Would you date someone 30 years older than you (65)
Is this some clickbait? lol
When I was 25 I would probably easily have dated (is the american expression I think, lease with option to buy) a woman at 40 to 45. Yea. A lot more up than that a guy is not 'allowed' to go I think.
For girls it's a bit different.
The most extreme case I heard about from real life was when my dad at 55 dated a girl at 19 years of age and they actually stayed together for the next 13 years. So you can say I'm rather biased.
So I say "no problem" - but how wise it is is a different matter.
When I was 25 I would probably easily have dated (is the american expression I think, lease with option to buy) a woman at 40 to 45. Yea. A lot more up than that a guy is not 'allowed' to go I think.
For girls it's a bit different.
The most extreme case I heard about from real life was when my dad at 55 dated a girl at 19 years of age and they actually stayed together for the next 13 years. So you can say I'm rather biased.
So I say "no problem" - but how wise it is is a different matter.
Grandsiozzie: Is this some clickbait? lol
When I was 25 I would probably easily have dated (is the american expression I think, lease with option to buy) a woman at 40 to 45. Yea. A lot more up than that a guy is not 'allowed' to go I think.
For girls it's a bit different.
The most extreme case I heard about from real life was when my dad at 55 dated a girl at 19 years of age and they actually stayed together for the next 13 years. So you can say I'm rather biased.
So I say "no problem" - but how wise it is is a different matter.
So I take it that you don't have or see a problem with it, that's interesting , didn't think anyone would be in agreement with it.When I was 25 I would probably easily have dated (is the american expression I think, lease with option to buy) a woman at 40 to 45. Yea. A lot more up than that a guy is not 'allowed' to go I think.
For girls it's a bit different.
The most extreme case I heard about from real life was when my dad at 55 dated a girl at 19 years of age and they actually stayed together for the next 13 years. So you can say I'm rather biased.
So I say "no problem" - but how wise it is is a different matter.
freedomcomes: As the title says, would you date someone 30 years older than you under any circumstances.
As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
I certainly wouldn't date someone 150 years old!As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
(my avatar is 120)But, someone 30 years younger, why not?
It would definitely make me feel younger.
freedomcomes: So I take it that you don't have or see a problem with it, that's interesting , didn't think anyone would be in agreement with it.
No problem. And if anything, the oldest one is the one who risk the most if you ask me. He could have his heart broken rather easily as she moves on... and few think about that aspect.d4nI314: I certainly wouldn't date someone 150 years old!
(my avatar is 120)
But, someone 30 years younger, why not?
It would definitely make me feel younger.
What if you were the younger one though.?(my avatar is 120)
But, someone 30 years younger, why not?
It would definitely make me feel younger.
freedomcomes: What if you were the younger one though.?
I suppose if the older one moves on its to a place of no return ??Take me as an example. I'm 52. If I went on town more often-- wouldn't be surprised if I could evne gat laid with as young as 32 year olds. Right... then after a few warm loving weekends she sends me an sms - "I been thinking.... perhaps we are too different and want different things in life and ... yea.. you know... blabla... and I wish you good luck and thanks for a lovely few weeks together!"
Well guess who will feel down then.
Riite... everybody forgets those feeligs stay with you all through life and my bet is, you're MORE vulnerable at 50-60 than when 29!
Conclusion: at 30 date a 60 year all you want but don't think he has no emotions and only want that young bever.
Well guess who will feel down then.
Riite... everybody forgets those feeligs stay with you all through life and my bet is, you're MORE vulnerable at 50-60 than when 29!
Conclusion: at 30 date a 60 year all you want but don't think he has no emotions and only want that young bever.
Grandsiozzie: Take me as an example. I'm 52. If I went on town more often-- wouldn't be surprised if I could evne gat laid with as young as 32 year olds. Right... then after a few warm loving weekends she sends me an sms - "I been thinking.... perhaps we are too different and want different things in life and ... yea.. you know... blabla... and I wish you good luck and thanks for a lovely few weeks together!"
Well guess who will feel down then.
Riite... everybody forgets those feeligs stay with you all through life and my bet is, you're MORE vulnerable at 50-60 than when 29!
Conclusion: at 30 date a 60 year all you want but don't think he has no emotions and only want that young bever.
Either way life changes and it can happen to anyone whether young or old, if we were wise we would never bother with anyone ,unfortunately we do fall for someone and the break up can be very hard .Well guess who will feel down then.
Riite... everybody forgets those feeligs stay with you all through life and my bet is, you're MORE vulnerable at 50-60 than when 29!
Conclusion: at 30 date a 60 year all you want but don't think he has no emotions and only want that young bever.
Negrophilia isn’t really my thing to be honest
Youcannow: Negrophilia isn’t really my thing to be honest
Will you look up the meaning of Negrophilia, as it does not fit in with what we are discussing 
freedomcomes: Will you look up the meaning of Negrophilia, as it does not fit in with what we are discussing
Ok . I wouldn’t date a 90 year old .freedomcomes: As the title says, would you date someone 30 years older than you under any circumstances.
As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
No, we have different goals and interests in life. I might end up taking care of him. While he was talking about WWI, I'd be discussing Taylor Swift. I've seen some women from my country marry them, but I seriously doubt if they truly love the guy. Honestly, it's more of an advantageous for the men than the women. She gets the green card; he gets a free caregiver, lover, and wife.As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
Youcannow: Ok . I wouldn’t date a 90 year old .
I bet you are one of those who says your age preference is from 18 to 99 on your profileI would still look up that word as I think you meant something else.
Dani_290: No, we have different goals and interests in life. I might end up taking care of him. While he was talking about WWI, I'd be discussing Taylor Swift. I've seen some women from my country marry them, but I seriously doubt if they truly love the guy. Honestly, it's more of an advantageous for the men than the women. She gets the green card; he gets a free caregiver, lover, and wife.
That depends on the age of of the man though, say if you were 30 and he was 60, would that be OK?freedomcomes: That depends on the age of of the man though, say if you were 30 and he was 60, would that be OK?
No offense intended to anyone here, but I'm looking for someone I can spend my life growing with. If I truly love him, age won't be an issue, as long as he doesn't have a problematic ex-wife or troublesome kids. freedomcomes: I bet you are one of those who says your age preference is from 18 to 99 on your profile
I would still look up that word as I think you meant something else.
To be honest , it was a choice that was on there when I created my profile & I never bothered to change it . I would still look up that word as I think you meant something else.
I would date a woman 30 year younger either.
Dani_290: No offense intended to anyone here, but I'm looking for someone I can spend my life growing with. If I truly love him, age won't be an issue, as long as he doesn't have a problematic ex-wife or troublesome kids.
You are being very optimistic if you think a guy 30 years older than yourself will outlive youYoucannow: To be honest , it was a choice that was on there when I created my profile & I never bothered to change it .
I would date a woman 30 year younger either.
Did you mean you wouldn't date a woman 30 years younger?I would date a woman 30 year younger either.
freedomcomes: As the title says, would you date someone 30 years older than you under any circumstances.
As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
If you're contemplating whether to date the guy, just go ahead if he makes you happy. After all, age is just a number.As we all know , an older person can feel a lot younger than their age ,and some are more mature than their younger age, ,love to hear genuine opinions on this.
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