Who can never be happy ? ( Archived) (44)

Jan 30, 2022 2:00 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
The traits of people who will never be happy in life .
The person who doesn’t forgive .
The person who always compares themselves with others .
The people pleaser.
The person who puts their hope & faith is in others .
Do any of these apply to you ?

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Jan 30, 2022 2:06 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Youcannow: The traits of people who will never be happy in life .
The person who doesn’t forgive .
The person who always compares themselves with others .
The people pleaser.
The person who puts their hope & faith is in others .
Do any of these apply to you ?
Hi

Getting stuck in comfort zone is the most common reason where there is lack of growth in people's lives leading to lack of happiness. Moreover, when we try to play extra safe in our lives, hiding our dreams, instead of moving the needle forward we end up regretting in later part of our lives
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Jan 30, 2022 2:10 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow: The traits of people who will never be happy in life .
The person who doesn’t forgive .
The person who always compares themselves with others .
The people pleaser.
The person who puts their hope & faith is in others .
Do any of these apply to you ?
i.m very unhappy.professor ...I bought the tent.....and now you tell me. I can.t marry. Your daughter. very mad very mad laugh
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Jan 30, 2022 2:21 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
ysabeljhen: Hi

Getting stuck in comfort zone is the most common reason where there is lack of growth in people's lives leading to lack of happiness. Moreover, when we try to play extra safe in our lives, hiding our dreams, instead of moving the needle forward we end up regretting in later part of our lives
Well , those that have the courage to live will reap the rewards .
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Jan 30, 2022 2:21 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
truheart1941: i.m very unhappy. ...I bought the tent.....and now you tell me. I can.t marry. Your daughter.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 30, 2022 2:23 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Youcannow: Well , those that have the courage to live will reap the rewards .
Indeed they will be handshake nice thread wine
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Jan 30, 2022 2:25 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
truheart1941: i.m very unhappy. ...I bought the tent.....and now you tell me. I can.t marry. Your daughter.
I wouldn’t marry her if I were you .. she’s too high maintenance, but I’ll take the tent off your hands thumbs up laugh
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Jan 30, 2022 2:28 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
ysabeljhen: Indeed they will be nice thread
I think covid has changed many peoples lives , in the sense that many have lost touch with the outside world .
It’s time to stop existing & start living again wine
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Jan 30, 2022 2:33 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
W15hf00L
W15hf00LW15hf00LCork, Isle of Wight, England UK445 Posts
No one can ever be happy or unhappy all the time . Life is a balance of everything. Like Matter and Anti Matter ! For every positive, here is a negative .
Laugh , cry
Dry wet
Cold hot
Day night

The less your expectations the more chance of one being happy. Thus simplicity is a key to happiness.

A person who is not happy with what they have , that person will not be happy with whatever they have.!!!


professor dunno

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Jan 30, 2022 2:34 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow: I think covid has changed many peoples lives , in the sense that many have lost touch with the outside world .
It’s time to stop existing & start living again
that's true COVID has taken your face awaybanana banana grin
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Jan 30, 2022 2:38 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
W15hf00L: No one can ever be happy or unhappy all the time . Life is a balance of everything. Like Matter and Anti Matter ! For every positive, here is a negative .
Laugh , cry
Dry wet
Cold hot
Day night

The less your expectations the more chance of one being happy. Thus simplicity is a key to happiness.

A person who is not happy with what they have , that person will not be happy with whatever they have.!!!
. Your right. I.ve just losed. My tent.....crying crying grin
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Jan 30, 2022 2:38 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Youcannow: I think covid has changed many peoples lives , in the sense that many have lost touch with the outside world .
It’s time to stop existing & start living again
That is so true
I hope this will be the closing of this pandemic. People should try to go on living the life they had even it will never be the same again cheers
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Jan 30, 2022 2:40 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
W15hf00L: No one can ever be happy or unhappy all the time . Life is a balance of everything. Like Matter and Anti Matter ! For every positive, here is a negative .
Laugh , cry
Dry wet
Cold hot
Day night

The less your expectations the more chance of one being happy. Thus simplicity is a key to happiness.

A person who is not happy with what they have , that person will not be happy with whatever they have.!!!
Some good quotes .
But to be happy , you must also experience sadness.
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Jan 30, 2022 2:43 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
truheart1941: that's true COVID has taken your face away
I think it’s done me a favour in that respect ! laugh
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Jan 30, 2022 2:47 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
ysabeljhen: That is so true
I hope this will be the closing of this pandemic. People should try to go on living the life they had even it will never be the same again
It wasn’t covid that stopped me living my live but the restrictions the government put upon us.
I’m glad they have seen sense now & realise that the restrictions were doing more harm than covid . laugh
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Jan 30, 2022 2:49 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Youcannow: It wasn’t covid that stopped me living my live but the restrictions the government put upon us.
I’m glad they have seen sense now & realise that the restrictions were doing more harm than covid .
Restrictions made by the Pandemic confused
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Jan 30, 2022 2:54 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
ysabeljhen: Restrictions made by the Pandemic
Yes .
No socialising, even with friends & family .
Restaurants & bars closed .
No holidays etc etc ..
It must have been hell for children who couldn’t attend school & I can imagine how that affected their mental health .
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Jan 30, 2022 3:10 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
W15hf00L
W15hf00LW15hf00LCork, Isle of Wight, England UK445 Posts
truheart1941: . Your right. I.ve just losed. My tent.....
rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Always look on the bright side!

Your lose is someone else’s gain!

Sorry for you but so glad for
@youcsnnow



grin grin cheers
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Jan 30, 2022 4:28 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
Rare_
Rare_Rare_Surrey, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 8 Posts
truheart1941: that's true COVID has taken your face away
I wanna take my mask off ??
frustrated
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Jan 30, 2022 8:48 PM CST Who can never be happy ?
The traits of people who will never be happy in life .
The person who doesn’t forgive .
The person who always compares themselves with others .
The people pleaser.
The person who puts their hope & faith in others .
Do any of these apply to you ?

There many who fit these ideas
People pleasers lose every time. The more we seek approval
the more we enable those we are trying to please to walk all over us

Placing hope and faith in people is not too bad until
we start placing a sense of dependency and unrealistic expectations on them.

Often we make comparisons among each other in many ways.
Some examples would be to say one guy has a Lamborghini A million dollar house a fancy job a hot wife etc. while you are dealing with a Ford P.O.S. a broken down trailer and welfare checks and blow up doll for a friend. Why some are successful while others are failures? Poor decision making? Right decision making? A bit of luck? Or some who are just forced to live a life of poverty and loneliness? What we don't know is how happy is the guy with the Lamborghini vs the guy with a Ford?
Being content of who you are and status in life is fine until
you feel that comfort zone is not so comfy anymore.

Everyone here or at least 90% of the population here is seeking some sense of approval from everyone
who plays here. Or we wouldn't be on this site. Or any dating site for that matter. Yes everyone here has their personal motives why they are here. Nobody is obligated to discuss them either.

Our happiness even in our misery should not be defined by others approval but by our own.

The old saying you can please some of the people some of the time but, can't please them all the time.

There are hundreds of cliches out there and we used them all from time to time in the end
We are not here on this planet to make others happy but, ourselves. If being of service to others makes you happy then by all means do the service.

We were created to learn about this world we live in. One of our most instinctive natures is to survive. Our second nature is to love and be loved. When we love and feel loved we are happiest in that state of existence.
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