How do you decide who should be the one to move? (27)
SpecialExChickwoodbury, USA1 Threads 4 PostsSo say that you really start to get into a serious relationship and it comes down to moving in with someone, should the more financially stable person move out of state or the person with the most family members in the state move.. how do you decide????????
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Hello SpecialExChick.
I would think the more financially stable person should stay where they are at, because they might not (and probably won't) find a job that pays as good as the one they already have. Just my thoughts though. Hope it helps you.
I would think the more financially stable person should stay where they are at, because they might not (and probably won't) find a job that pays as good as the one they already have. Just my thoughts though. Hope it helps you.
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OMG, come on...the chick moves regardless of financial status. I mean what dude in his right mind would move for a woman? If a dude moved for a woman that would be giving her 'hand' - now he'll need her for things, stuff. Any guy that would cave in for a woman like that deserves to have his male status revoked; he should be tarred, feathered, things, and stuff. He should be removed from his family tree, harassed, name called and bad language should be used against him for the sake of the world.
That'll teach him for going out on a limb to where the fruit is.
That'll teach him for going out on a limb to where the fruit is.
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unbelievable
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Love it! LMAOOOOO
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wow you sure have some strong fellings there, no wonder your still single or probably divorced hahah
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hmm,question without an answer really-but i would think that the majority intends more to the financial side. By seen any kind of financial status, i personally wouldn´t care, as long i think, i´ve done the right thing
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Whoever has the least to move.............lol
Or,flip a coin,heads you move,tails you stay...lmao
Or,flip a coin,heads you move,tails you stay...lmao
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maybe you should both move half way
lmao
lmao
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WELL......having been having this VERY conversation in recent weeks here is how we decided that I, when the time is right, would move there, "there" being California, "here" being Texas.......
He has lived in the same area all of his life
He has a job there that he loves (which we all know is hard to find!!)
He has three beautiful children that he is totally addicted to! Love it!! :)
He and his family are extreamly close.......
I'm an Air Force brat so up and moving is no biggie...
I do not work at present....
I have one child who's biological father has turned out to be CRAP and never sees her as it is...
My family and I are close, but get along MUCH better apart! LOL!
I suppose everyone and every situation is different but there is ours! Hahahaaaa!!! Pretty easy choice I think!
He has lived in the same area all of his life
He has a job there that he loves (which we all know is hard to find!!)
He has three beautiful children that he is totally addicted to! Love it!! :)
He and his family are extreamly close.......
I'm an Air Force brat so up and moving is no biggie...
I do not work at present....
I have one child who's biological father has turned out to be CRAP and never sees her as it is...
My family and I are close, but get along MUCH better apart! LOL!
I suppose everyone and every situation is different but there is ours! Hahahaaaa!!! Pretty easy choice I think!
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well you could go half way in the other direction then ya could be somewhere in russia maybe lol
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I think if you meet someone that special. It would depend on whose job is more stable and family to.
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I think Job and family would be two big determining factors...especially people with children!
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I find that playing rock,paper scissors is a good way to decide unless I lose.
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Who ever is the most stable, after you move in together and get on your feet , you can always move again..But I think who ever is more stable in every manner...
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each relationship would be different. a combinaion of the job factor and (seems obvious) who feels the most comfortable moving. because of school, divorce, finances, and weird circumstance i've mooved 6 times in the past year (within the same 200 mile area) so i would be rather reluctant to move. just depends on the couple.
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well for one if you do find true love online youshouldnt pack up and move. you should meet and see how it goes face to face for at leasta year. otherwise you are kinda stuck in a new place where you know noone but the guy/girl you moved for. and with no job its hard to move again. sure some people it would work great and you might not have any problems. but other people hide their true self real well. and anyone can lie with typed words. you cant read the sincerity in typed words. so be careful and keep your head in the game not your heart and dreams that dont seem real or to good to be true.
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