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My older son 31, and my youngest child 27, moved in with me few months ago, because they both have a low income. I rent a 2 bedroom apartment, with enough space blocked off in the livingroom for privacy with a single bed, so that's how we're living.
Today, I met someone downtown, who I haven't seen in almost 2 years, she asked another my children, somehow, the conversation got on the financial side, and when she heard that the two living with me have to pay part of the rent, she said I was being "unfair towards my children,".....they each pay less than 1/3 of the rent, but have to buy their own food and toiletries. The woman and her husband, own a house, and their 2 children aged 20 and 25, live at home, and pay nothing.
Growing up, my mom always said "there's no such thing as hotel mama." She made sure that the 6 of us, even the boys, knew how to wash, cook, and take care of a household. We even paid her a small part of our salaries for rent and food, I taught my 3 children the same.
Am I being unfair to my grown children by having them pay rent, after all it's something they would have to do, if and when their finances improve, and they move out again.