helping with self-esteem ( Archived) (71)

Oct 17, 2005 6:30 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
how do build or rebuild yourself esteem
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Oct 17, 2005 6:33 PM CST helping with self-esteem
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
Coming from someone who dosn't have much, i do it one step at a time. Like, I'll say to myself "YES I OPENED THIS PEPSI CAN!" Then after that you can say "Yes I can drive without crashing!" Little stuff like that will build up, since theres lots of little things to be happy about!

Allen
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Oct 17, 2005 6:33 PM CST helping with self-esteem
migivadamsbusted
migivadamsbustedmigivadamsbustedhoward cnty, USA15 Threads 1,542 Posts
it has to come within you first, its all about attitude.
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Oct 17, 2005 6:34 PM CST helping with self-esteem
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Stay away from people that insist putting you down. If they cannot repect how you feel, then they can stay away...
do something good for yourself. Even tiny things are great. And, do at least one a day. after awhile the guilt of doing for you will ease...

Talk to good freinds.
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Oct 17, 2005 6:36 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
i have some self-esteem but its hard when guys you date say "Can we just be friends?" after they get want
but thats ok cause it aint happen' no more dang it
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Oct 17, 2005 6:39 PM CST helping with self-esteem
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Do you give it to them right away?
Maybe the type? I dunno,hon. Do you see a pattern?
Self - esteem is something you lose over time, hon. Not from just a few dates.
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Oct 17, 2005 6:39 PM CST helping with self-esteem
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
I know what you need...a big stick to people that guy with =D

Allen
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Oct 17, 2005 6:44 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
no i dont nene
i have been doing good bout getting my self-esteem back though thanks to you guys and putting up with the maddness
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Oct 17, 2005 6:49 PM CST helping with self-esteem
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
What madness? lol You're fine, hon:)
A great question. I think there's more low self-esteem among members that they'll admit;)
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Oct 17, 2005 6:52 PM CST helping with self-esteem
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
YOU CAN DO IT!!
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Oct 17, 2005 6:53 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
thanks nene
i think there are too but hey i must have some sort of self-esteem to ask this to people that i only know from here
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Oct 17, 2005 6:59 PM CST helping with self-esteem
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Anytime, you;)

You asked the question. That takes alot.
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Oct 17, 2005 7:15 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
thanks for sharing karla that was lovely hahah
my parents were not that harsh but i know that they still wished i would have been and done better and my brother doesnt help he seems to do things bigger and better than me
i recently went to school and got my degree and had a hard time doing it and all they say is yeah good job but i can see that they really dont care
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Oct 17, 2005 7:17 PM CST helping with self-esteem
smashingpumpkin
smashingpumpkinsmashingpumpkin3 Threads 213 Posts
a weekend in paris with me ought to do it.
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Oct 17, 2005 7:19 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
what the heck you sayin pumkin
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Oct 17, 2005 7:20 PM CST helping with self-esteem
lovely38
lovely38lovely38Peterborough, Canada3 Threads 168 Posts
lol your funny froggy!

I know what you mean. My sister and brother are the same..always bigger and better!

I went to college too and graduated with honours after having Laura.. they pushed me to do it.. Then it was like oh good! lol
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Oct 17, 2005 7:20 PM CST helping with self-esteem
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
He's a braggart Laurie, lol...
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Oct 17, 2005 7:21 PM CST helping with self-esteem
lovely38
lovely38lovely38Peterborough, Canada3 Threads 168 Posts
I think pumpkin is saying that a weekend with him will help your self esteem lmao.. wow!
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Oct 17, 2005 7:22 PM CST helping with self-esteem
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
well then he needs to e-mail me bout
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Oct 17, 2005 7:24 PM CST helping with self-esteem
smashingpumpkin
smashingpumpkinsmashingpumpkin3 Threads 213 Posts
thankyou lovely your name suits you and you are correct.
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