7 day rule (28)
sweetie, personal sites are all about find some one who truly makes you happy. I do not think it is a bad thing as long as you warn him about ti before it happens. repect him, adn he should repect your choice, you know what I mean ciki?
-Sherri A.K.A. Raven.
-Sherri A.K.A. Raven.
And saying that really did not help that facted did it?
Lol sorry new to this last message was for the girl who is from london say he may think you are crazy, that was not putting idea's in any one heads
-sherri
-sherri
Hi,
I have been in a long distance relationship before and it does require a lot of work, trust, good communication and will power and patience. I personaly am not sure if I could ever get into a long distance relationship ever again. It was just too much for me and I am the type of person who is physical. Who craves and have that need for affection and it can really get me down.
You have every right to have your 7 day rule. Yes maybe there was an emergency or a reason for the delay but 5 days??? Come on! To me if the person was really into you they would do their best to try to contact you in some way. And to me in some way its weird that they have not offered their phone number to you.
What also peeves me is when someone says they will call or write and they don't. If I tell someone I will call them I do and if I can't, I try to let them know at least so they are not sitting around waiting for me.
I had that happen to me last night. This guy I was seeing told me he was going out with friends and would call me after. I told him that I would wait up and he promised that he would contact me. I waited till 3:30am for him to call and got fed up and called him because I was worried that maybe something happened to him. He was home. His excuse was that he didn't want to bother me. I had told him 3 freaking times to call because I would be up late waiting. The least he could have done was call me earlier to let me know he wouldn't call or something. That just turned me right off and ticked me off the bat instantly and drew red flags for me.
Anywho sorry this was long lol
You have every right to have your rule and by all means stick to it too!!
The best of luck to you!
I have been in a long distance relationship before and it does require a lot of work, trust, good communication and will power and patience. I personaly am not sure if I could ever get into a long distance relationship ever again. It was just too much for me and I am the type of person who is physical. Who craves and have that need for affection and it can really get me down.
You have every right to have your 7 day rule. Yes maybe there was an emergency or a reason for the delay but 5 days??? Come on! To me if the person was really into you they would do their best to try to contact you in some way. And to me in some way its weird that they have not offered their phone number to you.
What also peeves me is when someone says they will call or write and they don't. If I tell someone I will call them I do and if I can't, I try to let them know at least so they are not sitting around waiting for me.
I had that happen to me last night. This guy I was seeing told me he was going out with friends and would call me after. I told him that I would wait up and he promised that he would contact me. I waited till 3:30am for him to call and got fed up and called him because I was worried that maybe something happened to him. He was home. His excuse was that he didn't want to bother me. I had told him 3 freaking times to call because I would be up late waiting. The least he could have done was call me earlier to let me know he wouldn't call or something. That just turned me right off and ticked me off the bat instantly and drew red flags for me.
Anywho sorry this was long lol
You have every right to have your rule and by all means stick to it too!!
The best of luck to you!
I agree that after 7 days no contact then I would'nt waste my time,,Unless it was a family emergency or they ended up in the hospital for some reason where access to a computer is diffacult,,,but if they have your PH# then theres no excuse
Well after reading all the replies, I think we all know now who your having a long distant relationship with. Unless I'm a hole short of a donut, I'm pretty sure he's replied in this forum.
I commend your 7 day rule. I actually have a 3 day rule myself. Its something I've always had with relationships. Just wanted you to know that if things don't work out with this guy, it happens for a reason. I believe we're all apart of some devine plan. Perhaps it means there's someone better out there for you. Having said that, don't allow this experience to dishearten you or lower your self worth.
I believe everybody deserves to be appreciated and respected by yourself and others. With everybodies advice, I imagine you have alot to think about. Just remember, its your decision and your possible happiness at stake. I think, when your head, heart and instincts are saying the same thing - then listen to it.
Best wishes, Audie AKA AUD27
I commend your 7 day rule. I actually have a 3 day rule myself. Its something I've always had with relationships. Just wanted you to know that if things don't work out with this guy, it happens for a reason. I believe we're all apart of some devine plan. Perhaps it means there's someone better out there for you. Having said that, don't allow this experience to dishearten you or lower your self worth.
I believe everybody deserves to be appreciated and respected by yourself and others. With everybodies advice, I imagine you have alot to think about. Just remember, its your decision and your possible happiness at stake. I think, when your head, heart and instincts are saying the same thing - then listen to it.
Best wishes, Audie AKA AUD27
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*hugs CaptainMurray* Thanks for that, Cap'n; You're pretty sweet yourself, and I really appreciate the compliment.