Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone. (34)

Feb 25, 2007 12:23 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
vividAura
vividAuravividAuraPalm Bay, Florida USA3 Threads 6 Posts
I have been on this website for a little while and met a couple good people, but they all live in differnt states or countries. I don't understand why its so hard to meet anybody in my own area. Its not like Im ugly and even if I was I would think there would be a couple girls down here who like a good looking normal white dudeconfused
Feb 25, 2007 12:31 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
I have been on the site for quite a while.
Not really sure. But have noticed not many from
Florida post in the forums. Hopefully that will
change. It has been a good way to get to now
others and their personalities. Been in the
same situtation since July 2006...
dunno

Looking at you...
I don't understand it either.
wink
Nice ta meet ya.
handshake
Feb 25, 2007 12:36 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
tuffyneck
tuffynecktuffyneckWinter Haven, Florida USA1 Threads 7 Posts
Your absolutely right, I haven't talked to anyone from my area on this site???
Feb 25, 2007 12:41 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Now you have...
(smiling)

I have met 2 ladies from Florida but that's about it...
conversing
Feb 25, 2007 3:20 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
Marlena9989
Marlena9989Marlena9989Boca Raton, Florida USA2 Posts
even when you meet someone, you don't know what to believe, they are always looking for someone else.
Feb 25, 2007 3:56 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
True true...

Never know how many others they may be speaking with
on a more personal level...handshake
Feb 25, 2007 4:01 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
Yeah.... me 3....

Been in and out of this site for a while.... and besides one case of harassment... haven't gotten much from it.

That's with interaction in some of the forums too...

Ah well... Here's to waiting....cheers
Feb 25, 2007 5:47 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
jonesy2007
jonesy2007jonesy2007Dade City, Florida USA1 Threads 3 Posts
Yeah, I hear ya. Guess it's true, sometimes we get what we pay for.
Feb 25, 2007 9:13 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
evie_girl_fl
evie_girl_flevie_girl_flFayetteville, North Carolina USA9 Threads 967 Posts
My answer to that question about finding someone from our own home town is this; I think the majority of people like the idea of meeting others from different areas because they think locals are boring, and not to mention most think the grass is greener on the other side. Just an opinion...

yawn
Feb 25, 2007 9:42 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
lalig511
lalig511lalig511Sarasota, Florida USA7 Posts
AHHHHH...THERE ARE ALOT OF GOOD PEOPLE IN FLORIDA...JUST TAKES PATIENTS TO FIND THAT SPECIAL ONE! WHEN YOU ARE IN A CROWD OF GIRLS, HOW CAN YOU TELL WHICH ONE IS SPECIAL? BE PATIENT...comfort
Feb 25, 2007 10:08 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
charliez26
charliez26charliez26Sebring, Florida USA26 Threads 627 Posts
well i post alot and live in fl laugh wave
Feb 26, 2007 3:24 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
charliez26
charliez26charliez26Sebring, Florida USA26 Threads 627 Posts
wave just keep it real and be your self here and im very sure you ll chat and meet peoples i have alot!innocent
Feb 26, 2007 4:06 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
tonysurf1
tonysurf1tonysurf1SILVER GLEN, Florida USA4 Threads 21 Posts
I've only tried this cyber thing for a short while and it seems pretty cool.Maybe I'll figure out how to get my camera to post a pick someday.Hopefully I'm actually talking to woman and not a 600 pound man from Iowa.Wouldn't be good at all!jaw drop
Feb 28, 2007 12:00 AM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
why not? BROADEN YOUR HORIZONS! yay rolling on the floor laughing cheers
Feb 28, 2007 1:44 AM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
KelticGemini
KelticGeminiKelticGeminiImrryr, USA22 Posts
Hello Fellow Floridians wave
Feb 28, 2007 4:20 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
vividAura
vividAuravividAuraPalm Bay, Florida USA3 Threads 6 Posts
banana Hello , I m as real a floridian you can get , surfer,fisherman , run yellow lights, know spanish farely well, and have seen it grow from the eightys till now , god the west is growing . head banger
Mar 2, 2007 6:00 AM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
katjor813
katjor813katjor813Valrico, Florida USA3 Threads 141 Posts
This new forum should help. You are right however, most people that I have met on this site live very far from me. It can be hard but remember if you really care for each other distance should be something that you should try to overcome. I know I have a huge romantic streak!
Mar 5, 2007 12:02 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
ronjie
ronjieronjieAltamonte Springs, Florida USA9 Threads 617 Posts
I don't recommend that... you will usually get caught in the end... and the end is usually worse than not having anything at all.

The best I have right now is a singles group that I've joined here in Daytona ... we get together on weekends... have dinner... go to outings... and sometimes have camping weekends.

Beats not having anything at all...

Ron V.
Jul 6, 2007 1:39 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
Ani514
Ani514Ani514miami, Florida USA12 Threads 24 Posts
Just hang in there I'm sure the right girl will come along and you be in a Happy Ever After....good times.. Good Luck...hugs...anicheering
Jul 6, 2007 6:25 PM CST Why is it so hard to get a real person who actually really wants to find someone.
missyg
missygmissygArcadia, Florida USA10 Threads 500 Posts
I agree with evie on this one...but not just boring. I live in a small town, everyone knows everyone, lol. Not much of a selection. This site seems small as well, so I doubt I will ever meet a local on here anyway. It's ok though, I like the conversations that take place here. I have learned since being single...it takes alot of patience, otherwise you will settle and end up single again...have to start over! This hasn't happened to me, just a theory. Yes, I would like to get it right this time.
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