What's A Player??? (129)

Jan 22, 2007 6:22 PM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Can someone explain to me what a player is meant to mean on the dating scene?
I always thought a player is someone who plays silly games, has a few contacts on the go at the same time and feeding them all the same sort of lines. Am I wrong in thinking this?

A guy sent me a message today which I politely replied to, a few messages went back and forth, which were only polite conversation. He asked for my direct e-mail details which I told him, I didn't share with people I didn't know and he said, I was just a player confused
Jan 22, 2007 9:11 PM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
yeah...ya player you tongue
Jan 22, 2007 9:34 PM CST What's A Player???
bulldog66
bulldog66bulldog66doncaster, UK35 Threads 3,680 Posts
YO PLAYERS hows it hangin b.initwave touch me
Jan 23, 2007 12:14 AM CST What's A Player???
Kindladyxx
KindladyxxKindladyxxDorset, England UK3 Threads 23 Posts
Lily my view regarding a player is the same as yours, and he probably said that because he didn't get his own way and you didn't give him your e-mail address, I wouldn't worry about it his loss.
Jan 23, 2007 2:41 AM CST What's A Player???
scouser
scouserscouserlondon, UK17 Threads 1,346 Posts
You are a top player laugh wine
Jan 23, 2007 3:03 AM CST What's A Player???
lighter_times
lighter_timeslighter_timesRichmond, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 416 Posts
He wasn't from a part of the States was he?

It's just I get a lot of them and they all say here's my email address contact me direct. I respond with a thank you but prefer to keep my mail through this system and after two or three other messages saying it's easier for them to chat away from the board etc or they want the messages to be on a more familiar basis and I still say thanks but don't pass on my private email, they don't get in touch anymore. It's funny because in a couple of those messages although they were polite and quite charming I was called a player for not passing on my personal details.

Lily, I don't think you're a player, I think it was a phrase he used to entice you into proving to him you weren't by passing on your details. If you understand what I mean. Don't stress over it, the only player about at the time was him!thumbs down
Jan 23, 2007 6:54 AM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
hey tiger,jose mouriniho has bid for ya,

he wants ya to put some bite into the tackle rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 23, 2007 8:16 AM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Thanks ladies, I knew I could get a sensible reply from the females here roll eyes laugh I centainly don't I'm a player, I couldn't keep up with having one on the go, let alone more and knowing me, I'd stitch myself up by calling them by their wrong names laugh
Pauline, he's not on this site, I don't thnk blushing but he is in the UK. And I understand what you were saying. I didn't even bother replying to his last meassga, I thought rollocks to ya laugh

Scouse, what do you mean, I'm a top player? confused
For your info, I don't play with anyones top, not even me own laugh

Mike, Who's tackle exactly am I meant to be getting me teeth into then? blushing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 23, 2007 8:44 AM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
9 emoticons ya used there...i only used 2....cos im sensible tongue
Jan 23, 2007 8:58 AM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Cor blimey captain, you can count. I'm impressed laugh
But you didn't answer the question roll eyes
Jan 23, 2007 9:06 AM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
laugh well i would have been in trouble if i had to go past ten laugh

question?...well,i was doing ya a favour,i dindt want ya falling for it hook,line and sinker and being reeled in...i was being sensible roll eyes
Jan 23, 2007 9:19 AM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
You and sensible??? in the same sentence confused laugh

Next time I'll use 12 emoticons, just so you get in a mucking fuddle rolling on the floor laughing but you can borrow 2 of my fingers, ok grin
Jan 23, 2007 9:43 AM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing oh righty...thats a promise then tongue
Jan 23, 2007 9:47 AM CST What's A Player???
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
What ya gonna do with those fingers?? confused rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 23, 2007 10:01 AM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Poke him in both eyes with them, of course doh innocent rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 23, 2007 10:02 AM CST What's A Player???
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing roll eyes doh
Jan 23, 2007 10:42 AM CST What's A Player???
ramone
ramoneramoneEDINBURGH, UK38 Threads 3,826 Posts
you dont wanna do that tongue

grin drinking drinking sigh blues angel devil
Jan 23, 2007 2:19 PM CST What's A Player???
stiffin
stiffinstiffinHalifax, West Yorkshire, England UK5 Posts
Hi
We should take it positively. Player means participant in an activity like dating.
Jan 23, 2007 5:27 PM CST What's A Player???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
blushing

Oh dear help rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 24, 2007 8:10 AM CST What's A Player???
migene
migenemigenelimbo, Greater Manchester, England UK11 Threads 1,690 Posts
she wont do it ramone,shes only playing .....thats what players do tongue
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