What kind of man/woman do you like, the one who slow you down or keep you up? ( Archived) (6)

I personally like a man who strive to do his best Not a conformist, can tolerate a man with not ambitious in his life. I don’t need or want someone next to me who slow me down. I am not a psychologist nor a therapist, do not need a man with problems to add to my life I have plenty just by myself, so why do I need him for? I consider myself to be a good person but I'm not Mothere Teresa. A man with character who knows where he is, where does he wants to go, what needs to be done and do it, not someone who sits and waits for answers but solutions instead. I going to give an example because if there is something I admire from immigrants(we all are immigrants, except Native Americans), who come to this country with nothing in their pockets but they accomplish a lot, do to their sacrifices, hard work and dedication.
How about you?

i like a man that can keep up with me, i am very active and have alot of spirit and i need someone that is the same, i have met men that are nothing more than a weight to keep the couch on the floor and so dang depressing that it is pittyful. i look for a man that likes to laugh and make other laugh. Now about the men having problems, i am understanding to a certain point, we all have problems and i am willing to help the man anyway i can but i have limits as to how much and what i put up with. i try to treat ppl the way i want to be treated. I want a man that isnt' always a follower or always a leader, if he can't make his mind up as to where he wants to eat then how is he ever going to make the real important decisions?Just my point of view for ya hun.

Thanks Sissi for your comments, when I say problems I mean depressing over the top problems, more on the Phychologic nature.

awww now those kinds of problems i am NOT dealing with, hell i do good to deal with mine...lol

someone who keeps up. someone with goals and ambitions. i have things in my life i am about to do, and i want someone that's not lagging behind. someone who goes out and gets what they want. we might have different career paths, but that's ok as long as she takes care of business. i don't care if she makes more than me.