How do I deal with losing the one I love ( Archived) (10)

I've been seeing a girl for sometime now and things seemed to be going great minus the part where she don't or didn't say much to me in way of conversation.She was big on telling me she loved me and I believed it.I thought she was the last girl I would be with.I thought the conversation would come but it never did.I've had the same problem in the past.It has always been me doing the talking.I could sit for hours and say nothing waiting for her to tell me things but it would never go that far.regaurdless I was inlove and all the sudden out of nowhere she tells me she can't go on anymore.I did mention a few times that I needed her to talk to me and be open with me.I guess my question is.Don't females have thigns to talk about anymore.Questions.I'm sure i'm just upset and haven't found the right girl yet.But GOD!!!how many more does it take to be really happy.

If this happened to you before, then your are "probably" to nice!! Some women don't like "Nice" guys..So let your next relationship be with someone who really appreciates you for who you are!!!

Best advice is to be yourself. Don't be someone you are not. We all try to be perfect and caring and blah blah blah. But is that really you>? My exgirlfriend can have any man she desires, but why is she only hooked on me? Because I tried something new and became myself. If she talked too much about herself, I made fun of her and told her to shut up. Well not like that, but I just became myself. You get tired of putting up this front for people who turn out to be ungrateful.

Just keep looking..it's that simple. The hard part is finding the right one. Good luck!

Okay in a sort of serious yet humorous way...If a girl is not talking there's something wrong with her

I will flip the coin on this and say just continue being yourself.
When she comes along there will be no shortage of conversation.
Enjoy exploring and seeking your ideal match...

Thanks for the advice.As far as being too nice hmmm.I'm nice sometimes and sometimes i'm not.For the most part yes Bur when one is trying hard to make something work and it seems like the other doesn't care but says she does,then you tend to get a lil bit on the uneasy side of things.I truly believe that people today odnt' have much to say.Or maybe I just have too much to say lol.



-GOD Bless

Had my whole marriage go because of somethiing like that. I have no idea where I'll end up or when but I know for damn sure it will be closer than this time. Experience is painful but relish it for what it is and learn from it good luck...

I just wanted to reply to your post; I'm 45 and was married for 21 years we (I) was happy till one day I came home from work to find all her stuff was gone with a few things of Mine also!
She never said she wasn't happy, Infact till the end she said she was Very happy....... And Like the FOOL I AM I was fooled. now I find myself 45 and trying to Date- meet woman my own age who arn't BIGGER than I am, or Married 4 times, or have 5 boys under !!!!!
I GUESS I'M TRYING TO SAY- YOUR NOT ALONE IN THE BOAT!!!!!
O she married a guy she worked with less than a year from our divorce!
If you ever figure out what the DEAL is YOU let me know, OK?
I won't Hold my breath to long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Bob.