Well that the question I asked myself all the time. It has been four years since my divorce and I have not even dated yet. Maybe its because I have really not been looking. I think it depends on each individual situation. But I think my time is now.
Pompey70Portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK342 posts
Personally I think it depends on how much u loved that person. It's an unaswerable question similar 2 "How long is a piece of string?" good luck in your search tho.
There is no rule of thumb time-wise, if you do think its time for you now - go for it!! There are lots of lovely people out there - and in here. Just be cautious though, some are not all they seem and there are "Players" around. I put on my profile I was not interested in those with inflated egos or bad manners but that's what I got!! Otherwise, date and enjoy yourself. Keep us posted as to how it goes, yeah? Good luck, honey. Dx.
Thanks for all your encouragement - Don't worry, I plan to take my time and I will be very cautious. I have heard about some real winners that play on people's emotions and scammed alot out of them. How can those scammers live with themselves - who knows!
rule of thumb? did you know that in the 1400s it was legal for men to beat their wives...as long as they used a stick no wider than their thumb. nice little bit of trivia. that is where that comes from.
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