Shacking up-----vs marriage (22)

With all the hate and dis likes on this post wow its like no one will ever love again .. Id hope thats not true .

Iv been single for 25 yrs . but its not for any of the hate reasons iv read here.. I stayes single as a single dad raising 2 kids . now there grown and it time for my life to begain.
If I had any the worrys that you all bring out id have to just pack and run..lol

Im retired at 51. from a great job . saved money well every thing is paid for but the house , # yrs to go and I did this for the hope of starting a marriage with out the worrys of money proublems . but reading the negs here it makes a man want to just stay single and not to belive that the word of love is alive .. is this true . ?

I feel like some of the proublems iv read here just might be brought on by them and not always the other persons fault. You know the old saying ... her side ,, his side and then the truth .

Im sure the future for most is going to be a bright one. and not as gloom and doom as some make it .. wow if its that bad then why are they on here looking again.. after 3 bad marriages as one has I dont belive id be looking again .. are at least be on a singles site looking .. i hope the ones I meet on here arnt as bad as this subject is being to made out .. well I guess Ill try and see.. the lord willing and me trying .. it might work out ..lol