us have gotten older, so maybe that has something to do with it. I'm not sure anymore with men. I don't understand them.
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Sep 12, 2005 4:24 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I hear you there. They are almost as hard to understand as women, lol.
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Sep 12, 2005 4:44 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
control?
still feel some ownership? i dunno, hon, without knowing about it more. Frustrating, you bet.
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Sep 12, 2005 4:50 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
My ex wants to be friends. If I had my way I would have nothing to do with her but I have two boys to think about. When I go pick up and drop off the youngest I say as little as possible to her, even after being divorced for 10 years.
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Sep 12, 2005 4:54 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
yeah, but does she still flirt with you...? Games...
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Sep 12, 2005 4:55 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
No she doesn't and that's the way I like it :)
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Sep 12, 2005 10:40 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
theonejax
theonejaxtheonejaxCalgary, Canada5 Posts
It's a safe ego boost.

It's a way to get a "read" on their new partner's level of commitment???
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Sep 13, 2005 12:34 AM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I still have feelings for my ex. I just can't deal with my ex. I am too much a rebel like my kids, lol.
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Sep 13, 2005 12:14 PM CST Why do individuals feel they can flirt with their exs that they don't want while with another partne
ethandad
ethandadethandadvan buren, Arkansas USA3 Threads 14 Posts
I had the same problem, my sons mom didnt want to be with me but as soon as i even talked to another girl she was all up on me no matter if she had a new guy or not. So I would ditch the other person thinking that me and my ex were getting back together, and then it would blow up in my face. So I decided that Im gonna be happy no matter what. Whether it is with her or not. It is confusing how exes work sometimes. I can honestly say that i have never played mind games with my exes.
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