I am recently new to this dating scene. It has been almost eighteen years since I had to worry about this type of thing and I am a little rust. I don't want to violate any rules or turn anyone off that may really be the right girl for me. I am recently seperated and I don't reall know what will come from this. If you ahve any advice let me knwo. I will be honest and say that I am looking for some physical stuff but I will keep it at that. Thanks
not that my opinion matters at this time, this is bad advice. Although I find it nearly impossible for one to find love online. People are usually not theirselves online, and no one really here knows my past or my dark side. Therefore it is safe to say you have better odds outside in the real world. But this is a great place for friends and advice. Lots of very smart people on here, and it blows my mind.
Hello Your profile read nicely and being honest is a good point. Just take your time to get to know the people and you will do fine. Welcome to the forum and relax.
Perhaps you should not mention that you are looking for "physical stuff".
I'm sure there are lots of ladies who are looking for the same and you said you want to be honest, but...being that you are recently separated, you will be setting yourself up to attract a smaller number of women.
Lots of ladies don't date separated guys who are looking for physical stuff.
Of course, most of the folks on here are looking for that too, but they just don't come right out and say it
Kudos for putting the writing on the wall. I do not feel anyone who is recently separated should be entertaining a relationship, not only for the other persons emotional well being, but your own. As far as just going for the "physical stuff" could be more confusing for you...and even if honest with someone else - hurtful. Just my two cents. Live and learn - hope it all works out for you!
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