do you ever get over this feeling (46)
mwyke1carrollton, Ohio USA2 Threads 9 Postsdo you ever get over the feeling after loosing someone that you spent 7 years with that you will never find love again. i feel so alone and unhappy right now
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Try thirty years, Mwyke1, the first time, and seven years the second time!!
Yes, you do get 'over it'....
Yes, you do get 'over it'....
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its takes time as time heals all wounds. each one of us is differnt so the length of that time varies.
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It will pass.....be gentle with yourself....take the time to reflect over what you learned about yourself, from the relationship,(the positives) and give yourself time to heal.
We are never alone, sometimes we just forget......
We are never alone, sometimes we just forget......
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ya dwelling on the wrong bits ...think of good things that happened not the negative vibes later ........roll with the punches then get on wqith it ...........ok lecture over for today
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Don't cry sweetheart. Yes, you will get over it but you can't sit and think about it constantly.
How we get over things is by introducing new things to our lives.
How we get over things is by introducing new things to our lives.
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Hey sweetness - I know the feeling very well. I have come out of a 20 year marriage. Knew him three years beforehand. It was extremely difficult for me and my kids. Unfortunately, time is the only thing on our side through these tough breakups. I promise you that I am living proof that you will get through it. As hard as it may be, try to re-evalute your present situation, things maybe you've wanted to do but didn't and things will start to look up slowly but surely.
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you will heal .... everyone do, eventualy. You are not alone ...your little girl needs to see her mother happy ... think about her
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did the concert tickets help ya hun
sorry about the venue change nathens fault
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Hugs to you, I believe that it will pass with time, the feeling of being alone, and unhappiness.Each individual is different and there is no set time for grieving the loss of somebody special.
What you can never replace is having another one love you the same way.
I know, after 6 yrs of losing the man that truly love me...I can find love again, and experience a great new feeling, but the previous love, remains intact, and unique, and no one can be jealous of that.
Ok, I gave too much input, I hope it helps.
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It takes time to heal. The first loves are always the hardest. You are very young and have the rest of your life ahead of you as well as a beautiful daughter to bring you joy. Take your time to heal first and in the meantime just enjoy your daughter and find good people to talk to. Best Of Luck! 
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Yes, you do get over it eventually. Cry all the tears you need to cry, and when you are done, move. Don't think about what you might have done wrong, or he did wrong. Take the time to get to know yourself, because you need to be prepared for your great love, that's to come. You cannot expect somebody to get to know you and then tell you who you are. You cannot forfeit the power of knowledge.
You will heal, and you will be powerful and in control of you. And of your love.
We are here for you. And we have loved and lost loved ones too. We know first hand.
You will heal, and you will be powerful and in control of you. And of your love.
We are here for you. And we have loved and lost loved ones too. We know first hand.
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Tears do heal the soul...
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Didn't want to be your partner in crime for "jacking" this thread but.....
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Just remember you are a good person and worthy of being loved. You have touched me and I sincerely wish the best for you and your daughter.------ This thread is Archived ------
Not to criticize but this is really not the best choice of threads to hijack. This is a serious matter to the author. 
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lionhearted.... do something other than criticize people, you may be right, but i don't think they are trying to take over the thread, you are doing the same thing they are
otherwise.....
i think it's important to move on and learn from the past so you can be even better in the future, for me it doesn't take long for me to move on, but i push myself through it every step of the way, i make myself deal with it, and then let it go, it took a couple of months for me, and then when i got fed up with him changing his mind, i started writing emails.... and found the man of my dreams, all in the same day.... a couple weeks later, i was madly in love
so what i want to say is that you need to push yourself a little bit or stay there forever, sometimes you have to take babysteps, and make the decision to move on to something better, if one relationship is over for whatever reason, than it wasn't the right one to begin with.... you should look forward with hope
otherwise.....
i think it's important to move on and learn from the past so you can be even better in the future, for me it doesn't take long for me to move on, but i push myself through it every step of the way, i make myself deal with it, and then let it go, it took a couple of months for me, and then when i got fed up with him changing his mind, i started writing emails.... and found the man of my dreams, all in the same day.... a couple weeks later, i was madly in love
so what i want to say is that you need to push yourself a little bit or stay there forever, sometimes you have to take babysteps, and make the decision to move on to something better, if one relationship is over for whatever reason, than it wasn't the right one to begin with.... you should look forward with hope
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Life is all about change. We don't always understand
or agree with it. All we can do is take from our
experiences, learn, and grow. The rest will come in
time. Remember these are mere moments in your life.
Happiness will find you again.
or agree with it. All we can do is take from our
experiences, learn, and grow. The rest will come in
time. Remember these are mere moments in your life.
Happiness will find you again.
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